My wife said...

[smithers22]

Hi, I've been reading this site for a while, but never actually posted before. So here goes, I'm a 31 year old married man, my wife is 33, she's blonde, pretty and has a great ass!

Anyway, a few years ago I cheated on her with an older woman, when she found out she was of course upset, but forgave me, and we stayed together. During this time we talked a little more openly about our sexuality with each other, and I confided that I am kinda bi curious, incredibly hot sessions fucking each other while we talked about swinging, or having a man or woman join us. Then that talk sort of stopped. We're both just busy with work and kids was all I made of it, and we still have sex 4 times a week or so, so I really can't complain.

Then out of nowhere last week she told me that she's considering fucking someone else to feel what I felt and switch roles. I was a little shocked and didn't really know how to respond, although I will say the thought got me rock hard. On the one hand I kinda think she's entitled to her revenge, the other side makes me think maybe she want's to get my attention back on our previous conversation about having another guy join us.

Any opinions/advice?

 

[Stella_Omega]

You are going to have to ask her, unfortunately.

I have an opinion, which is that she wants to fuck someone who has nothing to do with you. And a further opinion that if you want to start a cuckold game she might be amenable once she's gotten her fling out of the way.

BUT! That's an opinion. You will have to do the hard work of, yanno, asking and listening.

If you guys open up your marriage, please be aware that both of you will have to work twice as hard at communication.

Best of luck!

 

[Gods_Favorite]

Communicate, communicate, communicate, I'd find out if she already has a guy in mind and where she knows him from. I encouraged my ex to cuckold me and she ended up fucking her personal trainer, not telling me, and breaking up with me soon after. The shared wife/cuckold fantasies are still number one for me even after all that, not trying to scare you just saying.

 

[tmmmbrrr]

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[bwb58]

Wait untill you feel sloppy seconds for the first time,before making up your mind. I think you may likem.

 

[Stella_Omega]

I feel very sorry for tmmmbrrr. Not to mention anyone who might be entangled in a relationship with him.

 

[Safe_Bet]

I feel very sorry for tmmmbrrr. Not to mention anyone who might be entangled in a relationship with him.

Why?

Because he doesn't condone cheating on your spouse or think revenge fucks are a good thing for a relationship?

 

[smithers22]

Bump...

 

[ADIDAS00]

Hi, I've been reading this site for a while, but never actually posted before. So here goes, I'm a 31 year old married man, my wife is 33, she's blonde, pretty and has a great ass!

Anyway, a few years ago I cheated on her with an older woman, when she found out she was of course upset, but forgave me, and we stayed together. During this time we talked a little more openly about our sexuality with each other, and I confided that I am kinda bi curious, incredibly hot sessions fucking each other while we talked about swinging, or having a man or woman join us. Then that talk sort of stopped. We're both just busy with work and kids was all I made of it, and we still have sex 4 times a week or so, so I really can't complain.

Then out of nowhere last week she told me that she's considering fucking someone else to feel what I felt and switch roles. I was a little shocked and didn't really know how to respond, although I will say the thought got me rock hard. On the one hand I kinda think she's entitled to her revenge, the other side makes me think maybe she want's to get my attention back on our previous conversation about having another guy join us.

Any opinions/advice?

Your sounds like a wonderful women. She forgave you for cheating, she's open to exploring kinky fantasies with you, and she's teasing you with the thought of being sexual with another man..... What's not to like!

If you're looking for a volunteer to join your sexy ménage, please let me know

 

[jackielicker]

Just my opinion, but I would actually be excited if my wife wanted to fuck another guy or bring him in to our bedroom. However, I would be upset if she had an emotional affair - if she were looking to him to share the husband-ly part of our relationship.

As for "revenge" fucking, that's a no-win. But you could talk to your wife about why she wants to fuck him, what she's hoping to get out of it, etc. I think you may find that the "revenge" part is just her way of giving herself permission. She might dig the idea that you're on board with it and want her to have a great time.

 

[October46]

Hi, I've been reading this site for a while, but never actually posted before. So here goes, I'm a 31 year old married man, my wife is 33, she's blonde, pretty and has a great ass!

Anyway, a few years ago I cheated on her with an older woman, when she found out she was of course upset, but forgave me, and we stayed together. During this time we talked a little more openly about our sexuality with each other, and I confided that I am kinda bi curious, incredibly hot sessions fucking each other while we talked about swinging, or having a man or woman join us. Then that talk sort of stopped. We're both just busy with work and kids was all I made of it, and we still have sex 4 times a week or so, so I really can't complain.

Then out of nowhere last week she told me that she's considering fucking someone else to feel what I felt and switch roles. I was a little shocked and didn't really know how to respond, although I will say the thought got me rock hard. On the one hand I kinda think she's entitled to her revenge, the other side makes me think maybe she want's to get my attention back on our previous conversation about having another guy join us.

Any opinions/advice?

This is a hot idea, but first I would find out if she has a specific person in mind. If she does this might be a red flag. If she does not have a particular person involved with this scenario, then I would at least investigate her needs. Ask her why she wants to try this and be open to her ideas unless there is a specific person she request. If she is willing to accept a choice of yours then have this person watch you and your wife first to see how she will react. This situation might cause her to change her mind about being with another man, and at the same time not jeopardize your relationship. If she loves it, then switch with the stranger and enjoy watching her fuck another man in front of you. Make sure you see what she does and he does to her during this encounter; take notes. She might need something else from you that this person has done to her and she enjoyed it. Good Luck!

 

[Sasha69]

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[Sasha69]

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[HrnyViking]

For your sake, I hope she's just trying to bring the conversation around to where it was. If she's looking to explore on her own, for revenge or whatever reason, its likely she'll just keep going.

 

[bluesky496]

Hi, I've been reading this site for a while, but never actually posted before. So here goes, I'm a 31 year old married man, my wife is 33, she's blonde, pretty and has a great ass!

Anyway, a few years ago I cheated on her with an older woman, when she found out she was of course upset, but forgave me, and we stayed together. During this time we talked a little more openly about our sexuality with each other, and I confided that I am kinda bi curious, incredibly hot sessions fucking each other while we talked about swinging, or having a man or woman join us. Then that talk sort of stopped. We're both just busy with work and kids was all I made of it, and we still have sex 4 times a week or so, so I really can't complain.

Then out of nowhere last week she told me that she's considering fucking someone else to feel what I felt and switch roles. I was a little shocked and didn't really know how to respond, although I will say the thought got me rock hard. On the one hand I kinda think she's entitled to her revenge, the other side makes me think maybe she want's to get my attention back on our previous conversation about having another guy join us.

Any opinions/advice?

i think you need to talk to her about it , be open and honest with each other and share your feelings and reasons and try to understand each other and if it is really what she wants try to be accepting after all you went wrong first so to speak , it may be that it will lead to the threesome you both talked about .

 

[badonkadoku]

Hi, I've been reading this site for a while, but never actually posted before. So here goes, I'm a 31 year old married man, my wife is 33, she's blonde, pretty and has a great ass!

Anyway, a few years ago I cheated on her with an older woman, when she found out she was of course upset, but forgave me [...]
On the one hand I kinda think she's entitled to her revenge, the other side makes me think maybe she want's to get my attention back on our previous conversation about having another guy join us.

Any opinions/advice?

Say what you want, but if revenge is any part of the scenario, she never actually or fully forgave you.

 

[StrayKat]

You guys didnt notice that OP is several months old and was just bumped today by some tool posting completely irrelevant info to attract attention.