My first party

[shelleb4]

Im due to go to my first party soon. The event is held in a night club, much like any other, but people are obviously dressed slightly different

1. I have to make a costume very cheaply and have it ready in 3 weeks and cant sew - any ideas?

2. Although i went to the last party, i pretty much kept myself to myself and just watched what was going on. There is a playroom, so not a lot to see on the dance floor. Im not planning on going into the playroom however.
What i did see was a man, chained to a pillar dressed as a slave. I spoke to this man, but later wondered if this was not acceptable without someones permission? I am really unsure of the etiquette at these functions and wonder if anyone can off tips.

3. My female friend who left the scene a few years ago, is now running head first into reverse and this is to be her 'night'. She is a bi Domme. We are friends and i love her dearly, and dont want to see her get hurt. Im aware that she has a particular interest in being Domme to Doms. She is to meet a Dom who knows of her, and has requested her presence (jeez, i ask you!) see, just thinking about this guy gets me angry.
So the question is, as im going to have to meet this guy, how the hell am i supposed to behave towards him? The thought that this might be her new partner is very off putting, but its her choice, not mine and so i want to be nice to him.

4. final question: at the last party, i saw a man with his back to me, receive a blow job from a guy knelt before him. It was done descreetly in the corner of the club, but not in the playroom provided at the club. The guy getting the bj stood arms folded, never once looking down and was like a statue, standing completely still and not reacting to what was going on at his crotch. Can somebody explain what this might of been about? Yes im new to this milarky so very curious as to what is what. Please dont use 'bdsm' speak as i dont understand many of the words.

5. Isnt this just the best site? I just love the way you can ask ANYTHING you bloody well please, and there's always someone who will have a explanation for you

 

[InnerDarkness]

*bump* so maybe you can get some answers

 

[mwi]

High heels and a collar.

Not to expensive, no problem getting it done in 3 weeks and you don't have to know how to sew.

 

[ownedsubgal]

Im due to go to my first party soon. The event is held in a night club, much like any other, but people are obviously dressed slightly different

1. I have to make a costume very cheaply and have it ready in 3 weeks and cant sew - any ideas?

>>>just shop around, go to a little adult store, it's not difficult to find something simple and inexpensive. it's not as if you have to be decked out like the queen of england.

2. Although i went to the last party, i pretty much kept myself to myself and just watched what was going on. There is a playroom, so not a lot to see on the dance floor. Im not planning on going into the playroom however.
What i did see was a man, chained to a pillar dressed as a slave. I spoke to this man, but later wondered if this was not acceptable without someones permission? I am really unsure of the etiquette at these functions and wonder if anyone can off tips.

>>>well i myself wouldn't just go up and start chatting with someone that was obviously in service of some kind, as the slave you saw was. but if he spoke to you as well obviously there was nothing wrong with it.

3. My female friend who left the scene a few years ago, is now running head first into reverse and this is to be her 'night'. She is a bi Domme. We are friends and i love her dearly, and dont want to see her get hurt. Im aware that she has a particular interest in being Domme to Doms. She is to meet a Dom who knows of her, and has requested her presence (jeez, i ask you!) see, just thinking about this guy gets me angry.
So the question is, as im going to have to meet this guy, how the hell am i supposed to behave towards him? The thought that this might be her new partner is very off putting, but its her choice, not mine and so i want to be nice to him.

>>>>just be respectful and polite.

4. final question: at the last party, i saw a man with his back to me, receive a blow job from a guy knelt before him. It was done descreetly in the corner of the club, but not in the playroom provided at the club. The guy getting the bj stood arms folded, never once looking down and was like a statue, standing completely still and not reacting to what was going on at his crotch. Can somebody explain what this might of been about? Yes im new to this milarky so very curious as to what is what. Please dont use 'bdsm' speak as i dont understand many of the words.


>>>>it just sounds like the Dominant man was being served by the other. it's not necessary for him to recognize or pay any special attention to the one who's serving him.

hope that helps some.