My first experience with a guy

[TryGuy35]

What a great story.
I have since met other bi men through a swingers website.
One guy I have met fairly frequently travels to London on business every month or so.
We try to meet up for an afternoon or early evening session.
He has a great cock which I love to suck and his was the first load of cum I swallowed.
he usually fucks me missionary style so we can kiss and I can watch his cock enter me.
We always have safe sex but when he is about to come he pulls out, takes off his condom and either cums in my mouth or on my face and chest. Then we spend the rest of the session cleaning the cum of each other.

Oooo the missionary part , so sexy!

 

[tristantrotsky]

Oooo the missionary part , so sexy!

But being taken doggy-style is even more exciting...!

 

[TryGuy35]

But being taken doggy-style is even more exciting...!

Yea not sure, something about legs up and wrapped around the waist, giving him some eye contact while he is in you…seems sexy

 

[tristantrotsky]

Yea not sure, something about legs up and wrapped around the waist, giving him some eye contact while he is in you…seems sexy

But there's something about being fucked with the anonymity of doggy that even more sexy! That it could be anyone...

 

[liqueur]

But there's something about being fucked with the anonymity of doggy that even more sexy! That it could be anyone...

I love being fucked ass-up/face-down. I like the “anonymous” aspect as well, or fantasizing I'm being taken against my will, or that there's a line of guys waiting.

Also, most of the guys I've been with have mentioned how much they love watching their cock sliding in and out of my ass.

 

[tristantrotsky]

I love being fucked ass-up/face-down. I like the “anonymous” aspect as well, or fantasizing I'm being taken against my would, or that there's a line of guys waiting.
Also, most of the guys I've been with have mentioned how much they love watching their cock sliding in and out of my ass.

You and I, Liqueur, think and feel so very much alike.

 

[Bi4Older84]

I love being fucked ass-up/face-down. I like the “anonymous” aspect as well, or fantasizing I'm being taken against my would, or that there's a line of guys waiting.

Also, most of the guys I've been with have mentioned how much they love watching their cock sliding in and out of my ass.

Admittedly, it is a really hot view-but if you have someone on their back, with their legs up in the air, you can also watch yourself sliding in and out!

Being vers, I've enjoyed both-something about being on your back and watching him go to town on you and seeing his face when he cums is incredibly hot too.

 

[liqueur]

I've enjoyed both-something about being on your back and watching him go to town on you and seeing his face when he cums is incredibly hot too.

No argument there. Their pleasure is my pleasure.

 

[mtsnowrider]

Admittedly, it is a really hot view-but if you have someone on their back, with their legs up in the air, you can also watch yourself sliding in and out!

Being vers, I've enjoyed both-something about being on your back and watching him go to town on you and seeing his face when he cums is incredibly hot too.

Watching is a good but I also like having a guy lying on my back as he fucks me. Having his weight hold me down is a real turn on

 

[surfdude1]

Watching is a good but I also like having a guy lying on my back as he fucks me. Having his weight hold me down is a real turn on

I agree. Feeling his weight dominating me while he gets pleasure from fucking me and seeing it in his eyes is such a massive turn on.

 

[BiCuriousWriter]

I agree. Feeling his weight dominating me while he gets pleasure from fucking me and seeing it in his eyes is such a massive turn on.

I guess feeling the weight of kind of a natural dominance? Like an age difference. I find it hard to play dom except when I'm older, or on top.

 

[liqueur]

Like an age difference. I find it hard to play dom except when I'm older, or on top.

Yeah, that seems to be the way most guys feel. I'm the opposite— i like to turn things on their heads. Nothing turns me on more than subbing and bottoming for a younger guy.

 

[Oshkosh60]

That would be interesting though I have always fancied older men......

 

[Smoothshavendad]

That would be interesting though I have always fancied older men......

I am older…

 

[BgDaddy33]

well my first and "only" experience happened long time a ago I was young, me and my friend decided to show our dicks to each other so we went to a building. there we showed eacth other. he told me to hold it and stroke and he will do me after , I convinced myself of trying it. after that he told me to suck it then he will stroke and suck mine. he convinced me somehow and I went to my knees did him till he came next to me. needless to say he didn't do anything for me. we did that a total of 3 times

My first time was also when I was young. I don't know if I am allowed to say how young without getting banned.. but my friend was a few years older and I know now that there was a certain level of idol worship there...

He used to like to get behind me and grind on me.. I don't really remember how that started, but I remember it happened gradually, I used to just shrug him off laughing, even though I knew what he was doing. I could feel his hard cock pressing against the crack of my ass and feel him thrusting into me. Sometimes, I would "accidentally" let him find me reaching over the counter or bending over the couch looking for the Nintendo controller knowing he could pin me and dry hump me.

