my "very sweet and mild" humilation kink

[Stella_Omega]

which where the fuck did it come from?

But lately, I've been totally enjoying fucking with my playmate's mind. 'Course, her mind is very fuckable.

Saturday night, I spent the night and we just did happy vanilla sex, except-- my foot kept cramping up, and she went to look for a banana for potassium. The one she brought back was peeled and frozen, so okay, I ate some of it- then I took a big showy bite, pushed her over and shoved my very cold tongue against her snatch. She screamed and laughed because of course she thought I was smearing banana all over her pussy-- I had actually swallowed it all before I touched her but her reaction was everything I could have wanted.

I used to have all this dignity and shit. I REALLY don't miss it. I can't insult my girls, but I can't help adoring the ones that will "play with me" like this!

 

[ShineyShiney]

Awwwww sweet story.

What's this about dignity? I have actually considered over the past year or so getting a tattoo on my ass that read "FUCK DIGNITY".

Not sure if I will ever actually do it, but I like the idea

 

[eastern sun]

This is the kind of thing my husband would do.

It doesn't have to be all badass or cruel to be fun.

 

[Stella_Omega]

This is the kind of thing my husband would do.

It doesn't have to be all badass or cruel to be fun.

*muses*

for me, this is pretty badass, just relaxing and goofing around. I mean-- ten years ago, I could take divots of skin off a bottom's back with a singletail, and I did. And yeah, I can still do that, if I go and practice a day or two -- but to play like this, for me, takes more trust in myself. I have had to redefine my selfhood, and my parameters of what is BIG AND IMPORTANT.

Pissplay wasn't BIG AND IMPORTANT enough back then... not like blood... I dont feel like acting BIG AND IMPORTANT right now-- but what a surprise, my orgasms are just as satisfying now as they were back then!

 

[eastern sun]

*muses*

for me, this is pretty badass, just relaxing and goofing around. I mean-- ten years ago, I could take divots of skin off a bottom's back with a singletail, and I did. And yeah, I can still do that, if I go and practice a day or two -- but to play like this, for me, takes more trust in myself. I have had to redefine my selfhood, and my parameters of what is BIG AND IMPORTANT.

Pissplay wasn't BIG AND IMPORTANT enough back then... not like blood... I dont feel like acting BIG AND IMPORTANT right now-- but what a surprise, my orgasms are just as satisfying now as they were back then!

Yeah. I get that.

Thirty years ago, piss play was the way my college boyfriend and I made sense out of our feelings for each other. I wouldn't have thought it badass, then, either.

The leathermen were badass. The hook hangers copying the sun dance were badass. Hell, full body tattoos and piercings were badass.

I used to want a tattoo.

Now, I want a gypsy head of hair, the energy to dance, and the boots to dance in, so I can turn all the badass heads when I walk through the neighborhood.

 

[Stella_Omega]

I have tattoos, I played with leathermen. i didn't pee in public because I couldn't shoot it out of my ginormous tallywacker like they could, so why bother?

When I say "piss play" the accent is on PLAY-- following my girl into the bathroom and making her pee into my hand, splashing it back onto her pussy while she complains between gusts of giggles-- my idea of a real good time!

I have friends who are about to do a weeklong imprisonment scene, where he will be kept in the basement the whole time and She will visit him to torture him. There is such a sense of competitiveness amongst that circle of women-- and I would have been beside myself ten years ago, at the constraints that will not allow me to play like that-- but now, I hardly care about it-- although I helped rig the security system so she could keep a safe eye on him whilst he's down there.

life is so interesting...

 

[eastern sun]

I have tattoos, I played with leathermen. i didn't pee in public because I couldn't shoot it out of my ginormous tallywacker like they could, so why bother?

When I say "piss play" the accent is on PLAY-- following my girl into the bathroom and making her pee into my hand, splashing it back onto her pussy while she complains between gusts of giggles-- my idea of a real good time!

I have friends who are about to do a weeklong imprisonment scene, where he will be kept in the basement the whole time and She will visit him to torture him. There is such a sense of competitiveness amongst that circle of women-- and I would have been beside myself ten years ago, at the constraints that will not allow me to play like that-- but now, I hardly care about it-- although I helped rig the security system so she could keep a safe eye on him whilst he's down there.

life is so interesting...

I know. I would have thought you quite the badass.

And I also know how fun it is to play the way you do. The way the laughter is just as good as the whimper. Even better, sometimes.

It is a consequence of constraints. We have children in the house, and couldn't dream of doing some of the things we used to do but still whisper in each other's ears.

 

[knot_sweet]

Stella, your OP made me flat out giggle.
Not something I do often.
And You're right...Too often people get caught up in the "badassery" (it's a word now, so there!) and forget it's about the closeness.
eastern_sun has a point. Laughter is good. Laughter brings us just as close as tears and marks. Making someone helpless with laughter is pretty powerfull stuff and should be enjoyed alot more often.

 

[His_pet_slut]

It is amazing to get to that point, isn't it? Of being able to illicit those fits of giggles or have them yourself without it interfering with the overall power exchange/structure you have negotiated and is an important basis of things.

 

[satindesire]

Once you settle into yourself so much that you forget to care about looking like a BAMF, you become the BAMF.

 

[Stella_Omega]

Once you settle into yourself so much that you forget to care about looking like a BAMF, you become the BAMF.

What I want to be when I grow up!

 

[eastern sun]

Once you settle into yourself so much that you forget to care about looking like a BAMF, you become the BAMF.

Quoted for truth!