My Man Needs Another Woman...

[blessthefreaks]

Hi all! This is just my second post, but I've been reading the stories for years, and lurking on the forums for a couple of months. I thought it would be nice to make some friends and talk about sex!

My husband and I have been talking about spicing up our sex lives for a couple of years. We are high school sweethearts, and he has never been with another woman. (We broke up for a while, and I made some poor decisions, so I have been with other men.) While some women would adore this, I think it sucks for him. So we've talked about, at some point, bringing another woman into the mix, either with me or without me there. We've tried craigslist and a swinger's party, but nothing really happened. I thought I'd ask you guys, with your vast knowledge, if there is any other way to meet a woman who would be interested in this. We live smack-dab in the middle of the bible belt, so I think that makes it a little harder.

Also, once I've been a member for a while and see what all really goes on here, I'm going to see if I can get him to sign up for an account. If he does, looking for a woman to message/send dirty pics or email/texts with, will he actually get any responses? It seems that, typically, the women looking get more responses, so I would just like to see if any women would be interested.

Thanks for reading my very long post. I look forward to hearing any responses or advice you guys can share!

 

[madisoncb29]

Generally, I don't think it's just the women who get good responses. They may get a lot more, but I've found that even though I get less responses, mine usually have more substance, and have been able to string together actual friendships from them. Not saying women can't do that either, but I'm sure they get more creeps.

If he joins and get himself talking and kind of makes a name for himself, I think he could have some luck finding someone. Just tell him to make sure he stands out in some way!

 

[blessthefreaks]

Thanks, madisoncb29! The standing out part will be hard for him because he's really shy and...I guess self-conscious? I'm definitely the more out-spoken of the two of us, and no matter how great I tell him he is (sexually & otherwise), he sometimes has a hard time believing it. But I'll help him out. Probably just reading some of the posts and getting to know some people will help us both out.

 

[NiceNSweet]

Hi. What part of Tennessee are you in?

 

[cf23430]

Hi. What part of Tennessee are you in?

Hi NiceNSweet.....hope that your doing well....

 

[blessthefreaks]

We are in the greater Knoxville area. I will reply to your pm in just a sec...gotta do baby dishes!

 

[madisoncb29]

Thanks, madisoncb29! The standing out part will be hard for him because he's really shy and...I guess self-conscious? I'm definitely the more out-spoken of the two of us, and no matter how great I tell him he is (sexually & otherwise), he sometimes has a hard time believing it. But I'll help him out. Probably just reading some of the posts and getting to know some people will help us both out.

I am pretty shy as well, but anonymity of the web made that go away in a hurry. I have a feeling he'll be the same way once he sees how it is. Good luck!

 

[dreamone4me2]

Hi all! This is just my second post, but I've been reading the stories for years, and lurking on the forums for a couple of months. I thought it would be nice to make some friends and talk about sex!

My husband and I have been talking about spicing up our sex lives for a couple of years. We are high school sweethearts, and he has never been with another woman. (We broke up for a while, and I made some poor decisions, so I have been with other men.) While some women would adore this, I think it sucks for him. So we've talked about, at some point, bringing another woman into the mix, either with me or without me there. We've tried craigslist and a swinger's party, but nothing really happened. I thought I'd ask you guys, with your vast knowledge, if there is any other way to meet a woman who would be interested in this. We live smack-dab in the middle of the bible belt, so I think that makes it a little harder.

Also, once I've been a member for a while and see what all really goes on here, I'm going to see if I can get him to sign up for an account. If he does, looking for a woman to message/send dirty pics or email/texts with, will he actually get any responses? It seems that, typically, the women looking get more responses, so I would just like to see if any women would be interested.

Thanks for reading my very long post. I look forward to hearing any responses or advice you guys can share!

35 y/o from outside of Philadelphia. I think you should consider another guy to talk to as well. Lets see what happens. Love the idea of a jaded mind in the middle of the bible belt.

 

[blessthefreaks]

Aww, thanks dreamone4me2. We've talked about it, but right now, I just have no desire for it. If things change, though, I promise to let you know. And honey, I'm a Catholic in the middle of the bible belt, you can't get more wild than some of us folks!

 

[hollibibi]

Aww, thanks dreamone4me2. We've talked about it, but right now, I just have no desire for it. If things change, though, I promise to let you know. And honey, I'm a Catholic in the middle of the bible belt, you can't get more wild than some of us folks!

Feel free to PM babe. We can play..