Im a very straight young man and my long time bi girlfriend would like to see me suck another man's cock. I said no at first but now Im realizing that I have always been currious what it would be like. Plus, she has done so much to make my fantaszes come true that I think I owe her. We are swingers and we have a couple of friends in mind but we have yet to try anything. Can the guys here or bi ladies on this board help me out on how to suck it well?
My gf wants me to suck a cock
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Try reading DANNY by Chancery Stone (www.poisonpixie.com) with your girlfriend. It's a very detailed account of straight guys in the throes of very strong gay sex. See if it turns you on or not.
Your girlfriend will love it!!!!
Your girlfriend will love it!!!!
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You'll love it. She'll love it and it will help bring you sex life to another level.
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John... John... John... quit screwing around. Suck the cock. She wants it. You want it. You don't need pointers or advice. You don't need lessons. Suck the cock.
Good luck, bro.
(btw... one of the hottest things I've experienced was sucking a cock while she watched, absolutely loving it!)
Good luck, bro.
(btw... one of the hottest things I've experienced was sucking a cock while she watched, absolutely loving it!)
Well CJon, its not that Im not going to do it, its just there is no cock to suck at the moment! Its kind of a problem when there isnt one. Ive been practicing on one of her dildos and it is exciting to think about it. Ive actually never really thought about recieving head from a guy. This whole thing seems kind of confusing.
John_Mira said:
Watch out for your teeth, number 1. Those back molers can really hurt a man. Maybe you know this for yourself. Think about how you like your cock sucked and how your lover does this on you.
I work with my mouth and my right hand. If I can't get down all the way, I hold my hand around the shaft (mostly all the time) and work my mouth at the same time up and down. Use lots of saliva but not so much that it's noticeable. Every now and then, I like to such the tip- almost as hard as a lolly just using my lips, slightly inside my mouth then back down again to really excite him. Also, you could always ask the man how he likes it. Communicating in the bedroom is really a turn on
As someone once said, it ain't exactly rocket science. lol
But as with anything new, practice enhances the experience. Multiple sessions with the same person would be ideal, you learn and get better each time.
Practicing with a toy is a good start. Get used to being poked where no man has gone before.
Variety is good at the beginning... kiss, lick, suck, deep, shallow, slow, fast, hand helping, no hands... but steady rhythm is better near the end. And don't neglect the balls.
Pay attention to what he's doing and telling you, verbally and non-verbally.
As Kal said: "Just do exactly what you would want done to yourself......it will come (cum) naturally!!"
Enjoy!
But as with anything new, practice enhances the experience. Multiple sessions with the same person would be ideal, you learn and get better each time.
Practicing with a toy is a good start. Get used to being poked where no man has gone before.
Variety is good at the beginning... kiss, lick, suck, deep, shallow, slow, fast, hand helping, no hands... but steady rhythm is better near the end. And don't neglect the balls.
Pay attention to what he's doing and telling you, verbally and non-verbally.
As Kal said: "Just do exactly what you would want done to yourself......it will come (cum) naturally!!"
Enjoy!
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You will be fine..... you will be amazed at how natural it feels once you start on a tasty cock!!
kalalau said:You are going to love cocksucking!! Just do exactly what you would want done to yourself......it will come (cum) naturally!!
wrong wrong wrong...
maybe you like dick but don't tell a straight man to go suck cock...
the man eats pussy and telling him to suck cock is fucked up..
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It's been said right. Do it like you like it done. Slurp away.
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RalTex said:
Has she told you she doesn't?
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Here's what worked for me...
My ex-wife and I used to play with the idea of her being with another woman. It was a great fantasy we played with many times. When the opportunity presented itself with a couple of friends, we went for it. After a couple times of that, we moved on to me. It wasn't my first time, but it was my first time since we'd been married. And it was awesome having the girls watch.
