I posted over on the How to.. board and was told you guys would be best suited to help me. My husband & I had a bet...he wanted payment to him to be me as a french maid serving him in everyway on a designated weekend. After a few laughs..I said I would agree if he would also. He said it was worth the risk...as you guessed he lost. Now I want to make him pay like he wanted me to pay. I think we can have a lot of fun with it but I need some suggestions on what to do. I know I'll have 'her" do the cleaning, laundry and cooking but what can I do for rewards and punishment? We have NEVER really done anything like this and I am kind of looking forward to having a submissive for a weekend...but I want to be good at it... doing to him like he would do to me. It needs to be light and fun...One thing suggested to me for the bedroom a strap-on and I have been reading up on it. If you guys can provide any suggestions on how to make this weekend memorable it would be appreciated. thanks in advance..
Myhusband as a french maid? Ideas please...
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If your maid is very good she may be entitled to perform more intimate personal service -- painting her Mistress' toenails, brushing Mistress' hair, folding Mistress' underwear. All of the above can lead to more intimate contact, if performed well.
If not performed well, there are, of course, hairbrush paddlings, standing in the corner, icky manual labor (taking out the garbage becomes a whole new thing while dressed as the maid doesn't it? I bet your maid really really does not want to have to take out the garbage, so she'd better pay close attention to her duties.)
If not performed well, there are, of course, hairbrush paddlings, standing in the corner, icky manual labor (taking out the garbage becomes a whole new thing while dressed as the maid doesn't it? I bet your maid really really does not want to have to take out the garbage, so she'd better pay close attention to her duties.)
Thanks for the ideas...not sure
I could make "her" go out in them but the threat may be enough..then again maybe it is the thrill of being cuaght. I need to start a list. I am thinking of making him sleep in one of my gowns. I have some sexy ones and some ugly flowered flannel ones. I guess the fannel ones could be a form of punishment huh
I could make "her" go out in them but the threat may be enough..then again maybe it is the thrill of being cuaght. I need to start a list. I am thinking of making him sleep in one of my gowns. I have some sexy ones and some ugly flowered flannel ones. I guess the fannel ones could be a form of punishment huh
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i just wanted to say that this seems to be a fantastic way to introduce bdsm into a relationship! this whole weekend-trial thing seems like loads of fun and a great way to perhaps learn about yourself. i think we should all remember this idea (you never know when you'll need it! 
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nghdawg said:
Glad to see you found your way over Nghdawg!! I love Richard's idea about the vibrating panties...
as for myself...I was thinking more along the lines of a vibrating remote control egg. It's an insertable. You can take him out with it inserted...zap him into submission at your whim (i do SO want one of these
)I think I've read Ms. Shadowsdream posting about doing this very thing. You may want to run a search...
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French Maid Outfit
My wife suggests that you make him buy his outfit and then wash and iron it before he starts his service...
Not fogetting to get him cleaning floors for visual of bottom and up high!!....
you could also make him wear a bell on his frilly apron which would be attached to a peiece of nylon thread for you to ring when you wnated him to come to you
My wife suggests that you make him buy his outfit and then wash and iron it before he starts his service...
Not fogetting to get him cleaning floors for visual of bottom and up high!!....
you could also make him wear a bell on his frilly apron which would be attached to a peiece of nylon thread for you to ring when you wnated him to come to you
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I have a feeling the husband is going to regret losing this bet.
I say make him do all the household cleaning in the outfit with no underwear on and if you catch him with an erection, paddle time.
Btw, I like the egg idea for him. Zapping when least expected. hehehe.
I say make him do all the household cleaning in the outfit with no underwear on and if you catch him with an erection, paddle time.
Btw, I like the egg idea for him. Zapping when least expected. hehehe.
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Feather duster with a shock!!
oh yes a feather duster with an electric shocker..make him wince and dance about in his frilly french maid outfit!!
oh yes a feather duster with an electric shocker..make him wince and dance about in his frilly french maid outfit!!
