My First Spanking

[NaughtyGingerBoy]

When was your first spanking?
Last night was my first time at a kinky fetish event.
It was small, not a huge club. After a strip tease show on the stage and a couple of hours chatting to people(some of the friendliest I've met) bondage equipment came out and the play began.

A few people were being spanked in one on one(a guy was getting some very particular attention). After a while watching I was asked to join in with domming a girl with someone. She can certainly take a lot of pain, it was quite amazing to see how she got off on it and the come down afterwards, we held her and kissed/hugged and stroked her.
Afterwards, and my main reason for attending, I approached a domme to ask if I could be spanked too. She had me kneeling over on a bench thingy as she started lightly and then started cropping me. I stripped a bit and heard of lot of interest and encouragement when my trousers came down and my red, mesh panties came into view. Another guy and girl eventually joined in. Spanking, flogging and scratching from the top of my back to my thighs.
Then, as if that wasn't enough I was tied sitting up as my nipples were attacked in a similar fashion and I was slapped. My thighs and stomach were played with too.
The whole night was fantastic, a nervous start but the feelings and sensations were like nothing I had felt, I've never willingly had that sort of pain before and to be dominated by a woman has been a long desire of mine. The way she spoke and acted was very cool. I already know I'll be going back and it's especially interesting that afterwards nobody is shy or in your face about it. A relaxed atmosphere and a nice bunch of people.

On another note, my arse has red welts, my back is red from scratching and my fingertips are bruised from spanking.

 

[NaughtyGingerBoy]

Apologies for anything badly written, I've never been much good at long descriptions and I accept there may be bad grammar.

 

[Sir_Winston54]

When was your first spanking? Last night was my first time at a kinky fetish event. It was small, not a huge club. After a strip tease show on the stage and a couple of hours chatting to people (some of the friendliest I've met) bondage equipment came out and the play began.

A few people were being spanked in one on one(a guy was getting some very particular attention). After a while watching I was asked to join in with domming a girl with someone. She can certainly take a lot of pain, it was quite amazing to see how she got off on it and the come down afterwards, we held her and kissed/hugged and stroked her.

Afterwards, and my main reason for attending, I approached a domme to ask if I could be spanked too. She had me kneeling over on a bench thingy as she started lightly and then started cropping me. I stripped a bit and heard of lot of interest and encouragement when my trousers came down and my red, mesh panties came into view. Another guy and girl eventually joined in. Spanking, flogging and scratching from the top of my back to my thighs.

Then, as if that wasn't enough I was tied sitting up as my nipples were attacked in a similar fashion and I was slapped. My thighs and stomach were played with too.

The whole night was fantastic, a nervous start but the feelings and sensations were like nothing I had felt, I've never willingly had that sort of pain before and to be dominated by a woman has been a long desire of mine. The way she spoke and acted was very cool. I already know I'll be going back and it's especially interesting that afterwards nobody is shy or in your face about it. A relaxed atmosphere and a nice bunch of people.

On another note, my arse has red welts, my back is red from scratching and my fingertips are bruised from spanking.

Apologies for anything badly written, I've never been much good at long descriptions and I accept there may be bad grammar.

Actually, you didn't do badly at all. I'm a retired high school English teacher, so you can take that assessment for what you think it worth. Your paragraphing was the biggest weak point (see modifications to the first post above), but even that was no real detriment to the post being read relatively easily.

As for the experience itself: Congratulations! You seem to have found a group and some individuals with whom you are compatible, and also found your way into some activities you've been wanting, and found some new ones that you may not have realized you wanted.

Welcome to BDSM Talk, a forum intended for discussion of BDSM-related topics, and to its sub-forum, BDSM Café, where the topics may or may not be BDSM related, and/or their discussion may or may not have "a BDSM twist," as the blurb says. In actuality, the Café discusses many many things, a large percentage of which have no contact with BDSM except that most of the posters there are involved or interested in BDSM, and these are things that they also have interest in.

