My husbands past infidelity

[laura_ty]

My husband cheated on me years ago. I was devastated to the point that the marriage was over. He came crawling back 6 months later and we rebuilt our marriage better than it ever was.

My problem is this, somehow Ive gone from utter revulsion for what my husband did to total horny crazy.

Nothing really turns me on unless I am imagining him cheating on me with her or someone else. I've asked him to call me by her name during sex and I squirted for the first time ever.

I've never ever had a orgasm like that since and I just done have the guts to ask again but I'm craving that orgasms intensity.

Is there a name for this kind of phenomenon? going from revulsion to a fetish?

 

[Carnevil9]

In a man, it's called Cuckoldry. In a woman, I guess it would be called Cuck-Queen.

Or, you could call it Humiliation Fetish. I wrote a series of stories trying to understand the phenomenon, called "Midnight Confessions." Maybe that could help explain it?

 

[shadowheaven]

Not sure if theres a female version so to say in cuckolding,.... hmmmm maybe a way to turn a neg into a positive.. but not to sure what you would call this.

 

[vixtoria57]

i have a friend who likes to have revenge sex with his ex. she was a cheater and now that they aren't together he likes to have sex with her which effectively means she is now cheating with him on the person she cheated on him with

i think it's like an alpha male thing: reclaiming territory

so maybe what you are into is not so much that he cheated but that you have him back which reinstates a sense of control; like when he's calling her name on the one hand you think of what he did but on the other hand you are the one fucking him and she's no where in sight