Need help flirting with strangers

[drinkz]

Hey NightL, whine much?

 

[Turtlelincoln]

I think the best advice by far is to just stare at them and wait for them to notice. Nothing gets my male libido flowing like the idea of a woman looking my way and then me noticing only for her to look away shyly.

In fact, I probably have the same issue. I will always have a tough time making contact with a girl, but once I do, its pretty much smooth sailing from there. But, I guess from a guy's POV you're the aggressor and the woman can turn you away at anytime. I'm not exactly into interjecting my attention on a woman who's not interested.

So, just the hint or brief stare from you, it should be a signal that "hey there, I'm ready and willing" flip the tables and wait for them to come sauntering your way. Then the two of you will have a lovely innuendo filled conversation.

What a lucky guy he will be...

 

[Kerali]

Mmm, thanks Kerali! That outfit sounds gorgeous. Were the stockings sheer, or opaque?

Sheer with backseam but no one saw them because of length of skirt and boots.
Well, no one except truck drivers who passed us afterward as husband drove so I could ride the two-hour drive home with my skirt inched up above my thighs, a little friend inserted, and reading sexy lit stories.

 

[Lord Pmann]

That just tells me that I'm right. If you truly felt sub-par looking, you'd not make a joke about it at your own expense.

She does have a funny face, dude.

 

[breezyblue]

I really think Shiny's idea is a good one. I am extremely shy (anxiety disorder) and so do not flirt at all really but i have found making eye contact and smiling at strangers to help me feel less nervous being around people in general. Its sort of hard to do i find but seems to help. I would expect this to also help if you are feeling nervous flirting, it basically just lets you practice getting the attention of a stranger and making a nice first impression. Plus it sometimes makes them smile back so i like to think maybe i made their day a tiny bit cheerier

 

[Doog_kuron]

I'd be hopeless if a girl wanted to flirt with me in public or come to think of it, probably privately too. I once was told by a female friend that a girl could sit on my lap, get her boobs out and jiggle them in my face and I'd still be clueless. And if I am being brutally honest that's not too far from the truth. So if any ladies out there ever get indifference from your flirting don't take it personally, it'll either mean we are gay or much more likely, completely oblivious

 

[CountryGuy2]

I would say that wearing the outfit you have on in your avitar picture is a very good start. Sweetie, wear that on the street and you don't have to say a word. Just turn around and watch the guys following.

I you were wearing that outfit and made eye contact and smiled at me......



I'd probably walk into a lamp post

 

[niceguyswin]

Dear Kerili

I know mabey I am going to get a huge kickback of bad responces from this but here it goes anyway. Please just tell me to push off or go away if you dont like what I have to say but I have read the post and am a bit curious.

First your profile states happily married. I am happy to hear that and it makes me wonder whey you are interested in learning how to flirt with strangers? If you are shy or timid or stick to non incounters may I ask is that the way you are with the one you love if so I have some amazing suggestions that may help you open up with confidence and self esteme.

Curiously no mention of confidence or self esteem. Sexy, I mean know they are not afraid not shy down to earth sexy women dont need to be thin or cute or perfect just to have confidence in who they are and that is a huge step to getting to talk to strangers if you are not afraid of them hurting you with words because it just wont effect you.

An old saying I use to know was a great night in the sac can bounce most people back and a love thats true will make the best of you. If you want to know your redeming qualities ask your husband and tell him for every one he can list he gets one minute of a private dance from you. Not only will that force you to be less shy and more confident its with someone who is complementing you and who you love.

Sorry to stick my nose in so to speak but you seem like a nice person and happily married no less so why flirt find people who like who you are for who you are you will be far better off. And if it is that you need a boost of having people admire you have them admire you for your true traits not something you are forcing yourself to be.

Belive me any lady can be sweet, sexy and naughty if she wants to be. But those can be dangerous tools use them wisely.

Sorry for all the spelling mistakes and if any of this is out of line.