There are a *lot* of very experienced, very knowledgeable, and very helpful people in this forum, and they are mostly more than happy to share their experiences and knowledge with anyone who is reasonably literate, interested in BDSM, and willing to listen - not necessarily follow, but hear and consider - their input. Good luck to you!

 

[missgiter]

Sounds like a lot of fun! Glad you got to experience it!

 

[ButtAnalMan]

Sounds like a lot of fun! Glad you got to experience it!

Totally agree. Let us no more the next time

 

[NaughtyGingerBoy]

Sounds like a lot of fun! Glad you got to experience it!

Totally agree. Let us no more the next time

I'll be going again next Wednesday....hope I've healed up.


And Thankyou Winston

 

[scarlettmoon]

sounds fun, so jealous! glad you had a good time

 

[NaughtyRedSiren]

Congrats on the new adventure!! Spanking can be such an amazing experience Have fun with round 2!

 

[NaughtyGingerBoy]

Round 2

last week wasn't really doing it for me so I left early and had no personal fun.
I have just finished tonights adventure, joined in with a lovely kitten though there wasn't any rough stuff except some biting. I was then bent over and spanked again...cropped and flogged. I was ordered to pull my trousers down and lift up my shirt so my bare arse could be properly spanked. I was left while the lovely chap domming me went and chatted to someone else, odd feeling when I know he'll be back but not when or what everyone else thinks of mtg bottom thrust into the air.
After we were finished I stood up and almost instantly had to sit back down, I was spaced out and lightheaded....it felt very nice. We cuddled and kissed a little and then left(separately) after saying various goodbyes.

Next week will have to wait and I'll be finding something else to do to make up for missing out next time.

 

[FantasyGirl69]

Hi and thank you for sharing your spanking experience ! I also enjoy a hard spanking alot . I guess the first time was about 2 years ago . I did get a very good one about a month ago mmmmm Wish i got more ......

You do not mention if there were words spoken while you were getting spanked or flogged ....

The best part of your spanking "round 2 " was the cuddles and kisses at the end of your encounter .

Can't wait to read more of your adventures .

Kat

 

[NaughtyGingerBoy]

Hi and thank you for sharing your spanking experience ! I also enjoy a hard spanking alot . I guess the first time was about 2 years ago . I did get a very good one about a month ago mmmmm Wish i got more ......

You do not mention if there were words spoken while you were getting spanked or flogged ....

The best part of your spanking "round 2 " was the cuddles and kisses at the end of your encounter .

Can't wait to read more of your adventures .

Kat

There's never a lot of talking, the music is a bit loud so it doesn't allow for much deep conversation.
There is some talking however, I get asked if certain things are ok or when I am given orders.
It is something I mean to bring up next time..

Thanks for reading x

 

[NaughtyGingerBoy]

Ok...so it's taken me a few days to decide how to write all this down. I probably won't get it all very well but here goes...