He would also joke around and tell me to suck his cock and grab it over his shorts as we played basketball or whatever. I would roll my eyes and laugh but one day he finally talked me into it, I have posted about it elsewhere in this forum. I was moving away soon and thought... well, it didn't matter because I did it, and things moved very quickly after that. While I was very afraid of being labelled gay (this was the late 80s) I couldn't deny the pull he had on me and how much I wanted him to like me. The first time he tried to fuck me hurt and scared me like nothing else.. but that didn't stop him or me from trying again, and again.

 

[liqueur]

one day he finally talked me into it, I have posted about it elsewhere here.

I'd love to read more. Could you post us a link to “elsewhere?”

 

[lukaspot]

My first time was also when I was young. I don't know if I am allowed to say how young without getting banned.. but my friend was a few years older and I know now that there was a certain level of idol worship there...

He used to like to get behind me and grind on me.. I don't really remember how that started, but I remember it happened gradually, I used to just shrug him off laughing, even though I knew what he was doing. I could feel his hard cock pressing against the crack of my ass and feel him thrusting into me. Sometimes, I would "accidentally" let him find me reaching over the counter or bending over the couch looking for the Nintendo controller knowing he could pin me and dry hump me.

He would also joke around and tell me to suck his cock and grab it over his shorts as we played basketball or whatever. I would roll my eyes and laugh but one day he finally talked me into it, I have posted about it elsewhere here. I was moving away soon and thought... well, it didn't matter because I did it, and things moved very quickly after that. While I was very afraid of being labelled gay (this was the late 80s) I couldn't deny the pull he had on me and how much I wanted him to like me. The first time he tried to fuck me hurt and scared me like nothing else.. but that didn't stop him or me from trying again, and again.

Those early experiences can be so confusing, especially with power dynamics like that. Thanks for sharing something so vulnerable.

 

[BgDaddy33]

I'd love to read more. Could you post us a link to “elsewhere?”

I've posted that first part on a couple of threads, you can read it here. I haven't posted more not knowing how it would be received.

 

[BgDaddy33]

Those early experiences can be so confusing, especially with power dynamics like that. Thanks for sharing something so vulnerable.

You are right about confusing. Confused, and terribly scared of being found out... but knowing that I liked it, that I let it happen, and even encouraged it, made that short period that summer one I would never forget. I was bereft when we moved and I never saw my friend again, but I was too scared to try to find that again. Not too long after though I "discovered" girls and the feelings that my friend had awakened in me faded. It is only in recent months of going down rabbit holes here that those old feelings have stirred up again.

 

[navagabond]

I had been chatting with a guy on SilverDaddies for a long time. However, one day things were different as I had free time and I was super horny. The guy was nearby, lived in a good neighborhood and could host. I made arrangements to drive to his place.

For All of my drive to his house I was thinking that I would chicken out. I got to his place, scared as can be but summoned up enough courage to knock on the door.

He invited me inside. He knew I was curious but with zero experience. We chatted and eventually he asked me into his bedroom. We stripped and I saw an erect cock pointing at me for the first time. It wasn’t as scary to see as I had thought.

He guided me to his bed and started to suck me. He was good too. I had to stop him twice just to keep from cumming.

After the second time I stopped him I realized I was curious about what he was doing so I flipped around to a 69 position with my face just a few inches from his cock. We had not talked about me sucking cock so my host was surprised but seemed pleased too.

A voice in my head screamed at me to stop but I didn’t. I relaxed my jaw, opened my mouth and felt his penis settle on my tongue. It immediately felt normal to me. His cock felt like it belonged in my mouth. My lips sealed around his shaft and I began to give my first BJ.

After a while he asked if I wanted his cum. I did and started sucking his cock with the idea to bring his cum to the surface.

He soon had his orgasm and flooded my mouth with his cum. I swished his seed back and forth between my cheeks to savor the flavor and texture. I swallowed and swallowed, eager to capture all of his seed . The scent of his semen flooded into my brain.

My brain was scrambled as I tried to process what I had done. I had sucked a man’s cock and swallowed his cum. I was no longer straight. My conclusion was that I loved it and I wanted more. I was ready to suck more cock right then and there.

Yes I felt guilty but I had expected that. We parted and I thanked him. I drove home and kept using mouthwash to rid the scent of semen from my breath. It was all in my head of course except for that tasty load in my stomach

I’m a cock sucker now with 5 cocks to my name. I want more.

i too thought it would feel strange the first time i sucked a cock but it did not, it felt very natural and good.

