Need advice and help

[gitapleasure]

I am new to here besides some light lurking and this is my first post. I am f/43. Trying to create a better sex life for my husband and myself. He can cum just not maintain an erection. I have figured out voyerism (I already know that I spelled it wrong) has a good strong effect on him and I am looking for any help or suggestions. I recently opened a skype account and have no idea how to use it so if anyone can tutor me thru first using it I would greatly appreciate it. I was once very sexual and ended up building a shell around myself and I am trying to get out of it. I like this sight because I see that people here give honest and supportive advice when asked.

 

[ROADMASTE86]

Hello. What is it exactly you would like to discuss about your interests? Feel free to PM me if you would feel more comfortable going into detail that way.

Drew

 

[gitapleasure]

If you where in my husbands situation what would you want from me?

 

[dz2681]

I'm not sure about your husband but I know when my wife shows off to other men especially getting a reaction from them it turns me on greatly. She also enjoys it so nothing better than being on the receiving end o her high arousal. Maybe try sending him some sexy picture messages through out the day? Those are always a nice surprise. Feel free to pm me if you'd like to discuss further and would love to hear more about your adventurous side before

 

[Hnter2011]

Does he have access to Skype at work? What fantasies have you discussed with him that could be lived out on Skype? Maybe watching as you play with another man? Possibly logging in when he sees you on and "catching" you with another? Giving you to another for training is a hot one.

 

[John_Whittaker0826]

It's cool that you want to make things better for the 2 of you! Now it's time to identify whatever issues you may be having. First and foremost the 2 of you need to sit and talk, honestly and openly with each other. Once you begin getting things out in the open you can then explore ways to heighten your time together.

I wish you luck. Always here to discuss further publicly or privately, if you'd like.