Last week I went to the same kinky place as before and met up with the guy and girl I had played with the first night(the double teamed spanking). During online conversations I had explained how I would like to sub for them which was cool as they both wanted to dom, though she a little more successfully.
After a drink and some kissing I was ordered down to my hands and knees to be used as a footstool, the girl accomplished this by simply pushing me down with a finger when the suggestion came up. Whilst down there, and apart from the numbness in my right arm, they continued to chat with various people and totally ignored me except to occasionally check I was ok. Nobody else acknowledged me except for one foot that rubbed my face a little.
I don't honestly know how long I was there for. It could have been 5 minutes or 20. I was led over to a quiet corner and ordered to take off my shirt, the guy was told to do the same...clearly the girl was in charge. She blindfolded me and began scratching my chest and kissing me, we had discussed blindfolded before so I was at least prepared for that. They both teased and scratched me...taking turns with a pinwheel(Google it) and kissing me. Then it was his turn yet he put up more resistance than I did so he had to be handcuffed to the stool I was on. As he seemed less sure we both spent a while exploring his likes and dislikes...his pain threshold was lower than we expected but we more than made up for it in the cuddles he wanted.
Throughout this play we talked about what we were enjoying, sometimes in a more or less way and also requesting certain things to try out.
We had to stop so the girl could perform in the show that evening, she was tied up and suspended...very erotic and quite amazing, the way it's done is entirely too complicated for me to fully understand or replicate. After the show we separately mingled with a few people but I ended up back on the floor for the girl and another guy(guy2). Coincidentally he's also the man who showed me how to spank on my first night. They plotted how to use me and, after checking, I crawled/was dragged to the proper play area to be used as a sort of bench for her to lean on whilst she was spanked and used by guy2.
Erm....at this point my memory becomes a little erratic. Suffice to say I was spanked by people....nearly stripped andhad pegs attached to my face, body and my balls. Being in a room of about 25 people as I am in display and being used was something I haven't yet fully decided how I feel about...possible embarrassment but also a bit of a thrill. I was held, groped and pinched. The pinwheels were used again and my body felt so good, tingling all over with the pain and attention from a few people.
As the evening came to a close I got to spank and dom the guy(first guy I played with) and then we kissed for a while as we cuddled. It was apparently rather sweet.

Throughout the evening I was kissing and cuddling a few people, it has to be one of the best nights I've had for a long time and I barely got touched in an obvious way around my cock and balls. The evening ended with many hugs and promises to do it all again and more. I've since talked in detail to the guy and girl and more is, hopefully, planned for tonight.

Usual apologies for any difficulty in reading.

 

[evelyn_carroll]

Ok...so it's taken me a few days to decide how to write all this down. I probably won't get it all very well but here goes...

Last week I went to the same kinky place as before and met up with the guy and girl I had played with the first night(the double teamed spanking). During online conversations I had explained how I would like to sub for them which was cool as they both wanted to dom, though she a little more successfully.
After a drink and some kissing I was ordered down to my hands and knees to be used as a footstool, the girl accomplished this by simply pushing me down with a finger when the suggestion came up. Whilst down there, and apart from the numbness in my right arm, they continued to chat with various people and totally ignored me except to occasionally check I was ok. Nobody else acknowledged me except for one foot that rubbed my face a little.
I don't honestly know how long I was there for. It could have been 5 minutes or 20. I was led over to a quiet corner and ordered to take off my shirt, the guy was told to do the same...clearly the girl was in charge. She blindfolded me and began scratching my chest and kissing me, we had discussed blindfolded before so I was at least prepared for that. They both teased and scratched me...taking turns with a pinwheel(Google it) and kissing me. Then it was his turn yet he put up more resistance than I did so he had to be handcuffed to the stool I was on. As he seemed less sure we both spent a while exploring his likes and dislikes...his pain threshold was lower than we expected but we more than made up for it in the cuddles he wanted.
Throughout this play we talked about what we were enjoying, sometimes in a more or less way and also requesting certain things to try out.
We had to stop so the girl could perform in the show that evening, she was tied up and suspended...very erotic and quite amazing, the way it's done is entirely too complicated for me to fully understand or replicate. After the show we separately mingled with a few people but I ended up back on the floor for the girl and another guy(guy2). Coincidentally he's also the man who showed me how to spank on my first night. They plotted how to use me and, after checking, I crawled/was dragged to the proper play area to be used as a sort of bench for her to lean on whilst she was spanked and used by guy2.
Erm....at this point my memory becomes a little erratic. Suffice to say I was spanked by people....nearly stripped andhad pegs attached to my face, body and my balls. Being in a room of about 25 people as I am in display and being used was something I haven't yet fully decided how I feel about...possible embarrassment but also a bit of a thrill. I was held, groped and pinched. The pinwheels were used again and my body felt so good, tingling all over with the pain and attention from a few people.
As the evening came to a close I got to spank and dom the guy(first guy I played with) and then we kissed for a while as we cuddled. It was apparently rather sweet.

