My personal thoughts on being bi&married

[absorb]

I have heard it so many times before…how can you be married and still be bisexual? I can because, he has been aware about it for the past twenty five years. I will always have those feelings and desires. I have had sex with another woman because, it pleased me to do so and made me happy. My husband had watched me with that woman. We can be married and still have me be bisexual. I am happy, he is happy, and whom ever we are with in our future will be to! Being bisexual and married gives me the freedom to do as I desire with a woman and my partner whom understands my needs. He is happy that I can be with a woman, and still want to be with him. It is who I am and always will be a part of my life. I am happy to be bisexual and married.

 

[talldad1]

I have heard it so many times before…how can you be married and still be bisexual? I can because, he has been aware about it for the past twenty three years. I will always have those feelings and desires. I have had sex with another woman because, it pleased me to do so and made me happy. My husband had watched me with that woman. We can be married and still have me be bisexual. I am happy, he is happy, and whom ever we are with in our future will be to! Being bisexual and married gives me the freedom to do as I desire with a woman and my partner whom understands my needs. He is happy that I can be with a woman, and still want to be with him. It is who I am and always will be a part of my life. I am happy to be bisexual and married.

Very nice, it's good that you have a happy relationship about it and are both open to having your desires fulfilled. Welcome to lit!

 

[absorb]

Very nice, it's good that you have a happy relationship about it and are both open to having your desires fulfilled. Welcome to lit!

Thanks, I have enjoyed being on lit for awhile now. Being bisexual makes me happy. My relationship being open about it has helped me to be happy. I am glad you are happy for me. That is nice.

 

[Flybigirlsea]

I have heard it so many times before…how can you be married and still be bisexual? I can because, he has been aware about it for the past twenty three years. I will always have those feelings and desires. I have had sex with another woman because, it pleased me to do so and made me happy. My husband had watched me with that woman. We can be married and still have me be bisexual. I am happy, he is happy, and whom ever we are with in our future will be to! Being bisexual and married gives me the freedom to do as I desire with a woman and my partner whom understands my needs. He is happy that I can be with a woman, and still want to be with him. It is who I am and always will be a part of my life. I am happy to be bisexual and married.

Very insightful and well put. Thank you for your honesty. I couldn't agree more!

 

[absorb]

Very insightful and well put. Thank you for your honesty. I couldn't agree more!

Thank you, for your post. I am glad it was insightful for you into my life. I am always honest, so that is a given. I am glad you agreed.

 

[absorb]

I have heard it so many times before…how can you be married and still be bisexual? I can because, he has been aware about it for the past twenty three years. I will always have those feelings and desires. I have had sex with another woman because, it pleased me to do so and made me happy. My husband had watched me with that woman. We can be married and still have me be bisexual. I am happy, he is happy, and whom ever we are with in our future will be to! Being bisexual and married gives me the freedom to do as I desire with a woman and my partner whom understands my needs. He is happy that I can be with a woman, and still want to be with him. It is who I am and always will be a part of my life. I am happy to be bisexual and married.

Update on this, its been awhile...
Someone asked how does this work. Well, it goes like this; if I find a woman I want to be with he will be fine with it. I can date her, make love to her and still be his wife before and after. It does not mean I am dating non stop, nor that I date random women on a whim. It means, I find someone on my own time that I find attractive and interesting. If we connect mental and physical then it becomes something more. It is like any other beginning relationship in a bi world but, a complicated one because I am married. It means I do not get to have the overnight stay, unless its been set up ahead of time. I have a family of my own. I can not always have all the regular hours and days to have a sexual relationship. Things have to be set up and times available to me, around my normal married life. I have not seen anyone in awhile. I had a relationship with a gal but, we were friends and it got complicated. I am still always looking but, until I find the right one for now it is a part of my life. However, its not all my life. Sex and relationships with a bi gender for me is a good part of my life not the whole thing. I hope this explains it for the fellow whom asked and any others curious.