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If it is all about fun...keep it light...
Just dressing up is a biggie and being reminded why. Stay verbal rather than physical to the most part UNLESS it really is your kink to feminize or Dominate.
Cooking and cleaning keeps it light as does serving..once you start adding the strap on you are going to be taking on a lot of responsibility.
Just dressing up is a biggie and being reminded why. Stay verbal rather than physical to the most part UNLESS it really is your kink to feminize or Dominate.
Cooking and cleaning keeps it light as does serving..once you start adding the strap on you are going to be taking on a lot of responsibility.
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janettt5 said:
Do the whole makeup thing; eyeshadow, eyeliner, mascara, base, blush, etc. Once you have him made up, take his picture and then lay him on his back and ride his face 'till your wetness makes a puddle under his head!
My guess is that he will really enjoy licking you and your reaction to it. He may even associate the feminization with great sex, which is what we all really want, now isn't it?
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A Strap on? I would suggest making your maid learn how important it is for a good maid to give good head. Another important part of being a good maid is swallowing a load after giving head. You can always use his to get him started.
A weekend like this should be caught on video tape as well.
A weekend like this should be caught on video tape as well.
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Not knowing what the bet was, I would never even suggest a result such as this for myself, if there was a chance on losing the bet. I am completely Dom, and can't see myself being a submissive for any amount of time. I do have a reputation to uphold!
So, my point is, even if he didn't see any way of losing this bet, just allowing himself into this possible position seems to mean he can be a bit of a closet submissive, himself.
So, with this in mind, you could have lots of fun, here. All that has been suggested are great ideas. I personally think any remote stimulation tactics are wonderful with the best being something that can be worn out in public places. Your control of him, even in these places would be priceless, I think.
Anal probes, anal eggs and/or no underwear while doing household duties are great for humiliation. After all, you won this bet, and you should be sure he knows it. Sexual humiliation would be something you both will remember.
Don't forget to take pictures of him during some of this, just in case he forgets. People do have a tendency of doing that, when it is convenient.
A strapon is great for that punishment time, if he just can't seem to understand who is boss. As someone already suggested, make him swallow his own cum. That is also very submissive.
Make him go down on it as if making it nice and hard before his ass gets it. Make sure he understands what he is doing and why.
BUT!
the ultimate control could be making him lubricate his own ass then get down on all fours, and hold his ass cheeks open for you. Maybe some bondage is in order during this, too. Just in case he wants to change his mind.
Keep in mind, you are in charge! He lost that bet and you won. He would have you doing some of this, if he won. I know I would!
So, my point is, even if he didn't see any way of losing this bet, just allowing himself into this possible position seems to mean he can be a bit of a closet submissive, himself.
So, with this in mind, you could have lots of fun, here. All that has been suggested are great ideas. I personally think any remote stimulation tactics are wonderful with the best being something that can be worn out in public places. Your control of him, even in these places would be priceless, I think.
Anal probes, anal eggs and/or no underwear while doing household duties are great for humiliation. After all, you won this bet, and you should be sure he knows it. Sexual humiliation would be something you both will remember.
Don't forget to take pictures of him during some of this, just in case he forgets. People do have a tendency of doing that, when it is convenient.
A strapon is great for that punishment time, if he just can't seem to understand who is boss. As someone already suggested, make him swallow his own cum. That is also very submissive.
Make him go down on it as if making it nice and hard before his ass gets it. Make sure he understands what he is doing and why.
BUT!
the ultimate control could be making him lubricate his own ass then get down on all fours, and hold his ass cheeks open for you. Maybe some bondage is in order during this, too. Just in case he wants to change his mind.
Keep in mind, you are in charge! He lost that bet and you won. He would have you doing some of this, if he won. I know I would!
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wondering if there are any updates as to how the weekend went with the french maid?
