need a little advise

[zoelikesjam]

so, ive met someone and he is practically perfect for me, pretty posh boy on the outside, but in the bedroom he is an animal!
We slept together a few weeks ago and he just blew my mind. Left several lovely bruises on my breast's, a very sore pussy after a vigorous(and successful!!!!) fisting, and i am hankering for round two.
However, he has brought toys, scary toys intent on pushing my boundaries. No i'm no flake, nor do i have an aversion to pain, but these toys are terrifying me.
he has brought a HUGE butt plug, which i am sure we will be able to use if he goes slow and uses lube...its the ball gag thats got me in a dither.
What is the best way to use one, no long than x minutes etc.
thanks in advance x

 

[Netzach]

Ball gag?

You should be fine. You have normal respiration? All your teeth are yours and/or affixed? Should be ok.

Make sure it's not way too huge, because TMJ is not exciting, but seriously, you should be OK.

You'll drool. And this will be embarrassing, but that's hot for a lot of us.

And you'll feel it the day after. In your jaw. And you will probably have fond recollections of your depravity the night before.

But other than making sure you're breathing through your nose and playing with a safeword so that you can stop if you're truly freaking out for some reason, a ball gag with a clear nasal airway should be fairly safe playing.

 

[zoelikesjam]

thanks for the reply. i am looking forward to it. testing my limits hmmmm