Multiple partners

[Bianca_Bitch69]

Couldn't find what I was looking for

Do women only fantasize about or do they like more than one partner (male or female) in the same session, not necessarily at the same time

 

[Lady2020]

Couldn't find what I was looking for

Do women only fantasize about or do they like more than one partner (male or female) in the same session, not necessarily at the same time

I hope this isn't a trick question.

I'm pretty traditional. I want one person, a man. Of course, I can only speak for myself .

 

[Bianca_Bitch69]

I hope this isn't a trick question.

I'm pretty traditional. I want one person, a man. Of course, I can only speak for myself .

Not a trick question.

I have a female friend who likes being taken from behind so that she can't see who he is and then when he is finished she is about to stand up when a second male bends her over again and takes her from behind to which she will exclaim 'oh no, not again, I can't take it anymore' while feigning resistance but enjoys what is happening

 

[Islander55]

Mostly I prefer one guy at a time but variety is nice. I know there are a number of ladies on here that enjoy gangbangs etc. so there certainly are people who enjoy multiple partners. I have only dabbled in it but it does have some appeal when in a certain mood. It does seem to take more coordination but maybe that is just my lack of experience. On my fantasy list is going to a swing club or party where I might sample 4 or 5 men over an evening.

 

[policywank]

I really enjoy multiple partners. Two at once is ideal - any more than that and I find that I can't give them all adequate attention (although it can be great for me). But several in one session works great as I just keep fucking them one and two at a time.

 

[BongoGal]

I like the idea of multiple partners, but not at the same time. I've never done this and probably never will, but I like the idea of two or more guys, one at a time, having sex with me until each one orgasms. He will immediately get up and leave the room and another will enter the room and start where the other one left off. Condoms would be required. It would sort of be like a tagteam except that the guy waiting to be tagged back into the match would just be waiting and recovering rather than watching the action.

 

[gtnlynn]

I asked my wife. She has experienced sex with only one man at a time before and after marriage. She said that she fantasizes about sex with two men, no more than that. The idea of a gang bang frightens her. She regrets turning down the one opportunity she had for a threesome.

 

[magicalmoments]

Do women only fantasize about or do they like more than one partner (male or female) in the same session, not necessarily at the same time

Some women do fantasise this way, some act it out and others are not interested in the least.
My ex wife was very into MFM 3'sums but not interested in multiple partners, more than the two, at one time.

I had a friend with benefits who was into it in a big way, we'd go to sex parties with maybe up to a dozen guys there and maybe 4 or 5 women. She'd find a comfy mattress somewhere in the crowded part of the room and just take any guy that wanted her. This was usually a gang bang train situation, one guy would fuck her then the next guy then the next all in succession. The most I saw her take over a couple of hours was 12 guys.

Some women are into it some are not.

 

[AficionadoAngel]

It's not something that I've experienced yet, but I've often fantasized about hooking up with a male-female couple. That dynamic interests me more than two men at the same time, but that's not to say I wouldn't be up for it. I haven't been near a cock for so long that at this point I could probably make use of two.

 

[BoredAsianWifey]

Two is nice, max is three. Anything more then that is no way.

 

[Foolhen]

I have "shared" a woman with a male friend a couple of times. In one case she was attracted to either of us and ended up getting both of us. In the other case she was actively seeking two men at the same time. Definitely not something that all women are into, but it seems to me that a fair number are, especially if the circumstances and energy are right.

 

[Islander55]

I think a lot of women wonder what it might be like and I confess that it is something I am willing to try with the right men. I think two would be best but might try three to see what it is like. Gangbangs just do not appeal to me but I do like the concept of having more men available.

 

[OldFred65]

Everyone should have multiple partners. Nothing better than fucking a guy while he's fucking fucking your wife or him fucking you while you fuck his wife. The more the merrier, I say.

 

[Fingerfuxs]

Interesting thread , welcome the the threads BB 69 , subscribed

The thread title caught my eye , I often forget how many Lit posters have never experienced swinger couples sex. That fine line of sexual pleasure on the outside of society’s obsession with monogamy.

Coupled folks , Same sex or heterosexual , it’s all the same , they frown on it in public , yet still fantasize about it. Multiple partners sex is incredible and when done right very insightful to ones own self and worth IMO.

Love and lust are two completely different emotions, once you can get past that it’s very freeing. Trust has to take the lead in the couples love dynamics. A solid best friends relationship with your partner is also very important to a successful step into this realm of sexuality. The point being as a golden rule swingers aren’t cheaters , not that it’s a given and always works out that way. But it’s the normal more then not , once someone declares and says it out loud. I’m a swinger.

We attend Pride functions and parades to the displeasure of some in the LGBTQ community. Bi married people aren’t as welcomed as some might think. But phooey on that train of thought.

Sex is about lust , release and self. Never let anyone deny you exploring something you might be interested in just because they “ society “ say so. You’d be surprised how a good new and different fuck partner will put you in a good place and space.

That motivated feeling of taking better care of oneself because you are excited about sex and the attention you get from it on the inside wanting to be sexy. If you feel sexy , you are sexy , that’s the feeling. Then being able to take it to the next level without regret or overthinking it is for the win.

Best of luck to all that can get into that space. I’m looking forward to reading more posts here.

 

[cuckoldbill]

Interesting thread. Signing on.

 

[oneblueye]

hey...

Myself, I'm more of a solitary person. Sex, is the only thing that I really CRAVE to share with others and it isn't something I care for in a group setting. The only thing I like about group sex is scouting out talent for future use.

 

[Fingerfuxs]

Myself, I'm more of a solitary person. Sex, is the only thing that I really CRAVE to share with others and it isn't something I care for in a group setting. The only thing I like about group sex is scouting out talent for future use.

