My first cyber sex experience

[Biglibido99]

I haven't seen any threads that discuss people's cyber sex experiences.
Being a newbie, and not being intimate with my wife or anybody for 15 years, I was blown away by my first experience of cyber sex - the openness, the sexiness, the pleasure. So I wrote about it

My First PM experience

I had only been on the forum for about 10 days. I can’t remember how but we connected on private messaging. We were chatting about the workings of submitting stories - I had a lot to learn. You asked to be excused as you wanted to go away & find a good video to masturbate to.

This took me by surprise as it was my first time doing this but I found it hot.

You told me gay porn was your current turn-on switch - particularly anal penetration.

I had already posted some porn videos that I thought were very sexy to a thread. I sent you this link to an anal orgasm video which I found very hot - not gay, but rather a husband penetrating his wife’s anus in a caring gentle way & the build-up to both their orgasms.

You started to watch it keeping me updated on the video timestamp of where you are watching. Your wetness starts to increase hearing the moans of the guy in the video.

I get harder when you ask if I would like to know when you cum.
OMG, yes, yes I do!!

You admit that you rarely share your masturbation with a stranger, that it’s usually solo and that you find it very sexy. It drives me wild with excitement knowing this.

It’s almost like being there with you as you tell me about where you are in the video & how you are rubbing your pussy, clit, breasts & nipples. I stroke my cock thinking about what you are doing to yourself.

You tell me your pussy is dripping now just like the wife in the video. Telling me that you find the husband licking his wife’s anus & then gently inserting his cock reminds you of your own husband's gentleness with your anus. His moans are just like your husband’s, you tell me.

Jesus, I have to hold back my orgasm - my cock leaking precum into my boxers.

I ask you about your clit & you tell me your little bud is peeking out from between your lips now - oh, how I wish I could see that & suck it deep into my mouth, flicking it with my tongue. I bet it could become even more engorged. Wow, this is so exciting.

I tell you my fantasy - to have my tongue in your pussy moving it in synch with your husband's cock thrusting slowly in your anus - as he pushed into you, I would push my tongue deeper into your pussy. I sense you are wild with excitement.

I would put my finger in your husband's anus & control his thrusting - the deeper I pushed my finger into him, the deeper he impaled your anus with his cock, the deeper my tongue in your pussy. When I slowly withdraw my finger he slowly withdraws his cock & my tongue slowly withdraws. When I suddenly thrust my finger into him, he suddenly arches & drives his cock deeper into you. It’s like I have found his remote control up his anus

I control the rhythm & depth of his thrusts into you - the fast/slow, deep/shallow - I let my finger do the talking. I can enter him deep enough to feel his prostate gland which, like your gspot reacts to come hither movements of my finger. I can sense he is nearing orgasm but I want us all to cum together so I control this until I sense you too are ready to orgasm.

Sometimes, instead of my tongue, I insert the tip of my penis into your open vagina lips - just enough to stretch you a bit. I know you like a cock to orgasm without penetration so I don’t push in any deeper

We are all lost in our sexual reverie, focussed on the moment, on the sensations we are feeling. We are all on the verge of orgasm. Your body is being worshipped by two men at the same time. They both are fully engrossed in your sexiness & ready to explode. You arch your back driving his penis & my tongue deeper into you. You feel your husband's penis pulsing in your anus as your anus throbs & pulses tightly grabbing his cock with your orgasm - his cum shoots into your anus in a hot stream. again & again. You feel the warmth of my orgasm splashing across your pubic mound & up your belly, once, twice, three times. The deep guttural moans of him & me intermingle with your squeals of ecstasy as we all orgasm together

We three lie together unmoving & satiated.

 

[Uncut1969]

Love to chat and message cyber sex love to get someone else off! 95% of time it’s a guy and I am so curious hopefully it carries over to real life !

 

[willi1796]

I did it with a friend on the phone, and two weeks ago with a stranger via video chat. We both went all the way. I found it very hot to watch another man jerk off his cock while he watched me do it.

 

[artslut86]

I haven't seen any threads that discuss people's cyber sex experiences.
Being a newbie, and not being intimate with my wife or anybody for 15 years, I was blown away by my first experience of cyber sex - the openness, the sexiness, the pleasure. So I wrote about it

My First PM experience

I had only been on the forum for about 10 days. I can’t remember how but we connected on private messaging. We were chatting about the workings of submitting stories - I had a lot to learn. You asked to be excused as you wanted to go away & find a good video to masturbate to.

