MY Opinion (the truth for once)

[Nicole]

The general feeling on this board is that Nicole is too damn nice, well Fuck it I say.

Lets see where I can start shall we.

Bliss my dear darling stuck up friend, as Payne you were actually quite Blissful but as Bliss your a fucking "PAYNE" in the ass.

You seem to feel the need to Email me about not telling people so much about me on the board, and then proceed to tell me all about yourself, take your own Fucking advice and SHUT THE FUCK UP.

Siren your a great one for telling others how to post, but it is you that breaks all the so called rules that you make. Email someone when you have a problem with them, then YOU yes YOU Siren bring it onto the board. Stop treating me like a naive little ten year old already. If I feel the need to be nice to some one it's because I fucking well want to alright. That is my Right, my opinion, remember something you said that we are all entitled too.

Then we have the likes of Ramlick and Dee_Cole, who come on here and feel the need to Call people Cunts and Bitches, and yes they get jummped all over for it, but what the hell do you all want??? Do you want nice?? Hell NO, so do you want nasty??? Hell NO.

For Fucks sake people make up your goddamn fucking minds will you. I am sick and Tired of all this Bullshit that you are all giving out.

Then we have Bobtoad, Naked Hunny and the like, they come on and fucking take over, post here, post there, post everyfuckingwhere. You all jump on them about it and then accept them once they apologise to you and say "Oh I'll calm down I'll be good" Well maybe we all wish they would just go away .... "NO they have a right to be here" I hear you say. You are all so fucking contradicting it just isn't funny.

Then we have the likes of Lasher who (god bless him) says what the fuck is on his mind, the one that I wish so badly that I could be like, but I can't because there is only one Lasher.

Deborah who I feel like writing to and getting lessons off, "How to be the Bitch you want too" god knows I need to learn. I'm just waaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaay too nice for some of you.

You all need to go back and read some of your own fucking posts, see how damn stupid some of you look. Yes I'm nice, that's because I for one am sick and tired of coming here and reading post after post of how we should all be and what we should all say. You can only say this and you can only be this way. Well FUCK IT, I've had it. You don't want me to be nice then I won't, I'll be like the rest of you, I'll be miserable. Does that make it better I ask you???

I mean really people is this what you were going for out of me??? Cause I can be this way if you like, I can tell you all the truth for a chnage if that's what you want to hear.

I'll just stand over here now and watch you all jump me ... Go for it, you couldn't possibly make me feel any madder than I am right now.

 

[Lasher]

Yeh! FUCK ALL Y'ALL!!

C'mon Nicole, there's gotta be people you left out. Tell'em all to fuck off!!! Every last fucking one of'em... Just start making a nice long list and after each name write "FUCK YOU, too"....

You'll feel so much better, trust me.

 

[Nicole]

Well I would Lasher but Nicole doesn't like to hurt people remember???

Nikki now Nikki can upset some people and she may just do that.

 

[Silverlily]

I'll just stand over here now and watch you all jump me ... Go for it, you couldn't possibly make me feel any madder than I am right now. [/B]

Can I just jump you and tickle you?

I'm sorry, I know exactly how you feel. I prefer to come here and be pleasant myself, even at the risk of looking silly.

 

[Beebeeblue]

Amen!!!

 

[Melody_lane]

...

 

[Deborah]

Nikki, you go girl!

 

[Siren]

You feel better?

 

[Bliss]

http://www.literotica.com/forum/showthread.php?threadid=16027

Dee Cole posts a new thread about how Cheri can KISS HIS ASS cause she's not interested in the threesomes of his previous thread.

Knowing his history and how digusting he can be... which I admit is not much next to the spewing of, say, Ramlick or any Troll-come-lately... and apparently not knowing why he was trashing Cheri or bothering to find out, SEVERAL people proceeded to tell Dee we always have our dickheads and other such sentiments. NO SHIT! He's one of them!

Now, noticing both on and off the board that this was rather odd, I happened to speak up for my friend. Whoa is me! How rotten and mean and stuck up. Okay.

Nicole, I have never sent anyone an email telling them what or what not to post. I have said time and time again that I don't care if folks rent flying banners and zoom back and forth with their latest news over Literotica Beach.

But if it made you feel better to blast me, comfort Dee Cole and scream at the top of your fingertips, good.

All I said was Cheri had a right to say she didn't like threesomes. Dee also has the right to say that he finds that "lame". And so on, ad nauseum.

