My past....why??

luvolderwomen28

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In the past I had been treated like shit......
Even when I gave her everything a girl could have ever dreamed of....
Is being too nice a turn off???
It seems like guys that treat women like whores.....like slaves, like their personal property.........all ways end up in first........
It is true that good guys end up in last........why is that........I was brought up in an old school household........be a gentleman.........I still am to some extent.......will hold doors, open doors, let a woman go ahead of me in line.......just because that's how i was brought up..........Respect is something that I gave everyone......but, know I know that respect is something that is earned..........I have recently gotten into a relationship.....thought she was the one..........treated her the same way I treated my first girlfriend............guess what.........she cheated on me.........how and why does this happen.............why is it everytime I look forward to something, it rains on me??? Is it wrong to live life....day by day and not dream about the future......I like my life like an alcholic..........somebody please explain........I had faith once, I am lost now :(
 
Hi

As someone who is the same age as u it is nice to know that there is someone my age that is a gentleman. I am resently divorced and my ex-husband was like that when we were dateing and then when he put a ring on my finger he changed. And then he cheated on me all the time. So i know how u feel just don't give up and keep on looking. I am on the dateing sceen again after 6 years of marriage and loveing it.....

Nympho
 
You're obviously meeting the wrong women... Granted, alot of younger women these days do almost seem to enjoy being treated like a doormat; always going for the guys that will use and abuse them and treat them like garbage, only to dump them for someone else... But, not all of them do... And the ones who do, eventually grow out of it...

I, myself am a nice guy most of the time... But I tell you, it doesn't hurt to adopt a bit of the bad boy attitude... A nice balance between the good and the bad seems to keep women (especially younger ones) interested...

It works for me...;)
 
Snoopy, humming
'What's the use to trying, all you get is pain, when I wanted sunshine I got rain....'
Just keep on searching buddy, I totally know what you mean and in the end it's us nice guys who will win the race. (At least I hope so)
Snoopy
 
sorry if you misunderstood...........
my first relationship was not the relationship I was in w/ the mother-in-law.........that happened years after my first love.........

Your right snoop.........not worth it.........will continue to have fun.....thanks snoop.
 
Heh life sucks! It deals everybody bad cards at some point. Just stay in the game and hope for the best.
 
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