There’s also a voyeur aspect when you’re in the flesh watching. That is in my top 3 sex moments of life.

That is always in play in a group setting. Even better when you mix Those bdsm /swinger pervs into the mix , in a clubhouse all comfortable and shit

 

[policywank]

One after another feeds a very specific urge for me. It allows them to fuck me hard and rough and fill me with cum without worrying that they will leave me wanting more because there is another guy right after him. The whole dynamic feeds such a deep lust that I will often pick-up pace and desire as I go so it takes even more to satisfy me.

 

[Islander55]

One after another feeds a very specific urge for me. It allows them to fuck me hard and rough and fill me with cum without worrying that they will leave me wanting more because there is another guy right after him. The whole dynamic feeds such a deep lust that I will often pick-up pace and desire as I go so it takes even more to satisfy me.

Interesting. I have never really done this but I have had the fantasy. I am thinking this would be worth trying at lease once. I can understand the dynamic of getting going and wanting even more.

 

[policywank]

Interesting. I have never really done this but I have had the fantasy. I am thinking this would be worth trying at lease once. I can understand the dynamic of getting going and wanting even more.

It is definitely worth a try. I suppose the way I prefer to do it is more like a train than a gang bang. I focus on each man (or perhaps two men) one after the other and in whatever way that appeals to me. And I am having a positive and mutually respectful connection with each guy even when the sex is rough.

Some men cannot conceive of this scenario involving any kind of mutual respect. Those guys aren't welcome in my scene. I feel as though this is a good example of how our perceived interest in a given sex act is governed or distorted by how it is portrayed. Multi-partner sex is usually presented as a gang bang with a bunch of guys using a woman and waving their cocks in her face with her pleasure clearly secondary except insofar as she is expected to pretend she is enjoying it. That has no appeal to me but there is no reason it has to be that way.

 

[gregy70]

I really love the idea of being part of your world Policywank.
*sigh*
To watch even would be amazing

 

[Islander55]

It is definitely worth a try. I suppose the way I prefer to do it is more like a train than a gang bang. I focus on each man (or perhaps two men) one after the other and in whatever way that appeals to me. And I am having a positive and mutually respectful connection with each guy even when the sex is rough.

Some men cannot conceive of this scenario involving any kind of mutual respect. Those guys aren't welcome in my scene. I feel as though this is a good example of how our perceived interest in a given sex act is governed or distorted by how it is portrayed. Multi-partner sex is usually presented as a gang bang with a bunch of guys using a woman and waving their cocks in her face with her pleasure clearly secondary except insofar as she is expected to pretend she is enjoying it. That has no appeal to me but there is no reason it has to be that way.

It is on my list to try if I get a chance. I see your point about the guys not respecting the woman and I wonder if that is because that is the way porn depicts it mostly. It definitely needs to be mutual. You want the guys to have some fun but you want your fun as well. I would not be up for being used simply for their pleasure. A guy needs to be interested in my pleasure as I would expect to be interested in theirs. There are times when I like to be taken. I am not sure I would say I want rough sex but I do like to feel that a guy really wants to fuck me and I rather like some enthusiasm when he is doing it. I think that should be my mood if I do this. I do rather like the train concept much more than a gang bang.

 

[Just2Kinky]

Everyone should have multiple partners. Nothing better than fucking a guy while he's fucking fucking your wife or him fucking you while you fuck his wife. The more the merrier, I say.

I definitely like MMF activity and I certainly prefer to be the guy in the middle.

 

[Bigspurt]

It is on my list to try if I get a chance. I see your point about the guys not respecting the woman and I wonder if that is because that is the way porn depicts it mostly. It definitely needs to be mutual. You want the guys to have some fun but you want your fun as well. I would not be up for being used simply for their pleasure. A guy needs to be interested in my pleasure as I would expect to be interested in theirs. There are times when I like to be taken. I am not sure I would say I want rough sex but I do like to feel that a guy really wants to fuck me and I rather like some enthusiasm when he is doing it. I think that should be my mood if I do this. I do rather like the train concept much more than a gang bang.

As a guy, I like the train, one after the other. Now if she has a guy fucking her and she wants some cock in her by mouth, great. Less invasive, might be to dabble Precum on her nips and lips if she likes. Let it be her decision if she wants to take a load in her mouth, or any where for that matter. Or maybe she would like one at a time in a bedroom with out a bunch of guys standing there stroking their cocks to get ready.
I would like to be standing by to have a turn with her when she is all warmed up and ready for more. Preferably in a room by ourselves.

 

[Islander55]

As a guy, I like the train, one after the other. Now if she has a guy fucking her and she wants some cock in her by mouth, great. Less invasive, might be to dabble Precum on her nips and lips if she likes. Let it be her decision if she wants to take a load in her mouth, or any where for that matter. Or maybe she would like one at a time in a bedroom with out a bunch of guys standing there stroking their cocks to get ready.
I would like to be standing by to have a turn with her when she is all warmed up and ready for more. Preferably in a room by ourselves.

I have very little experience with group sex and what I have done has not really worked that well. Perhaps that is more about inexperience. My first inclination would be to have a room and pick a guy to do me. When done with him, clean up a bit and go pick another guy. I am thinking I could handle 4 or 5 guys this way. I would be willing to try more two guys at once. Perhaps a couple of guys with some experience. Being spit roasted seems like it would be too busy but sometimes, the only way you can find out if you like something is to give it a try a few times if see if it can work for you. I can envision a DP as being very exciting if done properly. Oh well. Always good to have some things for the bucket list.