What good does it do to TRY to be nice all the time? Not much if it leads to ulcers and blow ups. Either be yourself or don't bother. I happen to think that, for anyone, being themselves all the time includes equal amounts of sugar and spice.

When you label someone, whether it be me, Patryn, Deborah or anyone else as a bitch, that effectively cuts the rest of their personality off at the knees and that's about as fair as classifying the constantly cheery as Hare Krishas.

 

[Patryn]

Yeah, but I am a bitch. I guess. I've been called so many things it's hard to keep track. I'm just honest. Imagine that. If that makes me a bitch, then so be it. There's worse things to be IMO.

You know what else I hate? Fucking people who hijack EVERY god damn thread. That's why I hardly start topics any more, because I know damn well any intellectual or even fun topic I start is gonna turn into "pass the beer" "oh, yeah, I'd do you right now" inside of 4 posts. So that's MY honest opinion...flame away.

 

[lala]

nicole, i wish i could make you feel better- let me say, i know how much better it is to be nice- i've been both. and when all i do is bitch day in and day out, it makes me miserable, and when i'm nice to everyone i don't let them get to me, and i'm happier. so you know what, let it out, and move on, because some of these people will continue to bitch day and day out, and try to make you as miserable as they are, don't let them win!

 

[Cheyenne]

Nicole, maybe the key is not trying so hard to be nice so that when you finally do blow up, you REALLY blow up? Let it out a little at a time when something irks you instead of one big post when you blow? Since we all probably handle the board very similar to the way we handle real life, my thought for the day for you would be: does this sound at all familiar to you? In RL, do you hold in your anger and then scream and yell all at once? That's fairly common. Maybe Oliver Clozoff knows for sure, but I think it also gives people heart attacks eventually!

You're a good person. We all know that. But you're allowed to give your opinion and get angry too, just like the rest of us. Maybe you should do it a little more often. You'd feel better!

 

[TigerClaw]

 

[Siren]

OK here is a bit of truth

 

[Never Again]

Why is 'speaking the truth' and 'being honest' always about telling everyone you don't like to fuck off?
You know what? I happen to like Payne, Siren, bobtoad, Naked Hunny, and Deb. Even if I didn't like them I might manage to tell them so in a way that was slightly respectful.

Yep, I even like Nicole, though I always thought better of her than this.

 

[Cheri]

If no one comments on this damn post I will be majorly pissed, have a nice day!

Well FUCK IT, I've had it. You don't want me to be nice then I won't, I'll be like the rest of you, I'll be miserable. Does that make it better I ask you???

I mean really people is this what you were going for out of me??? Cause I can be this way if you like, I can tell you all the truth for a chnage if that's what you want to hear.

Nicole, thanks by the way for sticking up for me on dee's thread. At the time I was shocked and surprised that my quip had wounded him so, but now I am better able to see that it really doesn't matter at all to me.
I wish that you would realize that too. Be nice if you want to, be bitchy if you want to, be sarcastic if you want to making sure that you are just being you. This board should not be so important that it reduces people to such anxiety from the things they say. Now before you all go jumping down my throat, I do not mean to be cruel or uncaring about the feeling of others, but you should still be able to say what you want to say!
This was exactly the point I was trying to get across on the censorship thread. This SHOULD be a place where we can express our true feelings and true emotions. Why come here if this is nothing more than another place to act like we think people want us to act. Hell I'd rather watch TV than that!
So Nicole, please please come here and post here because it makes you happy whether that's bitchy posts or happy posts that's up to you.
And please lay off Blissbaby, I luv her!

 

[Nicole]

You see Siren that's where your wrong. I do think of others that's why I try so hard to make everyone ELSE happy. Last nights Email wasn't what made me feel this way, because it's happened before. I was nice to someone once before, a certain Dee_Cole, and I got an email saying that I shouldn't be all nicey nice.

Well for your information I will do as I see fit, your not my Mother and you don't need to be telling me who I can and can not post to or what I can and can not say. That's the problem here Siren, not that you seem to see that, you think everyone should look up to you, what Siren says goes.

Did you ever stop to think that the reason that girl stopped posting was because you badgered her that much she turned her computer off??? Noooooooooo it was all down to Nicole and what she wrote, Nicole was being "Co Dependent", Nicole was trying to make the girl feel all welcome, BULLSHIT. You seem to think I'm a naive ten year old, Well if I could see what you were doing in that thread then I'm sure that Elaine could too. Were all not as stupid as you think we are.

