"My way or no way"
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roosterboy
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*bratcat* said:
Hmmm, i think "FUCK YOU" always works for me.
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yeppppppp.........
had a cat once acted like that.........tossed her out.......now she's beggin' to get back in the house
had a cat once acted like that.........tossed her out.......now she's beggin' to get back in the house
MysteryJKR
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I never listen to anything like that. its total bull. No ones going to treat me like that and if they do. they best be prepared to not talk to me anymore cuz no one has control over anyone. Its plain crap.
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hmmmmmmmmmm
then she needs to scratch on the door of another house.."^^"
then she needs to scratch on the door of another house.."^^"
it takes a particularly sad and infantile little sandbox-dweller to think and treat people that way. everyone likes to get their own way, but someone who tries to force their will and their insecurities on others like that is a pathetic excuse for a human being.
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hhhmmmmmmmmmm
many........so stop mailing me........"^^"
many........so stop mailing me........"^^"
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roosterboy
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Re: Re: Re: "My way or no way"
If there are a lot of feelings between two people there better be a good reason such an Ultimatum. You also have to take into account wether we are talking about serious issues (i.e. something that the person feels deep inside and they can't back down) or if this is there way of choosing a movie you might want to use my line (i.e. FUCK YOU).
*bratcat* said:
If there are a lot of feelings between two people there better be a good reason such an Ultimatum. You also have to take into account wether we are talking about serious issues (i.e. something that the person feels deep inside and they can't back down) or if this is there way of choosing a movie you might want to use my line (i.e. FUCK YOU).
willywanker
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Gotta agree with Roosterboy
Just as a general principle, I'd say no, I wouldn't take it, but life isn't that cut and dry.
What is it they are really saying? Have I put them in a position where I know that is going to be the answer? My wife and I both had children from previous marriages before we married. If either of us were to put the other in a position of it me,,, or your children, we both know ahead of time what that answer will be. So if I ever wanted to start a fight I knew would end up pulling us apart, thats where I'd go.
If you've been with someone any length of time and they have any backbone, there is an issue that they will not compromise on. They may let you push it, but there are limits. Mine is my family and my religious believes. I'll let someone push, and I'll bend, but only to a point. Get me there, and yes, I'll say it and mean it.
Just as a general principle, I'd say no, I wouldn't take it, but life isn't that cut and dry.
What is it they are really saying? Have I put them in a position where I know that is going to be the answer? My wife and I both had children from previous marriages before we married. If either of us were to put the other in a position of it me,,, or your children, we both know ahead of time what that answer will be. So if I ever wanted to start a fight I knew would end up pulling us apart, thats where I'd go.
If you've been with someone any length of time and they have any backbone, there is an issue that they will not compromise on. They may let you push it, but there are limits. Mine is my family and my religious believes. I'll let someone push, and I'll bend, but only to a point. Get me there, and yes, I'll say it and mean it.
I would never be with anyone who was unable to compromise. A relationship is based on mutual respect and give and take. For one person to say it is " Myway or No Way " to me is an arrogant asshole, be it man or woman. And along those lines, anyone who stays or enters a relationship, knowing that person is like that, is a fool, and shouldn't cry as they beat their head against the wall. People like that are self-centered and have no compassion for others, thinking the world revolves around just them. Not a world I would enter. But then, I have respect for myself. Nuff said.
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you mean there are people out there who just want their way????
I just don't believe it
I just don't believe it
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OMG....
*runs off crying*
LOL
*runs off crying*
LOL
Xander
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yes I have known someone who was totally unable to comprimise. Sge thought she could mold me into being excatly like SHE wanted me to be.
Then doing stuff herself, that she wouldn't allow me to do.....this kind of behaviour has bothered me ever since.
Today, if I meet someone that is unable to communicate and is unwilling to make comprimises, and furthermore expects a total makeover from me.
Well he/she has to go. Aint taking that kind if crap ever again.
Thankfully I am with one who knows the meaning of communication, and knows the importance, on boths sides, of making comprimises if so is needed.
Then doing stuff herself, that she wouldn't allow me to do.....this kind of behaviour has bothered me ever since.
Today, if I meet someone that is unable to communicate and is unwilling to make comprimises, and furthermore expects a total makeover from me.
Well he/she has to go. Aint taking that kind if crap ever again.
Thankfully I am with one who knows the meaning of communication, and knows the importance, on boths sides, of making comprimises if so is needed.