My ex-wife and I used to play with the idea of her being with another woman. It was a great fantasy we played with many times. When the opportunity presented itself with a couple of friends, we went for it. After a couple times of that, we moved on to me. It wasn't my first time, but it was my first time since we'd been married. And it was awesome having the girls watch.
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Congratulations on being open and secure enough to want to try something new and wonderful. I never thought a year ago that my own str8 husband would ever do anything with another man, but he's been full of surprisess in the last few months.John_Mira said:
I m glad you're curious and not doing it just to appease her. It will be a very erotic experience that you will love--hopefully, lol! Hubby now loves to suck, wants to be sucked more, and his first ass-fucking made him blow like crazy.Ooooops, sorry, I'm babbling about OUR experience too much!
In short, you're great for wanting to do this, do to him what cums naturally, watch your teeth, you don't HAVE to deepthroat if it doesn't feel good to you, and I hope you have a mind-blowing (and nut-blowing )experience someday soon.
Good luck and keep us posted on how it goes. I love vicarious living !
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Have you talked to her about this? if you have what did she say about it
RalTex said:
Have you talked to her about this? if you have what did she say about it
Sucking cock the first time
Don't think gay or bisexual just think sexual. If you suck clit it's the same as cock. It's just that a cock is bigger and ejaculates and you have to decide whether to spit that out or swallow. Swallowing is easy and less messy. Cum is a little salty and has the slippery texture. Lick you own cum or fluids oozing out of your cock. Biggest problem is sucking cock and swallowing cum right after you've cum--that's when you libido is lowered and the horny rating has dropped below average. That's the point where you have to feel good about making the other person feel good by making him cum and how much you enjoy getting him off in your mouth or ass and also wanting to swallow his cum to make him feel you loved doing it. Then too you will develop a nice feeling about the sensuality of the ridge around the glans passin back and forth feeling over your lips and having him hold your head and help you by fucking your mouth. Feeling his cock swell in your mouth as his cum starts pulsing out and the less than hot or slightly cooler cum ooze into your mouth and the slippery texture as you swallow and lick the eye of his cock clean of cum and then feel it go soft in your mouth if he wants it and /or as he pulls out. Maybe your wife or his wife will want to suck your tonge and taste his cum in your mouth.
Don't think gay or bisexual just think sexual. If you suck clit it's the same as cock. It's just that a cock is bigger and ejaculates and you have to decide whether to spit that out or swallow. Swallowing is easy and less messy. Cum is a little salty and has the slippery texture. Lick you own cum or fluids oozing out of your cock. Biggest problem is sucking cock and swallowing cum right after you've cum--that's when you libido is lowered and the horny rating has dropped below average. That's the point where you have to feel good about making the other person feel good by making him cum and how much you enjoy getting him off in your mouth or ass and also wanting to swallow his cum to make him feel you loved doing it. Then too you will develop a nice feeling about the sensuality of the ridge around the glans passin back and forth feeling over your lips and having him hold your head and help you by fucking your mouth. Feeling his cock swell in your mouth as his cum starts pulsing out and the less than hot or slightly cooler cum ooze into your mouth and the slippery texture as you swallow and lick the eye of his cock clean of cum and then feel it go soft in your mouth if he wants it and /or as he pulls out. Maybe your wife or his wife will want to suck your tonge and taste his cum in your mouth.
Re: Sucking cock the first time
Very well put. Especially the part about the loss of libido after cumming. I am long married and secretly bicurious. Would love to have my wife fantasize about me sucking cuck. I doubt it though. John_Mira is a very lucky young man. Do it John. Anything that turns on your woman will benefit you in the end. That pun may or may not be intended. (smirk)
cranky
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Very well put. Especially the part about the loss of libido after cumming. I am long married and secretly bicurious. Would love to have my wife fantasize about me sucking cuck. I doubt it though. John_Mira is a very lucky young man. Do it John. Anything that turns on your woman will benefit you in the end. That pun may or may not be intended. (smirk)
cranky
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Re: Re: Sucking cock the first time
My wife has already informed me in no uncertain terms that I will be losing my bi-virginity within the next six months. It helps that she's the domme in our relationship, doesn't it?
