Need Exp Coach for Bi Dating

[wayward61]

Need Coach

I’m a biWM, 62 and quite inexperienced w men. I have a ‘date’ with a guy Im crushing on, next week. I hope to get into his pants soon. Can you coach me? I’m straight acting, in closet. I suspect my 'date' is gay. How can I tell if he's interested in me? How do we break the ice?

 

[ericrodman101]

If he’s agreed to a date, in inverted commas, and you think he’s gay, you’re pretty close to being able to just ask him. Where are you going on this date? Just the two of you? If it’s in a private home I’d be tempted to talk about what porn you like and maybe put some on. If it’s going to a bar, make it a gay bar. What do you like about each other? He obviously likes your company or is keen to find out more about you, or you wouldn’t be dating.

 

[wayward61]

Thanks man, appreciate the feedback. I guess that's the problem.....I'm not actually sure it is a date. It wasn't set up like that. But we agreed we needed to get together. I told him I'd email and set something up, which I will. We had dinner/drinks about 6 months ago and it went well. I'm not sure why we didn't follow up, but we didnt. Then we bumped into each other last month, and agreed to meet again. He is straight acting, but all other signs point to his being gay. He must be aware that I know this. Anyway, it dont make a lot of difference. We will get together soon and I'll find out. Some way.

 

[ericrodman101]

So you better keep us updated on your progress.