This took me by surprise as it was my first time doing this but I found it hot.

You told me gay porn was your current turn-on switch - particularly anal penetration.

I had already posted some porn videos that I thought were very sexy to a thread. I sent you this link to an anal orgasm video which I found very hot - not gay, but rather a husband penetrating his wife’s anus in a caring gentle way & the build-up to both their orgasms.

You started to watch it keeping me updated on the video timestamp of where you are watching. Your wetness starts to increase hearing the moans of the guy in the video.

I get harder when you ask if I would like to know when you cum.
OMG, yes, yes I do!!

You admit that you rarely share your masturbation with a stranger, that it’s usually solo and that you find it very sexy. It drives me wild with excitement knowing this.

It’s almost like being there with you as you tell me about where you are in the video & how you are rubbing your pussy, clit, breasts & nipples. I stroke my cock thinking about what you are doing to yourself.

You tell me your pussy is dripping now just like the wife in the video. Telling me that you find the husband licking his wife’s anus & then gently inserting his cock reminds you of your own husband's gentleness with your anus. His moans are just like your husband’s, you tell me.

Jesus, I have to hold back my orgasm - my cock leaking precum into my boxers.

I ask you about your clit & you tell me your little bud is peeking out from between your lips now - oh, how I wish I could see that & suck it deep into my mouth, flicking it with my tongue. I bet it could become even more engorged. Wow, this is so exciting.

I tell you my fantasy - to have my tongue in your pussy moving it in synch with your husband's cock thrusting slowly in your anus - as he pushed into you, I would push my tongue deeper into your pussy. I sense you are wild with excitement.

I would put my finger in your husband's anus & control his thrusting - the deeper I pushed my finger into him, the deeper he impaled your anus with his cock, the deeper my tongue in your pussy. When I slowly withdraw my finger he slowly withdraws his cock & my tongue slowly withdraws. When I suddenly thrust my finger into him, he suddenly arches & drives his cock deeper into you. It’s like I have found his remote control up his anus

I control the rhythm & depth of his thrusts into you - the fast/slow, deep/shallow - I let my finger do the talking. I can enter him deep enough to feel his prostate gland which, like your gspot reacts to come hither movements of my finger. I can sense he is nearing orgasm but I want us all to cum together so I control this until I sense you too are ready to orgasm.

Sometimes, instead of my tongue, I insert the tip of my penis into your open vagina lips - just enough to stretch you a bit. I know you like a cock to orgasm without penetration so I don’t push in any deeper

We are all lost in our sexual reverie, focussed on the moment, on the sensations we are feeling. We are all on the verge of orgasm. Your body is being worshipped by two men at the same time. They both are fully engrossed in your sexiness & ready to explode. You arch your back driving his penis & my tongue deeper into you. You feel your husband's penis pulsing in your anus as your anus throbs & pulses tightly grabbing his cock with your orgasm - his cum shoots into your anus in a hot stream. again & again. You feel the warmth of my orgasm splashing across your pubic mound & up your belly, once, twice, three times. The deep guttural moans of him & me intermingle with your squeals of ecstasy as we all orgasm together

We three lie together unmoving & satiated.

 

[artslut86]

I wrote on the stories section about my first 3 actual text /cam sessions with my domme. The rest of the stories are mostly directed by her or revisions of real sessions

 

[pntyhseluvr]

I love to chat and get worked up then get on cam. It is so hot to watch and be watched as we both cum. If anyone wants to cam, I’m a DM away!

 

[StrongMaster7]

I am a huge fan of cybersex. Way back when we first got a PC and went online, one of the first things I did when I was alone online was go to an AOL chatroom. It did not take long to find a woman who was ready to play! For me the most memorable part was how horny she was and how verbal. We sex chatted for a few minutes and we both came (from masturbation of course).

For the next ten years or so, I was able to find a dozen or more women who were likewise very sexual, very horny, and able to express that verbally in chat. I chatted with some of them over a period of months and even years. We got to know what got the other person off and it was frankly as good or better than some actual sex I’ve had.

Over time this became less frequent. The platforms (AOL, MSN Messenger, etc.) changed. Also, women became much more selective and the ones I found were often not so verbal. They were happy to give me a brief phrase, a few words, while I was typing paragraphs to get them off. I love knowing I’ve made a woman come. It’s huge to me. An ego boost. And since my wife has a very low sex drive, it gives me some needed exposure to female sexuality.

These days, I have been fortunate enough to find a number of women on Lit Chat to enjoy cybersex with. But it is not easy to find them and most are “one off” chats.

