need help virgian

[browneyes123]

hi all, could anybody advise me regarding giveing oral sex to a girl, you see i never gave oral so i havent a clue whats involved, replys from guys or girls on open forum or if you want to pm me.

 

[emap]

Ask her what she likes, and try the alphabet. That means lick out the alphabet on her, doesn't have to be perfect just move your mouth around.

Also check out this THREAD, has a link for a video that probably would be good for you.

 

[browneyes123]

tony

Ask her what she likes, and try the alphabet. That means lick out the alphabet on her, doesn't have to be perfect just move your mouth around.

Also check out this THREAD, has a link for a video that probably would be good for you.

thats great emap, thanks,

 

[breezyblue]

enthusiasm, enthusiasm, enthusiasm! tell her how beautiful you think her pussy is and how soft/wet/lovely it feels when you stroke it etc. i cant stress enough how important it is that the girl be comfortable and know that you are having a good time - it will help her relax especially if she is new to receiving. Don't put stress on yourself to do everything perfectly because inevitably the first time wont be perfect. the important thing is that you two enjoy each other.

 

[satindesire]

First off, you need to be familiar with a woman's anatomy.

http://www.justeves.com/adolescence/female_reproductive_system.shtml

here's a few illustrations and diagrams with descriptions of each part.

Now, a woman is built very similar to a man in that she receives sexual pleasure mainly by the stimulations of very specific areas of the body. You want to focus mainly on her clitoris.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Clitoris

Only until you recognize her different anatomy can you then focus on your technique and understand what cunnilingus is about.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Cunniligus

The most important thing you need to rememeber is COMMUNICATE with her. Only when you become comfortable talking about sex with her should you be intimate with her.

Welcome to Literotica!

 

[SweetErika]

Every time I see this title, I keep thinking a Virginian needs help.

There are loads of threads on performing oral sex around here. Check out The Blank Manual sticky at the top of the main How To page, for starters.

Start light and increase pressure gradually, according to her feedback. If you need more feedback from her, ask for it, then LISTEN to what she says, how she sounds and her body language.

Tease, but when she says "Don't stop!" DON'T STOP!!! Therefore, you should probably start doing tongue and jaw exercises NOW, as those muscles can get very sore and tired during oral since we move them in ways we normally wouldn't.

 

[DangerousCurvz]

I am a Virginian. If you need to practice your oral skills, I'd gladly offer my pussy for you to try out your skills on.

 

[bailadora]

Hello, BE123 and welcome to Lit.

This is a frequently asked question, so exploration through the blank manual will provide some great insight as well as the answers you receive here. One thing you will need to know is to not get so consumed with techniques because woman vary in their preferences of what they like. While some women like intense clit stimulation, some will prefer a lighter touch. So one technique that may drive one woman crazy with lust may do absolutely nothing for another woman. That's not to say that learning some technique is a BAD thing, but it's not the be all, end all when orally stimulating your partner. IMO, lots of time and communication are the best gifts to give. A fellow Litster said it best in a similar question a couple months back:

Some women like this approach. Some women enjoy other nerves in the area being attended to periodically. Some women like vaginal stimulation as well but not to supersede the clitoral.

Approach a woman's pussy like a safe. It has a dial and it's own specific combination. You have to know the combination to get it to work the way you want it to.

"I'm not an expert" but I've been licking and enjoying since I was 9. Yes, believe it. I might not have "enjoyed" the first year of it but that's a different and unrelated story altogether. But I digress... I have a passion for it.

Rule #1.) It's not a race and there is no finish line. The prize is in what you're doing and how you're learning her.

I'm not playing here. Do NOT treat her orgasm like a prize to be wrestled from her. Treat it like a secondary result to a primary enjoyment. I am an oral fiend when it comes to enjoying a woman orally. I'd rather lick at her then fuck her 6 out of 10 times if given the choice. Bar none.

The taste...the texture, the scents, the flavors, aromas mingling from her entire area. *shivers* *deeeep breath*

If you're racing, she'll know it and you'll frustrate both of you. Because she'll feel performance anxiety and you'll get tired the longer she takes, etc.
If you're going to focus on anything, focus on finding techniques that make her make new sounds. That's always been one of my personal goals of enjoyment.
To elicit a different sound, moan, whimper, arch in the back, body, a tensing. You have no idea how much they tell you through their reactions if you only listen.

Follow rule one (as well as that paragraph there) and you shouldn't need too much else as guidance.

Good luck.

 

[Fantasies_only]

First off, you need to be familiar with a woman's anatomy.

http://www.justeves.com/adolescence/female_reproductive_system.shtml

here's a few illustrations and diagrams with descriptions of each part.

Now, a woman is built very similar to a man in that she receives sexual pleasure mainly by the stimulations of very specific areas of the body. You want to focus mainly on her clitoris.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Clitoris

Only until you recognize her different anatomy can you then focus on your technique and understand what cunnilingus is about.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Cunniligus

The most important thing you need to rememeber is COMMUNICATE with her. Only when you become comfortable talking about sex with her should you be intimate with her.

Welcome to Literotica!

Although I have no such fetish, intension, or even fantasy of doing this, as a fellow virgin, I find your post very informative and unusual for this site.
Relating to the original poster in that way as well, thank you for your kind response.

If that's you in your (current) avatar, I'd love to see the rest of you.

 

[satindesire]

Although I have no such fetish, intension, or even fantasy of doing this, as a fellow virgin, I find your post very informative and unusual for this site.
Relating to the original poster in that way as well, thank you for your kind response.

If that's you in your (current) avatar, I'd love to see the rest of you.

Sorry, I don't share my pictures with guys who don't ever want to perform oral sex.

 

[subwannabe]

I am not a Virginian but my advice is to do your homework and that includes having pictures and diagrams of the country you want to conquer. You don't want to go charging up the wrong hill.

 

[Fantasies_only]

Although I have no such fetish, intension, or even fantasy of doing this, as a fellow virgin, I find your post very informative and unusual for this site.
Relating to the original poster in that way as well, thank you for your kind response.

If that's you in your (current) avatar, I'd love to see the rest of you.

I take it back.
You are a real bitch!

 

[Eilan]

I don't think satindesire was bitchy enough.

 

[bailadora]

To be clear people, this was the first time I sent her a PM, and I've never talked to her before this thread.

*shrug* Honestly, I don't think anyone else cares one way or the other. Sounds like a private fight that should remain just that - private.

 

[satindesire]

I take it back.
You are a real bitch!

I doubt anyone would think otherwise the way you just talked to me.

To be clear people, this was the first time I sent her a PM, and I've never talked to her before this thread.

I looked at this post and I simply thought..."My instincts were right about this guy." I'm glad I followed my gut. I knew you were a jerk and this is just a big fat slice of proof.

You want me to be bitchy? Here you go:

Don't worry about not wanting to go down on a girl, ever. I doubt with your attitude any woman will let you get even close to it.

Oh, and, welcome to my ignore list, you coward.

P.S. As far as I know, it's quite against site rules to post private PMs in the forum, so I hope the mods don't see this.

 

[Eilan]

As far as I know, it's quite against site rules to post private PMs in the forum, so I hope the mods don't see this.

You're quite right. I reported it when I came across it.

 

[satindesire]

You're quite right. I reported it when I came across it.

As did I. Thank you.

 

[LadyG]

As did I. Thank you.

Done!