My girlfriends a virgin!HELP

[FELBYS]

Hi.I'm gonna be having sex with my girlfriend soon and we've been together for 6 months.The problem i need help with is that i have had sexuall experiances in the past (well 3 times,i'v basically just started) but my girlfriend is a still a virgin.I dont know how to go about having sex with her?do i still finger and lick her pussy out?do i just go staright in for the sex?should i last as long as i normally do?and what should i do after we've had sex,(because the other times i'v had sex with other people i finished and then we just got up and went our seperate ways)?Any help would be "FANTASTIC",as i do care for her.And this is my last resort,please someone out there must know what i'm going through,reply's by women would be especially great as i can get there view as well.thank's

 

[dollface007]

LOTS of foreplay...oral, fingering, etc. You want to get her really hot and ready. Use lots of lube and let her be on top so she can control depth and speed of thrusting.
Don't freak out...you'll do fine

 

[blondie74]

Just be especially attentive to her... pay attention to what makes her moan and groan. Make sure she's comfortable, a first time can be scary in lots of ways, however, if your partner is attentive, and understanding it can be great.

 

[warrior queen]

just linking this FELBYS.....

with THIS FELBYS.

 

[Wizard]

Never ever go “straight for the sex”

You warm up the motor in your car… Make sure you warm her up!

 

[EJFan]

all good points

everyone who's responded to your question is absolutely correct. foreplay and plenty of it. not only is it going to make it easier for her, but it's going to make the whole experience that much greater for both of you. no matter what the situation is (if she's a virgin, or if fucking her is like waving a yardstick in the holland tunnel) foreplay should be part of your arsenal.

take things slow, be loving and caring. once you've had sex with someone you're in love with... someone you can enjoy the afterglow with... it's difficult to duplicate the pleasure with a casual fuck followed by parting ways.

good luck, have fun and DON'T FORGET TO BE SAFE!!!!!!!!!!!

 

[SweetErika]

Ditto on all of the other advice. One other thing is to give her the control...go really, really slow, asking her if it feels ok, and letting her know you'll stop immediately when she says so. Talk about it beforehand because women sometimes feel obligated to continue even if it hurts when they're in the moment.

 

[SlvrTongueDevil]

We're talking so much foreplay that she's begging for it ... she's on the cusp of cumming ... she's so ready she's almost done!

 

[white_mage_goddess]

Everyone's giving you good advice, except that *I* personally wouldn't recommend her being on top the first time.

For a virgin, that can be kind of daunting. The first time I was ever on top (I was hardly a virgin at the time) I was scared shitless....I mean he's LOOKING at me and what if I do it wrong? I certainly wouldn't have wanted that stress on top of the fact that I've never had sex before! Women generally enjoy a "traditional" first time of the guy being on top, so they don't have the pressure of messing up!

 

[Cherrie]

Just take it nice and slow!

The most important thing is to not go at it like a Bull in a China shop. For some, losing one’s virginity can sometimes be a harrowing experience. Just take things nice and slow. Don’t just ‘Fuck’ the girl; make Love to her as well. That means taking care of her emotional needs also. Remember that she trusts you… so don’t betray that trust. And don’t be too ambitious the first time round. It’s really doubtful that she’ll want to go through all the positions in the Karma Sutra, the first time. That will come later, with a bit of work.

Let us all know how you get on…we’re all a ‘pervy’ lot here. Good Luck!

 

[peachykeen]

Hellooooo, did you people not even bother to look at the link warriorqueen so handily provided?

 

[bamagirl00]

yes i think ya'll should check it out .. he was just asking on the 30th how to go down on her because he hadnt done it before and on the 30th she was rather experienced and now she has no experience ... i wish it worked that hehe

 

[FELBYS]

Yeah,and if you would of looked at the other linked you would see why she's xperianced...just because she hasnt had physical penetrative sex doesnt mean she hasnt done other stuff!

 

[FELBYS]

Just wanna say sorry to banagirl00 and pachykeen for being abit rude to them on my last post, i apolagise,but it's fucking raining over here in the uk and it gets me down!

 

[dollface007]

yes i think ya'll should check it out .. he was just asking on the 30th how to go down on her because he hadnt done it before and on the 30th she was rather experienced and now she has no experience ... i wish it worked that hehe

Okay, everybody. Stop picking on FELBYS. He is not a troll. He explained himself and has my respect for that.

 

[N1Cutie320]

be very sincere...and do not just stick it in, you have to work it! definitely fore-play and maybe give her the chance to giveyou head that way she is making you hard and she knows that you want her. good luck!

 

[SlvrTongueDevil]

Jeez ... with all this advice, you're going to have to report back and let us know how it worked out (or "in").