((hugs)) It's nice seeing a "newbie's" reaction - gives me an idea of what I'd think when going to one. 
sexycaz22 said:
A little update......
Today, I have been chatting with ~A, the guy I chatted with before the munch, then met at the munch and chatted once again afterwards.
~A has been a good man, a kind man who have encouraged me to set up a profile at Informed Consent (which is great for people who lives in the UK and especially in Scotland) and through that, I have made some good friends.
~A was the one who also encouraged me to go to the munch, as to meet other people from the kinky world, to find out what they were like; what they looked like etc. He were the one who were patient with me and gave me little snips of advice, along with other Doms I have met from Lit or IC (Informed Consent).
Anyway......today..... we kinda talked about what I would like to try first, as to get a little taste in a kinky way, and I suggested a good spanking session. Then he said he would be honoured if he could be the first person to play with me in a bdsm/kinky sense...and of course, at first I was wary of this. Until he put my mind at rest and said that it would be completely up to me, whether if I wanted to do this with him or not, and also suggested for us to meet up for a coffee *in a public place, of course* to discuss things etc. Again, he said, that is also up to me. He also asked about safewords and how would I communicate them to him since I am deaf, and can't really *talk*. He suggested a traffic light system, where we could print out and lay them down on the floor and I would point to them etc... which I thought to be a good idea for play sessions.
So, I am really seriously thinking about this, and of course I will take my time, to think, but not to over-think (I hope!) and at the same time, I feel excited but nervous about doing a play session, but someone have to start somewhere!
I am really happy and excited and nervous and worried, all in one go!!
SubKekiLee said:SC
I am sooooo happy for you .. You are gonna find a real good guy by taking your time in this journey.. CONGRATS I am excited for you..
for the lovely comment..... I am so excited but nervous, of course.
It sounds like you've found a lovely man for your first play session, should you go ahead with this. I wish you luck and lots of fun!sexycaz22 said:
A little update......
Today, I have been chatting with ~A, the guy I chatted with before the munch, then met at the munch and chatted once again afterwards.
~A has been a good man, a kind man who have encouraged me to set up a profile at Informed Consent (which is great for people who lives in the UK and especially in Scotland) and through that, I have made some good friends.
~A was the one who also encouraged me to go to the munch, as to meet other people from the kinky world, to find out what they were like; what they looked like etc. He were the one who were patient with me and gave me little snips of advice, along with other Doms I have met from Lit or IC (Informed Consent).
Anyway......today..... we kinda talked about what I would like to try first, as to get a little taste in a kinky way, and I suggested a good spanking session. Then he said he would be honoured if he could be the first person to play with me in a bdsm/kinky sense...and of course, at first I was wary of this. Until he put my mind at rest and said that it would be completely up to me, whether if I wanted to do this with him or not, and also suggested for us to meet up for a coffee *in a public place, of course* to discuss things etc. Again, he said, that is also up to me. He also asked about safewords and how would I communicate them to him since I am deaf, and can't really *talk*. He suggested a traffic light system, where we could print out and lay them down on the floor and I would point to them etc... which I thought to be a good idea for play sessions.
So, I am really seriously thinking about this, and of course I will take my time, to think, but not to over-think (I hope!) and at the same time, I feel excited but nervous about doing a play session, but someone have to start somewhere!
I am really happy and excited and nervous and worried, all in one go!!
Neon
sexycaz22 said:Thank you
On a side note, how would I approach this as it would be my first time? I mean, what are your safety tips/advice etc? I would appreciate all your tips/advice!
Thank you for posting about your first experience of a munch; Sir and I are going to our first next week which is filling me with nervous excitement (actually meeting other kinky people insted of hiding) Enjoy the next stage in your journey.
subtleone said:Hi Cazz, good to hear about your journey, what a lovely idea
Chris_Xavier said:
I do appreciate your words of concerns, you are a good friend! Yes, I am starting to step into the deep end, but I will be very careful! 
sexycaz22 said:Good luck with the munch, subtleone, I am sure the both of you will enjoy the munch!
I also have chatted with ~A about safe signals, etc, we will talk more tonight, about that, as I want to be really comfortable and we both know what is our safe signal for the session. Can't wait....it's all happening this Friday!
the captians wench said:Congrats
I find any one worth a damn will really work with you and your special needs. The key is comunicating what your needs are and how best to work with them so that the other person knows when you're in trouble. But it looks like you two are working on that. best wishes
Thank you for the best wishes, he is a really nice and gentle man...well, won't be as gentle when he begins to spank me *giggles* 
Didn't your mom ever tell you about those "really nice and gentle" men? The silent type...the quiet ones are the ones you've got to look out for. They seem so nice on the outside, but on the inside, they can be pretty kinky.sexycaz22 said:
Wish it was Friday already! *laughs*
Caz x
DVS said:Actually, this sounds like a lot of fun. Wish the guy was me.
sexycaz22 said:Tonight......but sorry, Chris, this is a private viewing, of just me and ~A, so no need to print up some tickets and such!
X x X
have a great time tonight.. Im jelaous your getting it before I am..
SubKekiLee said:Caz
Tonights the night I bet your so excited!!! Congrats again and we wanna hear all the details.. ( well as much as you wish you to be shared)
Chris_Xavier said:What about
http://www.mobilewhack.com/images/panasonic_vdr_d400_dvd_video_camera.jpg ?
Any chance of buying the DVD?
SubKekiLee said:Caz
Tonights the night I bet your so excited!!! Congrats again and we wanna hear all the details.. ( well as much as you wish you to be shared)
