adamISOeve
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Something I learned from RFK jr’s father. Which dates me as a fairly mature man. But why should one not learn from a giant I admired? And one subject I apply it to is my search for a close and dear woman companion. I tell myself: not only do I search for her but she must be searching for me as well. So there are TWO people in my situation.
Instead of describing YOU first, I’ll start with my intended outcomes. I aim for the TWO of us to develop the connection we desire into the best thing that happened to us for a long time. Which means I see it as a process that won’t finish overnight. And which needs some essentials for sure: patience and perseverance. And to muster those, we need a certain amount of determination as well.
And not to forget an even more prior essential ingredient: a strong need, in both of us, for this connection and companionship we aim for. So when I come right down to it: I look for a mighty needy woman inside of you. In need for things like sharing with each other an awful lot. And meaningful sharing takes listening and understanding and responding to each other. And then I desire, and I hope you do as well, your reactions to me, and your feedback. Which really boils down to the two of us bestowing on each other a deep respect. Something that comes naturally, once we are aware of how all these factors interact.
Now. I have not experienced a relationship yet, with all these factors in play, as strongly as I wished these were. Easy to see why: most of my intense relationships happened when I was not mature enough yet. After all, when one is younger, different factors take on a higher priority.
And as I am writing all this down, I defined the rest of you automatically: in addition to an unfulfilled sexuality, I hope for a soul in you, which feels comfortable with all the above, and needy for them too. Plus I hope for the kind of intellect in you, which jumps for joy at the challenges that lie ahead of us. And right now there is only one more thing I need: a woman like you to discover this ad, and ready to respond to it with lots of enthusiasm.
Instead of describing YOU first, I’ll start with my intended outcomes. I aim for the TWO of us to develop the connection we desire into the best thing that happened to us for a long time. Which means I see it as a process that won’t finish overnight. And which needs some essentials for sure: patience and perseverance. And to muster those, we need a certain amount of determination as well.
And not to forget an even more prior essential ingredient: a strong need, in both of us, for this connection and companionship we aim for. So when I come right down to it: I look for a mighty needy woman inside of you. In need for things like sharing with each other an awful lot. And meaningful sharing takes listening and understanding and responding to each other. And then I desire, and I hope you do as well, your reactions to me, and your feedback. Which really boils down to the two of us bestowing on each other a deep respect. Something that comes naturally, once we are aware of how all these factors interact.
Now. I have not experienced a relationship yet, with all these factors in play, as strongly as I wished these were. Easy to see why: most of my intense relationships happened when I was not mature enough yet. After all, when one is younger, different factors take on a higher priority.
And as I am writing all this down, I defined the rest of you automatically: in addition to an unfulfilled sexuality, I hope for a soul in you, which feels comfortable with all the above, and needy for them too. Plus I hope for the kind of intellect in you, which jumps for joy at the challenges that lie ahead of us. And right now there is only one more thing I need: a woman like you to discover this ad, and ready to respond to it with lots of enthusiasm.
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