Name calling

[ashelizabeth991]

anyone else love to be dominated...I like abuse...and to be called names. I also love older men

 

[jasonmason]

anyone else love to be dominated...I like abuse...and to be called names. I also love older men

So what kinds of names do you liked to be called? And what do you consider older?

 

[fuckijustwanna]

I do. Like the idea of being treated like a perv. Though I dont usually perfer older men so much as women. Older (40s...think Ginger Lea...chills) and younger both have their perks. One is...well...fuckin Ginger Lea...and the orher is a younger woman having complete control over me...

 

[Cthulhu1138]

Talking dirty can be a big part of the fun of sex.

And the opportunity to vocalize just what a dirty, deserving little slut a woman is being is a perk of being with an uninhibited partner.

 

[oggbashan]

Literotica describes the first and third posters to this thread as 'virgin'.

Is that an appropriate name?

Would you like to be called 'Betty', 'Lizabet', 'Bess'?

Or were you thinking of perjorative names such as 'slut', 'bitch', 'wanton hussy'?

One of my aunts, married during WW2, was known to the family as 'Gladys'. We only found out at her funeral that her name wasn't Gladys, but Elizabeth. When her husband met her for the first time, he asked her name.

She replied "Elizabeth".

He responded: "You don't look like an Elizabeth to me. You look like a Gladys."

And she was Gladys from then on.

 

[StrongMaster7]

To anyone considering using namecalling as part of play, be careful!

I have found that some ladies have a "hot button" word that can, in some cases, turn them off PERMANENTLY!

More than once, I have been playing online with a lady, doing a dom/sub scene and used words like "cunt", "whore", "slut" and a variety of humiliation scenarios. In one case, I used the word "bitch" and the lady broke of all communication forever after telling me she found that word offensive.

One other time a very similar thing happened with the same word.

So try to strike a balance between spontaneity and consideration.

 

[bubbleYumm]

I really enjoy it

 

[kjgold]

Enhances the enjoyment for us

 

[tinybadgirl]

To anyone considering using namecalling as part of play, be careful!

I have found that some ladies have a "hot button" word that can, in some cases, turn them off PERMANENTLY!

More than once, I have been playing online with a lady, doing a dom/sub scene and used words like "cunt", "whore", "slut" and a variety of humiliation scenarios. In one case, I used the word "bitch" and the lady broke of all communication forever after telling me she found that word offensive.

One other time a very similar thing happened with the same word.

So try to strike a balance between spontaneity and consideration.

I love to fantasize about a guy calling me names while he fucks me. Bitch, cunt, fucktoy, whatever. I also think it would be hot to be called someone's little slut. But the word whore is a turn off for some reason. I think maybe because it would imply that the guy wasn't the only one who would be fucking me, and I like a guy to be possessive of me, not whoring me around.

 

[txnstud21]

I love to fantasize about a guy calling me names while he fucks me. Bitch, cunt, fucktoy, whatever. I also think it would be hot to be called someone's little slut. But the word whore is a turn off for some reason. I think maybe because it would imply that the guy wasn't the only one who would be fucking me, and I like a guy to be possessive of me, not whoring me around.

Id love to make you my little slut and use you as my fucktoy

 

[rexhame317]

I can deal with almost any name so far, except Whore. To me it implies many partners paying you for sex. Did have to tell my Dom that, turned me right off when he called me "his little whore"

 

[danno99]

To anyone considering using namecalling as part of play, be careful!

I have found that some ladies have a "hot button" word that can, in some cases, turn them off PERMANENTLY!

More than once, I have been playing online with a lady, doing a dom/sub scene and used words like "cunt", "whore", "slut" and a variety of humiliation scenarios. In one case, I used the word "bitch" and the lady broke of all communication forever after telling me she found that word offensive.

One other time a very similar thing happened with the same word.

So try to strike a balance between spontaneity and consideration.

i have found that particular word to be a dealberaker on more than one occasion.

 

[mojo23]

I didn't used to like name calling. For example being called a slut was huge turn off for me. Now that I am older and know myself better I see name calling as part of the fantasy and fun of sex! I do agree though like with anything else ensure you and your partner are on the same page about what is acceptable and what is not.

Some of my favorites phrases are "make me your cumslut" or "use me as your fucktoy." I also love saying "Daddy" and being his "babygirl"