I'm a married man with a very demanding career in a management position requiring a lot of decision-making and staff management. For some time I've fantasized about being able to relinquish sexual control to a sweet, loving, female dom. This isn't about humiliation or degradation, but more about just letting go for a while to be pampered, fussed over, and sexually taken care of. I want it to be "all about me!" These are powerful feelings, and I find myself fantasizing about them often. Is this a typical submissive scenario? I've never delved into D/S.
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Netzach
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magnacum said:
This is a common bottom scenario.
I pamper fuss and sexually take care of my man when I feel like it, not when he feels like it. Is this beginning to make sense?
I will say that as a Dominant woman, it's never all about you, pal. You're in search of a submissive with Top skills.
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I gotta agree. Sounds like you want a sub/slave. You want to just sit back, relax, and let them do their thing. If you wanted a mistress she'd probably want you to pamper her. She might pamper you, but only if she's feeling like it, as Netzach said.
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Definitely getting the vibe that you are Dom-oriented, not submissive, magnacum. You may have the terminology confused with your question.
Luckily for you though, there are plenty of men and women who want to be the one to service you sexually. I generally consider it "Soft" Domination. That is to say you don't make any concerted effort physically to Dominate someone, rather they make the effort to submit to you with little coaxing. Sot Domination is something I am still into myself from time to time. Sometimes, it's just a matter of pulling out my cock and telling her to start sucking or doing nothing more than pulling her clothes of and saying I'm ready to be pleasured.
Honestly man, if you and your partner are okay with it, I'd say try it out a few times and see what you both think.
Luckily for you though, there are plenty of men and women who want to be the one to service you sexually. I generally consider it "Soft" Domination. That is to say you don't make any concerted effort physically to Dominate someone, rather they make the effort to submit to you with little coaxing. Sot Domination is something I am still into myself from time to time. Sometimes, it's just a matter of pulling out my cock and telling her to start sucking or doing nothing more than pulling her clothes of and saying I'm ready to be pleasured.
Honestly man, if you and your partner are okay with it, I'd say try it out a few times and see what you both think.
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magnacum said:
I will say yes. A sub gets most of their pleasure from obeying their Master or Mistress. If you were a sub then you would gladly do what you fantasize about being done to you to your Mistress because she commands you to.
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magnacum said:Damn. Whatever happened to man-on-top-get it over with quick sex?
He decided that giving his female partner more pleasure is very pleasurable in itself.