Yes you see you all expected better out of me, well again you confuse me. Do you want nice or nasty because there doesn't seem to be an in between with some of you.

Bliss, you have to realize that if you stick up for a "Friend" then that's fine, but you know I have the right to my opinion too, or so I keep getting told. Not nice for someone to lash out at you for being you is it? I have coped my fair share in the time I've been here and always taken it with a pinch of salt, well enough already.

Never sweetie, you expected more of me because you have never seen this side to me, something that I choose not to show to people that can't see me. Oh I can be a bitch alright but, I choose to do that when we can have a one on one and see each others expressions and true feelings. You know it's not the words that people write it's the words people choose to write that are the ones that hurt.

Cheyenne No I'm not like this in Real life, I let my feelings be known, simply because I can have it out with the person I'm talking too.

Patryn you and I haven't always seen eye to eye but I admire the fact that you say what you want and go on with it, we can't all be like that. Although we all want to be. I will address the thread Hijacking though. I haven't turned someone else's thread into a party thread or and Orgy ever, I have joined in once it's happened but I try to put my thoughts across and have even ignored a lot of the partying to answer the original post.

Bliss I agree with you on the whole When you label someone, whether it be me, Patryn, Deborah or anyone else as a bitch, that effectively cuts the rest of their personality off at the knees and that's about as fair as classifying the constantly cheery as Hare Krishas. So stop calling me happy all the goddamn time, I too have different sides it's just that you people don't see them.

So there you have it, Nicole does blow up on occasion and this time she is not at all sorry that she did. It's not all about me, I know that, never said I wanted it to be. It's about all of us coming to a place where we should all feel comfortable, not being told to do this and do that, be this way and don't be that way. Just all think before you do things, some of you think that I don't, but I do try to think before I post something. Siren if you think that what is going through my mind is ME ME ME than your gravely mistaken. I do in fact think of others I just don't go round telling them what to do.

Others obviously feel the same way, and it's a pity they can't say it. Like Lasher said on one of his threads "were all too damn scared to post under our own names for fear of being jummped on". Doesn't seem to be the kind of place people want to come to anymore to give their opinion does it???

[Edited by Nicole on 10-11-2000 at 08:45 PM]

 

[Alyrahh]

Nicole-

Seems to me, that you and I are much alike. If I'm wrong, forgive me for being assumptive. We both internalize everything, try very hard to make others feel good about themselves, and measure our personal worth by how others view us. The problem with this is, it's detrimental to us. Hon, do yourself a favor, take the advice I've seen from others, when something irks you... let it out. Try not to bottle it all up until you burst. That's what I'm working on for myself.

 

[Whispersecret]

The name of the thread is My Opinion (the truth for once), which I think is very interesting.

Nicole, you remind me of a very good friend of mine. She gives gifts all the time. (Don't know if you do this.) She's very caring. (You are very caring.) She's very very generous to a fault, in that she'll bend over backward to do a favor for you, but HATES to be helped in return. (Don't know of that last part pertains to you or not.) She also gets very bothered when she thinks someone doesn't like her. (This is definitely you.)

You might hate me for saying this, but I only say it in the hope that it will help you feel better. I think you need to realize that people will like you, even if you tell the truth. (Er, I'm not talking about telling people to fuck off, necessarily.) You don't have to be super nice to everyone in order for people to like you. You're a likeable gal! Really! And I also think you have to accept the fact that not everyone will like you no matter how nice you are to them.

Everyone, you included, is allowed to disagree with someone. Everyone is allowed to disagree with you. And disagreement doesn't equal dislike. It only means you differ in that one instance.

Just be your true self. You're a wonderful woman. Truly.

Now I hope to hell I didn't sound condescending. <sighs>

 

[Samuari]

Re: Yeh! FUCK ALL Y'ALL!!

C'mon Nicole, there's gotta be people you left out. Tell'em all to fuck off!!! Every last fucking one of'em... Just start making a nice long list and after each name write "FUCK YOU, too"....

You'll feel so much better, trust me.

Fuck Me Fuck Me Fuck Me, oh well some of us are just too inconsquential, or is it insubstantial, I get confused.

 

[Renee]

For once Nicole it won't be your teeth falling...

