Ok so for the first time in a decade I don't know how to behave around a man. You see I just started an affair (yes we are both married) with a much older man. I'm not some 20 something gold digger. I'm almost 40 and he just turned 72. It's as much a friendship as it is sexual. I bring a twinkle to his eyes that wasn't there before. But I have one issue. I down know how far I can push the dirty talk without insulting him because of out age difference. I have a very vulgar imagination and I know how to express it. Help please!!!
Much old man with younger woman
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Since I'm close to his age. I would just come out and ask him. If he wants to know how bad it could get give him a short example. Since you both sent kids just be yourselfs that's how you got where you are at now anyway. Good luck and hope I helped. Would like helping in any way I can.
Mello_SixtyNine
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Actually, you have two issues.
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It's just an age thing, people of all ages have varying views on vulgarity.
If it were me, I would try saying what I want to say without using vulgar words because it's just so much fun when a guy realizes the image your words just painted without vulgarity.
If it were me, I would try saying what I want to say without using vulgar words because it's just so much fun when a guy realizes the image your words just painted without vulgarity.
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Cheating isn't cool. Just get a divorce.
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I like a lot more things now then when I was younger. I like when a lady asks me what I like cause I do the same for them. Most new hooks up for me start out the same and then we progress with the feeling of safeness. Do not know a man in the world that does not like getting his dick sucked. I enjoy having it done in different places.
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I disagree. This is very cool
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Then you're a unfaithful bitch. No disrespect, I just call it like I see it.
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He is just another one of us old ones, we reappear every so often
thanks.
Because he made a couple of satellite appearances in a couple of those bashing (pardon, "vanity") threads about me. The comments were out of the blue like chalk&n cheese. and, combined with his horns and av, they were actually quite hillarious.
Kinda like in this thread, I guess.
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Do you know silverhairdude?
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Ding-Ding-Ding!!! Smoothg103rd wins a pookie doll for having enough common sense to know what issue #2 was before birdbaby.
If your hubby knows about the affair & is cool with it, then you only have one issue.
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Mello_SixtyNine
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I just realized that you might have a third issue as well. Say you fuck the old geezer & end up getting the old geezer's STD that he got back in Korea.
Then, you inadvertently give that STD to your unaware husband, who would be totally justified to divorce your cheating ass & petition the court for sole custody of the children.
Then, you inadvertently give that STD to your unaware husband, who would be totally justified to divorce your cheating ass & petition the court for sole custody of the children.
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Ask yourself what's wrong in your marriage that you feel you have to step outside of it? Can you fix it? Is sex worth the risk losing your marriage? Once the trust is broken, you can never get it back.
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Doubt this person cares. I am not buying this one trying to help out an older dude.
Though are we sure she isnt talking about that old guy wanted to cheat on his wife with the younger woman?
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Cheating is never about helping the another person, it's always about helping yourself.
If the way she spelled her job in her bio is any indication, she's probably an old dude or possibly a penguin. Penguins can't spell.
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I"m thinking of borrowing a page from the geezer's playbook sometime:
"I'm looking as much for a friendship as anything sexual. You bring a twinkle to my eye that just wasn't there before..."
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Ewwwww. I bet his noodle is all shriveled.
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How do you know she isn't in an open relationship?
