My wife cums better with other guys!

[Linde]

This probably shouldn't bother me. The input from other readers would interest me. When my wife and I have sex she cums. Mildly would be a good word. When she has sex with other guys, she cums loudly, with spasms and shaking. These are wild orgasms. She has squirted with others, but never with me. (I have tried.) I don't think its about technique. I do understand the process, watched the videos, taken suggestions from the guys who made her squirt, etc.

She says she doesn't get into squirting all that much, but she really seems to like it when it's happening. I suspect she doesn't want to hurt my feelings. She says that sex with me is the best, but I seriously doubt that.

Now, I'm really not worried that she'll leave me for another guy. We've been together for a long time and have been very happy.

So my question is: am I making something out of nothing or should I be concerned?

Thanks for your thoughts.

 

[ms_ann_thrope]

This probably shouldn't bother me. The input from other readers would interest me. When my wife and I have sex she cums. Mildly would be a good word. When she has sex with other guys, she cums loudly, with spasms and shaking. These are wild orgasms. She has squirted with others, but never with me. (I have tried.) I don't think its about technique. I do understand the process, watched the videos, taken suggestions from the guys who made her squirt, etc.

She says she doesn't get into squirting all that much, but she really seems to like it when it's happening. I suspect she doesn't want to hurt my feelings. She says that sex with me is the best, but I seriously doubt that.

Now, I'm really not worried that she'll leave me for another guy. We've been together for a long time and have been very happy.

So my question is: am I making something out of nothing or should I be concerned?

Thanks for your thoughts.

Release the alts!

 

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[Que]

Whoa...

Holy Rip Van Winkle Batman!!

I think you should have come to us for help in this matter 12 years ago!

The JAJ will be along shortly to give you an expert consultation. Drop your shorts and don the paper gown.

 

[ms_ann_thrope]

I'm not even going to do it.

Lazy fucker.

 

[Que]

I'm not even going to do it.

Speak of the devil's advocate and he appears. You posted while i was typing. This is -so- in your wheelhouse.

 

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[subdued_passion]

This probably shouldn't bother me. The input from other readers would interest me. When my wife and I have sex she cums. Mildly would be a good word. When she has sex with other guys, she cums loudly, with spasms and shaking. These are wild orgasms. She has squirted with others, but never with me. (I have tried.) I don't think its about technique. I do understand the process, watched the videos, taken suggestions from the guys who made her squirt, etc.

She says she doesn't get into squirting all that much, but she really seems to like it when it's happening. I suspect she doesn't want to hurt my feelings. She says that sex with me is the best, but I seriously doubt that.

Now, I'm really not worried that she'll leave me for another guy. We've been together for a long time and have been very happy.

So my question is: am I making something out of nothing or should I be concerned?

Thanks for your thoughts.

She's not going to leave you. You're the one who bought the cow while she's giving away the milk/waterworks to the rest.

You should embrace the role of a cuckold more heartily and all will be well in your world.

 

[ms_ann_thrope]

They live next door to me and his wife borrows my electric plugin megaphone every now and again.

I told her about the short in the wiring.


So, as you can see, that pretty much takes care of the wifa cum louda and the spasms.

I mean, who can manage to keep track of accounts and passwords that long? I've had like 12 different computers.

 

[Linde]

So you think I'm a cuckold? I never thought about it that way.

 

[jomar]

So you think I'm a cuckold? I never thought about it that way.

Sure, embrace it and lick her clean and all that. Is she a size queen?

 

[Que]

I fucked her with and without electronics.


She cums the same.

too funny. I was just reading up on Frampton's talk box after running across a YouTube in another thread https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=f1kk0X4jmAQ

Do you think he feels like you do?

 

[Linde]

She honestly complains when cocks are so long they bang on her cervix, but she does like it when she's fucking a thick one. As long as the guys takes the time to warm her up.

 

[Que]

For a serious answer...

Orgasms are never about technique. Orgasms are first and foremost mental. A good mind fuck is more powerful than any of the physical variables.

Never underestimate the power of getting some strange. It is always hotter when it is "wrong." Consider adding some element of danger or at the de minimus some unpredictability. Off the top of my head: semi-public fucking with an element of don't get caught.