Throughout the evening I was kissing and cuddling a few people, it has to be one of the best nights I've had for a long time and I barely got touched in an obvious way around my cock and balls. The evening ended with many hugs and promises to do it all again and more. I've since talked in detail to the guy and girl and more is, hopefully, planned for tonight.

Usual apologies for any difficulty in reading.

Where is this place? I want to be taken there.

 

[FantasyGirl69]

Yes , exactly where is this place hehe .......... WOW that sounds perfect to me and so exciting . Except for the part of using you as a stool . That wouldn't turn me on . Being on all fours and wearring a leash and collar would be fun. Sounds so exciting and fulfilling to have all these people giving you spankings and also kisses and cuddles .

Did you enjoy giving the spankings ............ I do but prefer to receive

Look forward to reading more ............

Kat

 

[NaughtyGingerBoy]

Yes , exactly where is this place hehe .......... WOW that sounds perfect to me and so exciting . Except for the part of using you as a stool . That wouldn't turn me on . Being on all fours and wearring a leash and collar would be fun. Sounds so exciting and fulfilling to have all these people giving you spankings and also kisses and cuddles .

Did you enjoy giving the spankings ............ I do but prefer to receive

Look forward to reading more ............

Kat

I consider myself to be a switch but with the girl who's dommed me I just can't say no to her...
I would happily spank or dom someone if they wanted.


It's in south London. You can find it as Wednesday wickedness on various networking sites. Including Informed Consent, Fetlife and Facebook

 

[evelyn_carroll]

Yes , exactly where is this place hehe .......... WOW that sounds perfect to me and so exciting . Except for the part of using you as a stool . That wouldn't turn me on . Being on all fours and wearring a leash and collar would be fun. Sounds so exciting and fulfilling to have all these people giving you spankings and also kisses and cuddles .

Did you enjoy giving the spankings ............ I do but prefer to receive

Look forward to reading more ............

Kat

I don't fancy the footstool either, but I still want someone to take me there one day, even if it's just to introduce me to their 'friends'. It seems from Ginge's description tht almost anything could transpire if a girl gets lucky .

 

[FantasyGirl69]

There must be others that have had spanking experiences ........ please do tell

It seems the person that started the thread hasn't been online for some time now but we can still continue the thread .

I am curious and i am sure others are also !

 

[celestialdragon]

There must be others that have had spanking experiences ........ please do tell

It seems the person that started the thread hasn't been online for some time now but we can still continue the thread .

I am curious and i am sure others are also !

When I am A more awake and B remember better, I will give a couple of stories about me being spanked I can be quite naughty when the situation arises

 

[FantasyGirl69]

mmmm I can't wait to read all about it ! Thank you ! ......... Now don't make me wait or i will have to spank you hehe

 

[celestialdragon]

It was my first time getting spanked with this particular person.

We had thought it would be fun to have be spanked and be in orgasm denial. Coming up with a bunch of rules and such (we thought that we were going to have a longer Dom/sub relationship), I had broken quite a few by the time I was to be punished.

He had picked me up at the Y, where I had been working out and exercising. I was hot, sweaty, and extraordinarily aroused. I got into his car and he had driven us to under a bridge, making small talk.

Upon arrival, he had me get in the backseat and told me to strip. I strip for him, not at all embarrassed about being naked. Dragging me out, he had put me in position and told me that I was to receive 65 swats for my disobedience, that I had to count each one out loud, and that I could not scream. I told him that I understood. Tthe spanking commenced.

I nearly bit through my tongue a few times trying not scream, while he spanked with me and played with me, teasing me, talking dirty to me. Twice he had completely stood me up and played with me like that, which was totally hot. I received an extra 5 swats because he thought I needed them. Then he proceeded to shove me back into the car where he proceeded to tease me mercilessly, giving me a shocker, asking me if the next time my fiance decided to try to take my ass, I was to take it all the way (in all fairness, my fiance has a huge cock). Finally deciding I could cum, he pulled me out and set me ontop of his trunk and fingered me until I exploded.