 

[Easyvirtue]

What started as cyber sex turned into phone sex! He’s so incredible and we both get to explore our kinks without boundaries!

 

[pntyhseluvr]

I am a huge fan of cybersex. Way back when we first got a PC and went online, one of the first things I did when I was alone online was go to an AOL chatroom. It did not take long to find a woman who was ready to play! For me the most memorable part was how horny she was and how verbal. We sex chatted for a few minutes and we both came (from masturbation of course).

For the next ten years or so, I was able to find a dozen or more women who were likewise very sexual, very horny, and able to express that verbally in chat. I chatted with some of them over a period of months and even years. We got to know what got the other person off and it was frankly as good or better than some actual sex I’ve had.

Over time this became less frequent. The platforms (AOL, MSN Messenger, etc.) changed. Also, women became much more selective and the ones I found were often not so verbal. They were happy to give me a brief phrase, a few words, while I was typing paragraphs to get them off. I love knowing I’ve made a woman come. It’s huge to me. An ego boost. And since my wife has a very low sex drive, it gives me some needed exposure to female sexuality.

These days, I have been fortunate enough to find a number of women on Lit Chat to enjoy cybersex with. But it is not easy to find them and most are “one off” chats.

I KNOW there are plenty of ladies on Lit who are just as sexy and horny as us guys but it seems to be a unicorn event when one wants to play together. I’m also sure that whenever a woman does appear she is immediately swarmed. I do hope that I can find a few who enjoy mutual play via chat, sharing pics or vids and even cam. Ladies, as always it is up to you.

 

[pntyhseluvr]

What started as cyber sex turned into phone sex! He’s so incredible and we both get to explore our kinks without boundaries!

I don’t do phone but do cam or online voice

 

[Easyvirtue]

I don’t do phone but do cam or online voice

Online voice?

 

[pntyhseluvr]

Just cam with the cam turned off but the microphone on.

 

[artslut86]

Im lucky. Last few yrs my Domme has me on cam on my knees while she demolishes me.
For me im usually bring folded, ear buds in. I have just her sexy stern voice to guide me. I've never seen her. We were playing every 2 weeks at one pt and now it's scaled back to monthly or less . But she keeps me busy in between. Keeping me highly worked up.
Im constantly want to touch or cum or edge.....drives me mad.

 

[michael2956]

I love cybersex. I've enjoyed numerous short flings with multiple partners over the years which are very hot and satisfying. I've also had a few long-term-- I guess the only way to describe them is--affairs with men and women. It's so satisfying to connect with someone who shares similar kinks and enjoys fantasizing about them. It's so freeing to share things about my past and present that very few people know, without fear of being judged.

I've been able to own my bisexual side and have very intimate sessions with other men. I've never cammed with anyone, but I have shared and received hot, nasty pics. It's been so freeing to open up with other people.

 

[pntyhseluvr]

Im lucky. Last few yrs my Domme has me on cam on my knees while she demolishes me.
For me im usually bring folded, ear buds in. I have just her sexy stern voice to guide me. I've never seen her. We were playing every 2 weeks at one pt and now it's scaled back to monthly or less . But she keeps me busy in between. Keeping me highly worked up.
Im constantly want to touch or cum or edge.....drives me mad.

That is so fucking hot!! Wish my wife would do that to me

 

[pntyhseluvr]

I love cybersex. I've enjoyed numerous short flings with multiple partners over the years which are very hot and satisfying. I've also had a few long-term-- I guess the only way to describe them is--affairs with men and women. It's so satisfying to connect with someone who shares similar kinks and enjoys fantasizing about them. It's so freeing to share things about my past and present that very few people know, without fear of being judged.

I've been able to own my bisexual side and have very intimate sessions with other men. I've never cammed with anyone, but I have shared and received hot, nasty pics. It's been so freeing to open up with other people.

Let me know if you’d like to chat, voice or cam

 

[Biglibido99]

I am a huge fan of cybersex. Way back when we first got a PC and went online, one of the first things I did when I was alone online was go to an AOL chatroom. It did not take long to find a woman who was ready to play! For me the most memorable part was how horny she was and how verbal. We sex chatted for a few minutes and we both came (from masturbation of course).

For the next ten years or so, I was able to find a dozen or more women who were likewise very sexual, very horny, and able to express that verbally in chat. I chatted with some of them over a period of months and even years. We got to know what got the other person off and it was frankly as good or better than some actual sex I’ve had.

