Bighammerfucker
Really Really Experienced
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- Jun 27, 2014
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Id like to request any suggestions...
I'm engaged, and I love my fiancé very, very much. We grew up together, literally, and he knows how much I absolutely adore him. But he also knows that, even though we are together and so in love, I'm not very sexually attracted to him, or any other man either for that matter. I am content with this and I undersand why this is the case, he understands more or less too even if sometimes is wistful that I can't return his level of lust for lovemaking all the time, but we manage.
My problem is this: he has a small cock, and unfortunately he is aware of this and feels really bad about it. He's about 5" and 1" thick. He feels really, really bad about this and it makes me feel absolutely terrible, especially because secretly I am someone who does enjoy the sensation of being filled a little more... I mean honestly, this is not the reason I play with toys a lot, I play with toys mostly for fetishistic reasons but not going to lie it does feel great to be filled.
How can I make him feel better about this? How can I boost his confidence? He thinks he can't please me at all because I'm not able to orgasm from penetrative sex (this is not exactly the case, it's more like, I'm unable without the fetish). it's very upsetting he feels this way... I want him to feel good about himself... any suggestions on how I can accomplish this? I'm trying but it isn't working as well as I want...
I'm engaged, and I love my fiancé very, very much. We grew up together, literally, and he knows how much I absolutely adore him. But he also knows that, even though we are together and so in love, I'm not very sexually attracted to him, or any other man either for that matter. I am content with this and I undersand why this is the case, he understands more or less too even if sometimes is wistful that I can't return his level of lust for lovemaking all the time, but we manage.
My problem is this: he has a small cock, and unfortunately he is aware of this and feels really bad about it. He's about 5" and 1" thick. He feels really, really bad about this and it makes me feel absolutely terrible, especially because secretly I am someone who does enjoy the sensation of being filled a little more... I mean honestly, this is not the reason I play with toys a lot, I play with toys mostly for fetishistic reasons but not going to lie it does feel great to be filled.
How can I make him feel better about this? How can I boost his confidence? He thinks he can't please me at all because I'm not able to orgasm from penetrative sex (this is not exactly the case, it's more like, I'm unable without the fetish). it's very upsetting he feels this way... I want him to feel good about himself... any suggestions on how I can accomplish this? I'm trying but it isn't working as well as I want...