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Ok people, long situation here and in need of some help of what to do or what not to do.
I am a massage therapist in Iowa and have been working with a gal that brought me into healing as a massage therapist. In the beginning, she was all about healing and I loved it. Now, she seems more insistent on money and seems less motivated on the healing aspect. I really love working with her and will do anything for her, but it doesn't go with the healing I need at this time anymore.
Anyway, this last July I went and worked on RAGBRAI. I met a gal that is also a massage therapist. It was a brief encounter at that time and I felt we made a connection. This past weekend, she called and needed some body work and I am always in need of it myself, so she drove 4 hours to do a massage exchange.
Now this gal is all about healing and that is just what I needed. Our connection flourished and it started me thinking. (yes once i a while, i do think) Fate has brought us together for some reason. The connection is strong, and it is not a sexual connection. But there is something there.
I tried to do some meditation, but not much came from that. I am starting to think that we are destine to work together because our philosophies are pretty much the same. I really love this gals passion on healing and wanting to learn more of what is out there to continue healing, and it's the same as mine.
Now the problem, The one I work with now, our connection was very strong and now it has slipped a bit. Her vision of healing has gone astray and has recently been having problems in her personal life. I love her with all of my heart and will continue to do so and will help whenever I can, but the new gal's vision of healing has brought me to a whole new level.
Not sure what to do. Am I fascinated with healing so much that I am ready to get rid of a great thing that has happened with the one that I work with now just to go with someone else whose healing is so strong at this time? Will the new gal's healing go astray later?
May a little background on the 3 of us is in order here.
Me, 41 years old, married 21 years and very much in love with my wife. I have been a massage therapist for a little over 3 years, working with one that I envisioned working with years ago. I continue learning with her to this day.
The one I work with, 28, not married, one child. Been a massage therapist for about 10 years. Owns her own business and is expanding. Says healing has always been a part of her life from a young age. Recently been having some personal problems and is affecting her healing at this time. (personally, it's been going on for a while)
The new gal, 25 years old, not married, no kids and recently found love, someone to spend her life with. (not me) Evisions healing on a higher level than the one I work with now. She has been a massage therapist a little over 4 years.
What do I do?
I am hoping that someone out here in the lit world can help me to bring this issue to an end.
thank you for your help.
Thomas
I am a massage therapist in Iowa and have been working with a gal that brought me into healing as a massage therapist. In the beginning, she was all about healing and I loved it. Now, she seems more insistent on money and seems less motivated on the healing aspect. I really love working with her and will do anything for her, but it doesn't go with the healing I need at this time anymore.
Anyway, this last July I went and worked on RAGBRAI. I met a gal that is also a massage therapist. It was a brief encounter at that time and I felt we made a connection. This past weekend, she called and needed some body work and I am always in need of it myself, so she drove 4 hours to do a massage exchange.
Now this gal is all about healing and that is just what I needed. Our connection flourished and it started me thinking. (yes once i a while, i do think) Fate has brought us together for some reason. The connection is strong, and it is not a sexual connection. But there is something there.
I tried to do some meditation, but not much came from that. I am starting to think that we are destine to work together because our philosophies are pretty much the same. I really love this gals passion on healing and wanting to learn more of what is out there to continue healing, and it's the same as mine.
Now the problem, The one I work with now, our connection was very strong and now it has slipped a bit. Her vision of healing has gone astray and has recently been having problems in her personal life. I love her with all of my heart and will continue to do so and will help whenever I can, but the new gal's vision of healing has brought me to a whole new level.
Not sure what to do. Am I fascinated with healing so much that I am ready to get rid of a great thing that has happened with the one that I work with now just to go with someone else whose healing is so strong at this time? Will the new gal's healing go astray later?
May a little background on the 3 of us is in order here.
Me, 41 years old, married 21 years and very much in love with my wife. I have been a massage therapist for a little over 3 years, working with one that I envisioned working with years ago. I continue learning with her to this day.
The one I work with, 28, not married, one child. Been a massage therapist for about 10 years. Owns her own business and is expanding. Says healing has always been a part of her life from a young age. Recently been having some personal problems and is affecting her healing at this time. (personally, it's been going on for a while)
The new gal, 25 years old, not married, no kids and recently found love, someone to spend her life with. (not me) Evisions healing on a higher level than the one I work with now. She has been a massage therapist a little over 4 years.
What do I do?
I am hoping that someone out here in the lit world can help me to bring this issue to an end.
thank you for your help.
Thomas