I am not passing judgment on that you and your wife choose to include others but there are always unintended consequences. She may well appreciate your open-mindedness that lets her have some sexual freedom but it is out of the norm of what biology generally dictates. Mate guarding is the norm. I suspect that she does enjoy sex with you to the degree she says, but her body is reacting to primal inputs. When you fail to mate guard it is a trade-off. Some portion of her likely sees you mildly emasculated, and that tends to be less arousing.

Since you made no mention of other partners for you, I am assuming that only she has a hall pass. Since you expressed no discomfort about that (if that is even the case) I assume that you prefer it that way. If all of that is accurate, the fact that you are not conventional swingers where both play, it avoids 1/2 the potential for jealousy which from an avoidance of conflict basis is good, but from an arousal basis is not.

You do not need to add other women, but you do need to be a man with options. I would suggest some harmless flirting when the opportunity arises. Make it clear that although you like the status quo it is not simply the default because you lack options.

 

[eric60red]

This probably shouldn't bother me. The input from other readers would interest me. When my wife and I have sex she cums. Mildly would be a good word. When she has sex with other guys, she cums loudly, with spasms and shaking. These are wild orgasms. She has squirted with others, but never with me. (I have tried.) I don't think its about technique. I do understand the process, watched the videos, taken suggestions from the guys who made her squirt, etc.

She says she doesn't get into squirting all that much, but she really seems to like it when it's happening. I suspect she doesn't want to hurt my feelings. She says that sex with me is the best, but I seriously doubt that.

Now, I'm really not worried that she'll leave me for another guy. We've been together for a long time and have been very happy.

So my question is: am I making something out of nothing or should I be concerned?

Thanks for your thoughts.

Its you, you need lessons on how to fuck. Contact me for more information

 

[subdued_passion]

So you think I'm a cuckold? I never thought about it that way.

Well think about it now. If the idea excites you even a little bit you can make this work to your advantage. If you don't like her being serviced by other men then you need to talk to your wife and hear her thoughts on it before listening to a bunch of random strangers on the internet.

 

[Que]

Well think about it now. If the idea excites you even a little bit you can make this work to your advantage. If you don't like her being serviced by other men then you need to talk to your wife and hear her thoughts on it before listening to a bunch of random strangers on the internet.

On that subject: I have been meaning to ask you-

Is it a coincidence or is it something cultural that I seem to notice a lot of Indian posters with cuckold themes?

 

[Linde]

Thanks for answering. Actually we are traditional swingers. I do have sex with many other women. But honestly, the most arousing thing is when I watch another man pleasing her. I don't think of myself as a cuckold, but I suppose it's just a matter of definition. My wife and I have discussed it somewhat, but: 1. Don't want her to worry about me. 2. I don't want her to think I'm insecure about our hobby.

She readily admitted that the excitement of new situations really winds her up. She pointed out that I have more fun in large groups than just one-on-one sex also.

I guess it's just my own insecurities that makes me wish I could make her cum the best. That's not reality, though.

 

[Linde]

No I actually love to see her serviced by other men. She knows this. I just wish I could get her off as strongly as when she's with them.

 

[Skiddles2014]

This probably shouldn't bother me. The input from other readers would interest me. When my wife and I have sex she cums. Mildly would be a good word. When she has sex with other guys, she cums loudly, with spasms and shaking. These are wild orgasms. She has squirted with others, but never with me. (I have tried.) I don't think its about technique. I do understand the process, watched the videos, taken suggestions from the guys who made her squirt, etc.

She says she doesn't get into squirting all that much, but she really seems to like it when it's happening. I suspect she doesn't want to hurt my feelings. She says that sex with me is the best, but I seriously doubt that.

Now, I'm really not worried that she'll leave me for another guy. We've been together for a long time and have been very happy.

So my question is: am I making something out of nothing or should I be concerned?

Thanks for your thoughts.

Queerbait's wife preferred other men too, so she left his sorry ass for a real man.

Queerbait's daughter prefers vegetables, just like her dad.