I have to say I agree with all that was said. This board is unreal. I know things change... but come on people what the fuck is happening here? I used to come here and read interesting posts and yes there were always the "just for the hell of it let's have some fun posts".. and from time to time there were some "nonsense posts" too.. .but lately my God... everyday there are at least 15 new nonsense posts. The title leads you inside with the thought that maybe just maybe this thread could be something good and then you get in it and it's all a joke... this does get a bit old.

With that being said, I must also say this. To go into each of these threads and repeatdly tell the subject starter that they shouldn't do this or that, or that this has been done already is also a bit old. And, a bit hypocrytical since you shouldn't be the ones telling them what to do, and you shouldn't be repeating yourself non-stop.. afterall by doing this, then can't we all say... hey so-and-so your reply has been done numerous times... let's go back to 3/23/98 and you will see the same reply. I think this is the exact reason that these so called "trolls" do this. They like the attention and the feed back they get from it. They know it pisses you off and for some sick reason they enjoy doing it. So don't let them know it bothers you.. if they start to see that 150 ppl read the post but 0 ppl replied maybe it would all get boring and old to them too.

I for one, like to come here and have fun... I will respond to a serious thread if I have some thoughtful or useful information to respond with, I like to go to the fun threads just to laugh and be stupid with the rest of you.. yet I don't go into the threads that I know don't interest me, and when a subject leads me to believe it's something good and I get in there and see it's something that is just there to get a reaction... I DON'T REPLY... because I don't want to encourage any more posts like that... what a concept huh?

It's just really sad to me that when we have ppl like Nicole, (who in my opinion is one of the nicest, most fun sweet girl that ever wandered these boards)... and others who have been here for quite some time leaving the board due to this shit, no one learns. You all just either shut up finally, for oh I don't know.. 20 mins. and then it is back to the same old games again.

So here is the bottom line... if you want good topics... stop scaring the regulars away who have some good things to say.. and if you want the "trolls" to go away stop encouraging them to stay by reacting to everything they do. Games aren't fun when you have no one to play along with you.

That's my thoughts, my opinions take them for what they are worth use what you want throw the rest out... because either way it doesn't matter to me... I am here to talk to the ppl I like to talk to and I could care less what any of you think about it.

_____________________

BTW, Nicole, I'm nice, but not when you either piss me off, or hurt ppl I care for... so if you would like to send me the list of names I will tell each of them to fuck off for you ... because there are only a handful of ppl on here that I do care about and the rest don't matter.

 

[Laurel]

That wasn't really Nicole talking - she was posting one of Linda Blair's recently restored scenes from the new version of "The Exorcist". In the original version, that part was edited out, along with the spider-walking scene. Playing Now in a Theater Near You, with Digitally Remastered Sound!

 

[Nicole]

LMFAO @ Laurel.

Thank-you oh and Renee honey Thank-you too, I love ya babe

Whisper up until recently I would have told you to go bite yourself, but you DO know me and You have got me down to a tee. I do listen to you and your advice will be taken on board. Thanks

I just can't see why we can't be ourselves is all.

 

[Ravenloft]

Oh shit!HAHAHAHAH!!! Laurel! Are you contending for my crown or something... *Grabs hold of it with both hands, greedilly.*

 

[Xander]

You know, I've been here longer than most people here now.
And I've seen how things have changed here over time.
Like other, I don't like to see people hurt, and I try to prevent jumping down peoples throats, covered in spikes. As far as I can remember I've only done that twice.

However, I do think there's way too much shit floating around here. Personal attacks seem to be a daily routine now. Most of them seem to be completely unjustified.
The people here who has emailed me, telling me I'm a fucked up loser. You know who you are. What's up with that.

I try to stay out of arguments here, I do not post on the more serious threads, like I used to anymore. Simply because, I don't wanna have my mailbox flooded with harrasments, and threats again.
Now, I don't give a rats ass, what any of you think of me, or anybody else for that matter. But the moment people start to continuesly send email threats and other harrasments. That's when I say stop, and no more. I've recently become the fool around here, not posting anything of weight or seriousness. And that why.

But if push comes to shove. By all means, let's bring it on. Last man breathing, wins.
I'm ready. Are you?

I feel sad that a nice person like Nicole feels the way she does. I gotta agree with Renee here, and say she's as sweet and nice as they come.

So when that's said. You people who seem to have a need to personally attack others, here or through email.

FUCK YOU ALL, And I wish you'll get butt raped with a steal pole, covered with Barbed wire.

Nicole, You go girl! Let it out.