 

[SCRob95060]

He wanted me standing up this time. It was my third time, the first two had hurt a little but it had been more than worth it. Now I’m naked, in my living room looking worriedly at the front door. I know I locked it but it’s a cheap door and could easily be forced.

People are walking my, I can see their silhouettes through the drapes and I can hear their voices talking to each other or someone on the phone. I know these people they are my neighbors. Here I am naked in my apartment about to be ass fucked for the third time. He is lubing my anus with KY jelly, he gets two fingers in me.

I’m hard as a rock and nervous, he’s fully erect as well, he’s chuckling as he tells me to relax, which is not easy, of course. I shouldn’t be doing this, I shouldn’t like it. But I do like it and I am doing it, again. He says if my knees get weak it’s okay, I can drop down and he’ll fuck me doggy style.

He finishes lubing me, I feel really oily. His cock his fully erect as he lubes it with a smile then standing behind me he spreads my buns apart and presses the head of his cock against my anus. He asks if I am ready, I am but I’m also not ready. I say, ready. He pushes.

 

[Lemmetri]

I think i have posted my first time before but it's been a while and I have no idea where i posted it. So here it is again.
I was in my mid 20's, I had been curious since I was a teenager. When I was a teen I would read the man4man personal ads in the Sunday paper, whenever I bought a new porn magazine I would immediately turn to the back and look at the gay ads in the back. Although I never called the 900 numbers I would jerk off imagining how that would go. Through college, watching porn I would imagine what it felt like for her. Not knowing that guys hooked up at the abs I would stop in and watch gay porn in the booth. So fast forward to dial up internet and the free cd's that came in the mail for access. I signed up and joined the chatrooms. I learned that there was a park nearby where you go park your car looking away from the view and that meant you were cruising. So one day I got the courage to go and within a couple minutes of being parked a realy nice looking dark haired dark eyed muscular guy came over to my window. I was hard before I ever parked the car. Anyway we talked for a minute and I told him I was curious and really just wanted to talk to another like minded guy in real life. So we left and went out for a drink. We had a couple beers and he invited me to his place to watch porn. We went to his place had another beer and he turned on some porn as we sat next to each other on the sofa. I kept reaching over to touch his crotch. I had never touched another man's crotch. We talked and watched then he asked if we should get more comfortable so we stripped down to our tighty whities. I immediately reached for his cock and started stroking it. What a rush! Im finally touching another man and wow that feels good. He reached over and started stroking mine. Holly shit that is amazing! His hand felt better than any woman's hand. I stopped stroking him and I melted! That felt so good! Remember I had been hard as a rock since I parked at the cruising place. Being in my 20's and hard for so long i shot my load everywhere in about 30 seconds. He offered that i could go clean up in his bathroom so I did. Well I was cleaning up and I looked in the mirror and I knew that I was gay. I had never had that feeling even the first time with a girl. I couldn't be! My family is totally homophobic. What would they say. What about all of my hetero friends. What about kids what about my girlfriends. I cleaned up walk out of the bathroom put my clothes on and left him standing there in his living room half naked. He was very understanding and offered his phone number which I refused. I went home and removed all gay porn and screen names etc. And I suppressed those urges for 18 years when I found craigslist.
That experience was the subject of many jerk off sessions! Oh the things I wish I had done with him!

 

[liqueur]

Oh the things I wish I had done with him!

I know that regret. I'm of a similar vintage as you. My family were not especially homophobic, but the culture around me was (very rural farm country, where the culture of the late '40s // early '50s extended well past the mid-60's) and I was “trained” by school and friends and neighbors. Homophobia was internalized, by which I mean that intellectually, I had no problem with queerness— in fact I had one gay friend in high school that I felt quite protective of. But internally? I couldn't conceive of myself actually doing anything with another guy— even though I fantasized about it constantly. I was a walking talking example of cognitive dissonance.

And I tormented myself with that dissonance all through my 20s and 30s. I was nearly 40 (when I divorced myself not only from my first wife but from my religion) when I began to accept that part of myself on a sort of “theoretical” basis— and late 40s before the first time I actually acted on it.

But oh, the opportunities lost! The number of guys that hit on me in my teens and early 20s. And at least twice as many more who didn't actually hit on me, but who i can see in hind-end-sight were sort of hanging around, waiting for some signal from me. And some of them are so sexy, in my memory’s vision. I must have had a rainbow flag wrapped around my ass that everyone could see except for me!

I avoid regret, most of the time, and instead use those memories of the “almosts” and the “if-only-this-one-thing-had-been-differents” as a rich source of fantasies— and if I ever get back to writing again, inspiration for many stories.