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I do delay during sex too, if she has not orgasmed yet. I find women want sex more if they orgasm too, just a little observation 
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I do delay during sex too, if she has not orgasmed yet. I find women want sex more if they orgasm too, just a little observation
I've less muscle, but exactly the same answer for the same reason. Plus I so enjoy my woman's orgasm I want it more than my own. Si
It is true that we can. Speaking for myself at least. Now I will say this in general. As to say not always.... sometimes there is absolutly nothing in the world that will hold it back.... will desire intent aside.
At other times though it can be done, and is very enjoyable for both parties.
At other times though it can be done, and is very enjoyable for both parties.
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Ah that depends, lady. For myself, just sometimes I want an express route to the explosive release of my seed, as a release of, well, fury, or sleeplessness, or whatever. So those times she does real good by getting me off rapid.
But much more often it's a sheer delight to last and last, all the more if meanwhile she has a climax or two. I confess I tend to think of that as me doing "better", as the split second timing of pausing or easing off the movement are my doing rather than hers. If you can sense when that's needed to enable your man to last longer then that is you doing "better" for sure Si
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Ah that depends, lady. For myself, just sometimes I want an express route to the explosive release of my seed, as a release of, well, fury, or sleeplessness, or whatever. So those times she does real good by getting me off rapid.
But much more often it's a sheer delight to last and last, all the more if meanwhile she has a climax or two. I confess I tend to think of that as me doing "better", as the split second timing of pausing or easing off the movement are my doing rather than hers. If you can sense when that's needed to enable your man to last longer then that is you doing "better" for sure Si
Yes Simon I am pretty good at knowing when slow down or stop all together. But occasionally when really deep in my throat I am not as fast to react to the signals and SURPRISE!!!
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The thrill, the intensity of being that far into a lovely woman's face throws any 'control' devices a guy might have right out of the window. For deepthroat to last longer, gotta be 'round two'.
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I would agree, but it does depend on the agressiveness of the lady and the mood of the situation!
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In my experience, much of the taking so long has to do with their technique. Far more think they're good at it, then actually are. I find the the first mistake made is not spending enough time on my balls. Don't just jump right on the head and hope to suck the cum out of my gonads. Work them, play with them, that's why i shave them. The second is not gripping it.. its not fine china, grab ahold of that motherfucker and show me you love my cock. Third is not enough hands.. twist up and down my shaft following your lips up and down, and don't come all the way off it. Watch Jenna Jameson suck dick, she's amazing. Fourth...mix it up. Slow, fast, hard, slow, soft, drive me out of my fucking mind so that I cum when YOU are ready as much as I am. Lastly... if i'm close, slip a finger inside me and bury my cock in your throat.
the ensuing eruption and roaring will let you know you've done good.
the ensuing eruption and roaring will let you know you've done good.
LOL That would make a good T-shirt. Almost as good as the one i saw a guy wearing in Vegas
"I'm here for the blowjob".
But to answer the question... If you like giving head then give head. Im my experience if i stay pretty still i can hold off... but if you start getting mouth fucked that means i want to cum. Then its up to you.. ride it out or jump on. Have you had complaints? And during are you open to suggestions?
Like the ones mentioned above? You can always interject a bit of directional talk into the dirty.
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Wow. That was very informative on how to give YOU a blow job. Riveting as it was... You didn't answer her question!
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silly woman... if I could suck my own dick like that, I wouldn't need to put up with you pains in the ass. My reply was another reason why it takes guys forever to cum...I don't know about the OP and how well she sucks cock...but in my experience, thats a common reason why it takes me forever.
so nyah!
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So you decided to just answer a totally different question? Sheesh.
you have quite the reading/comprehension problem, dontcha?
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she wants to know why it takes guys so long to blow their load...my reply was ONE possibility.
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you have quite the reading/comprehension problem, dontcha?
she wants to know why it takes guys so long to blow their load...my reply was ONE possibility.
What?!? I didn't understand what you mean! Maybe you need to write a paragraph on delayed.... Responses.....
And no her question is if you Deliberately delay "blowing your load" while getting a blow job.
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What?!? I didn't understand what you mean! Maybe you need to write a paragraph on delayed.... Responses.....
And no her question is if you Deliberately delay "blowing your load" while getting a blow job.
I read into the questions.. and offered my advice.
You probably now know why it'll take you forever to make me blow..
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I don't "delay" it for oral sex, but it is often hard for me to climax from it due to the majority of women I've been with's inability to perform well. I've only had one woman who's blowjob was good enough to push me over the edge as fast as sex consistently... She was an artist.
Also, I CAN delay orgasm during normal sex, and try to until my partner is ready for a break.
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It depends on the woman I am with and the over all situation during sex. If the woman is very tight vaginally then it is almost impossible for me to delay an orgasm during intercourse because the feeling is so intense that I can't control how long I last. I can delay orgasm during oral sex if the woman is 'going through the motions' as it were during oral sex. If she does things during oral sex that are a huge turn on for me then no, I can't delay orgasm very long. Now having said that it also depends on my mood in general or how long it has been since I have had sex. If she has me worked up before sex even starts then my first orgasm won't take long. If the session is more relaxed and less urgent then I can delay orgasm regardless of whether it is oral sex or vaginal sex.
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