After I came, he forced me down onto my knees. "Look what you did to Master," he had told me, shoving his fingers into my mouth. I sucked and licked them clean, gagging on how strong they were. Received 10 more swats, five for gagging, and five for just because, I guess. My ass was a firey red. Then I knelt down and blew him until he came.

 

[FantasyGirl69]

It was my first time getting spanked with this particular person.

We had thought it would be fun to have be spanked and be in orgasm denial. Coming up with a bunch of rules and such (we thought that we were going to have a longer Dom/sub relationship), I had broken quite a few by the time I was to be punished.

He had picked me up at the Y, where I had been working out and exercising. I was hot, sweaty, and extraordinarily aroused. I got into his car and he had driven us to under a bridge, making small talk.

Upon arrival, he had me get in the backseat and told me to strip. I strip for him, not at all embarrassed about being naked. Dragging me out, he had put me in position and told me that I was to receive 65 swats for my disobedience, that I had to count each one out loud, and that I could not scream. I told him that I understood. Tthe spanking commenced.

I nearly bit through my tongue a few times trying not scream, while he spanked with me and played with me, teasing me, talking dirty to me. Twice he had completely stood me up and played with me like that, which was totally hot. I received an extra 5 swats because he thought I needed them. Then he proceeded to shove me back into the car where he proceeded to tease me mercilessly, giving me a shocker, asking me if the next time my fiance decided to try to take my ass, I was to take it all the way (in all fairness, my fiance has a huge cock). Finally deciding I could cum, he pulled me out and set me ontop of his trunk and fingered me until I exploded.

After I came, he forced me down onto my knees. "Look what you did to Master," he had told me, shoving his fingers into my mouth. I sucked and licked them clean, gagging on how strong they were. Received 10 more swats, five for gagging, and five for just because, I guess. My ass was a firey red. Then I knelt down and blew him until he came.

*** Oh WOW thanks for sharing . That seemed so intense . For me it's the spanking part that turns me on especially if there is some dirty talk like " Good Girl or you've been such a bad girl " either one is good . or my naughty little slut . I am aching of curiosity .... Can't wait to read more from you and others .

 

[leighannste17]

This sounds like an interesting place. Generally with Dom girls, that is it. If you become her foot-stool, that is what you are, it's all apart of her fetish maybe.

I don't blame her, I love spanking men, I find sub guys to have more balls then male doms, because they can handle pain levels that even some female subs can't handle.

I met a male dom yesterday actually. It was awkward, because he's into all that rough shit, but I kept telling him I much rather do all this roughness on him. It was kindof interesting, because I was pretty upfront and he got nervous, hard, and left. I can usually tell a real dom when I meet one because they don't take off within the first few hours.

He finally quit messaging me after midnight. It would be rough starting a relationship with him because we would both need a sub to fulfill our desires.

But who knows, will see were it goes.

Good luck in your search! by the way.

 

[FantasyGirl69]

This sounds like an interesting place. Generally with Dom girls, that is it. If you become her foot-stool, that is what you are, it's all apart of her fetish maybe.

I don't blame her, I love spanking men, I find sub guys to have more balls then male doms, because they can handle pain levels that even some female subs can't handle.

I met a male dom yesterday actually. It was awkward, because he's into all that rough shit, but I kept telling him I much rather do all this roughness on him. It was kindof interesting, because I was pretty upfront and he got nervous, hard, and left. I can usually tell a real dom when I meet one because they don't take off within the first few hours.

He finally quit messaging me after midnight. It would be rough starting a relationship with him because we would both need a sub to fulfill our desires.

But who knows, will see were it goes.

Good luck in your search! by the way.

I hope it becomes even more interesting Thanks for your reply to the thread . I am a curious woman that enjoys reading about other peoples adventures . Have a nice and naughty day !