Over time this became less frequent. The platforms (AOL, MSN Messenger, etc.) changed. Also, women became much more selective and the ones I found were often not so verbal. They were happy to give me a brief phrase, a few words, while I was typing paragraphs to get them off. I love knowing I’ve made a woman come. It’s huge to me. An ego boost. And since my wife has a very low sex drive, it gives me some needed exposure to female sexuality.

These days, I have been fortunate enough to find a number of women on Lit Chat to enjoy cybersex with. But it is not easy to find them and most are “one off” chats.

Yes, a lot of contacts now are transactional - I've just come across a 21 yr old female saying "Just here for transactional pleasure" - people just want to get off rather than get to know the other person, their likes, needs, triggers.
As you say, it's not much fun if all the effort is coming from you. A couple of times when I was asked to do role play I felt like I was in an actor's improv session - with not much coming back. Not my thing - I need the desire to loop & grow between us and that requires some communication.
I'm lucky to have an online lover who is very responsive & open to exploration to both text & audio comms - it is very exciting exploring fantasies together

 

[Biglibido99]

Anyone else ever done 3 way cyber - I have MMF via text on a group chat - very sexy, very arousing
Next time we said we'd do it via audio but time & circumstances conspired against us

 

[pntyhseluvr]

I’ve had multiple married guys all stroking in a single cam room. A few times lead by a female also masturbating but that’s a unicorn.

 

[artslut86]

That is so fucking hot!! Wish my wife would do that to me

It's amazing. 3 back to back explosive orgasms. Then post orgasm torture until I lock up and use my.safe word.

 

[pntyhseluvr]

lock up as in a cage?

 

[StrongMaster7]

I’ve mentioned this before.

I believe that part of the reason some women are reluctant to have sex chat, cybersex, call it what you will, is that a large number of ‘women’ in the chatrooms are men. I think this, in part, because so many women indicate that they are bi in their profiles. These ‘women’ want to chat with women, like most of us hetero men do. So by claiming to be a bi woman, they hope to have sex chat with real women.

I may be totally wrong.

I also note that men who claim to be men generally far outnumber those individuals who claim to be women in the chatrooms I visit.

While I’m on my soapbox, I’d like to thank the women with whom I have enjoyed sex chat. In truth, I prefer to jerk off to porn rather than chat, but I LOVE to make a woman come using my words, ideas, and porn GIFs. I would be more than happy to have a woman reach out to me and ask me to help them come.

And yes, I am sure some of the ‘women’ I have gotten off are actually men. But after all my years online doing sex chat, I think I can tell most of the time.

Who knows?

 

[Biglibido99]

I’ve mentioned this before.

I believe that part of the reason some women are reluctant to have sex chat, cybersex, call it what you will, is that a large number of ‘women’ in the chatrooms are men. I think this, in part, because so many women indicate that they are bi in their profiles. These ‘women’ want to chat with women, like most of us hetero men do. So by claiming to be a bi woman, they hope to have sex chat with real women.

I may be totally wrong.

I also note that men who claim to be men generally far outnumber those individuals who claim to be women in the chatrooms I visit.

While I’m on my soapbox, I’d like to thank the women with whom I have enjoyed sex chat. In truth, I prefer to jerk off to porn rather than chat, but I LOVE to make a woman come using my words, ideas, and porn GIFs. I would be more than happy to have a woman reach out to me and ask me to help them come.

And yes, I am sure some of the ‘women’ I have gotten off are actually men. But after all my years online doing sex chat, I think I can tell most of the time.

Who knows?

Yes, it's sad but fakes are everywhere - particularly on sites that allow sexual pictures used in profiles.Â
It's fairly easy to tell most of these fakes but if I have a doubt I put them though Tineye which can find where else they're posted.
It's a pity really that one has to be suspicious but I've been cat-fished once - no financial or other loss except wasted time and wondering just what the intention/end goal was?
But from my experience, I can tell you these people go to enormous lengths & energy to weave a credible back story & existence - she/he went on for many months before I finally twigged it

 

[SithLordSexyPants1]

My first cyber experience was back in the mid-1990s with AOL instant messenger, my first (free) phone sex experience was around the same time. Used the 800/900 numbers in the early 90s. Have only had cyber or phone a handful of times with someone other than my wife in the 19 years I've been married. Some call it cheating, I view it as a healthy fantasy escape I rarely get to indulge in.

 

[Pad_Foot]

I think an Australian Lit lady took my cyber cherry
Or..?
Was that my cyber video cherry??