Need help -- Letting guys know you're interested?

[Baskin Robbins]

Is there a very subtle way of letting other guys know your open to advances without putting a sticker on your car? Something in the way you dress or otherwise?

I live in a VERY conservative area and don't really want to draw unwelcome attention .

 

[Baskin Robbins]

Anyone?

 

[LoboBoy]

Is there a very subtle way of letting other guys know your open to advances without putting a sticker on your car? Something in the way you dress or otherwise?

I live in a VERY conservative area and don't really want to draw unwelcome attention .

Well I was going to say go to gay clubs/bars...but thats so obvious that it's probably out of the question for you? You must have already thought about that option?

Other than that...just use a gay contact site to hook up. gaydar.com or gay.com...there's a billion of them.

There's nothing in the way we dress that makes us think someone is up for sex. I WISH lol. (although I am very happy taken) I know what you mean...but there're no secret gay handshakes or whatever...I guess sometimes you can catch someone's eye and hold it a little longer than usual ...I don't really know what kind of surroundings you are talkig about either.

I mean...if I wanted to pick someone up at a club...I'd just talk to them. If they're interested you'll know . It's NOT like picking up women in straight clubs. lol...far less hassle.

 

[Baskin Robbins]

I guess I should come up with a handshake! lol

 

[ezervet]

damn!

i was hoping someone would tell you the secret handshake.

sure would help, i think.

 

[Baskin Robbins]

If you've got something you like to shake I'd love to seeit!

 

[ezervet]

my goodness..how forward.

not that i mind, of course..

 

[Baskin Robbins]

Like to play?

I love to play! I'd like to get forward with you! lol...

 

[LoboBoy]

Like to play?

I love to play! I'd like to get forward with you! lol...

Honestly, in a gay club you can just ask over a beer..."wanna go someplace to fuck?" No one would be offended. It's a lot more straight fwd with guys.

 

[ezervet]

i'll probably screw up the courage to walk into a gay club in about, oh, ten years or so.

nah, i'm kidding.

it'll probably only be two or three.