I've been in cranky's shoes before, though, in my previous marriage. She was pretty vanilla except for the occasional blow job. Very un-adventurous. Almost repressed, sexually. As I grew into my own sexuality through my 20's and into my early 30's, it became clear that changes were needed all the way 'round. Second marriages can be a god-send, especially if both of you are clear about what you want and need up front.
Anyway, good luck to John. Having a partner willing to share the new things with you makes everything all the better and more exciting.
namron711 said:
My wife has already informed me in no uncertain terms that I will be losing my bi-virginity within the next six months. It helps that she's the domme in our relationship, doesn't it?
I've been in cranky's shoes before, though, in my previous marriage. She was pretty vanilla except for the occasional blow job. Very un-adventurous. Almost repressed, sexually. As I grew into my own sexuality through my 20's and into my early 30's, it became clear that changes were needed all the way 'round. Second marriages can be a god-send, especially if both of you are clear about what you want and need up front.
Anyway, good luck to John. Having a partner willing to share the new things with you makes everything all the better and more exciting.
Re: Re: Re: Sucking cock the first time
Just a little bit of clarification.
Whatever it is that is causing my bicuriousity must include the fact that my wife is not a very good cocksucker. Oh, when she is in the mood she will give it a go, but not great and definitely no swallowing. She actually doesn't really get into me eating her pussy unless she is clean and shaven - which is fine with me. (She just isn't into bodily fluids). This has inspired me to try it myself and (really fantasizing here) show her how it (cocksucking) is done. After all, who knows more about cocksucking than men. And who knows more about pussy eating than women. I just want to give some guy what I have been missing.
HOWEVER: My wife loves to fuck. She'll often jerk me off while I jill her. She gets off on using a dildo in my ass and last but not least...she loves to get fucked in the ass. Thus, I shouldn't complain too much. How many guys out there are getting great blowjobs from their women, but wishing that they could fuck their women's asses!
Cranky
gingermango said:My wife has already informed me in no uncertain terms that I will be losing my bi-virginity within the next six months. It helps that she's the domme in our relationship, doesn't it?
I've been in cranky's shoes before, though, in my previous marriage. She was pretty vanilla except for the occasional blow job. Very un-adventurous. Almost repressed, sexually. As I grew into my own sexuality through my 20's and into my early 30's, it became clear that changes were needed all the way 'round. Second marriages can be a god-send, especially if both of you are clear about what you want and need up front.
Anyway, good luck to John. Having a partner willing to share the new things with you makes everything all the better and more exciting.
Just a little bit of clarification.
Whatever it is that is causing my bicuriousity must include the fact that my wife is not a very good cocksucker. Oh, when she is in the mood she will give it a go, but not great and definitely no swallowing. She actually doesn't really get into me eating her pussy unless she is clean and shaven - which is fine with me. (She just isn't into bodily fluids). This has inspired me to try it myself and (really fantasizing here) show her how it (cocksucking) is done. After all, who knows more about cocksucking than men. And who knows more about pussy eating than women. I just want to give some guy what I have been missing.
HOWEVER: My wife loves to fuck. She'll often jerk me off while I jill her. She gets off on using a dildo in my ass and last but not least...she loves to get fucked in the ass. Thus, I shouldn't complain too much. How many guys out there are getting great blowjobs from their women, but wishing that they could fuck their women's asses!
Cranky
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Have you done "it" yet?
I find that when I suck a guy, I am doing it for MY pleasure.
I really get into it.
They always cum and usually say that I am very good.
If you are turned on, your instincts will take over and you will be a sucking machine.
I find that when I suck a guy, I am doing it for MY pleasure.
I really get into it.
They always cum and usually say that I am very good.
If you are turned on, your instincts will take over and you will be a sucking machine.
