MissTaken
Biker Chick
- Joined
- Jun 30, 2001
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if you send someone a private message and they reply that they do not wish to interact with you
DO not continue to message that person.
I have had a number of complaints in my pm box about posters continuously sending unwanted and unsolicited messages to other posters.
My advice to them is to tell the poster they do not wish to receive anymore messages from them.
IF that doesn't work, execute the ignore option.
But then what happens when the unwanted attention seeps to the public forum? Well, we have had posters, note the plural, leave the forum because of this behavior.
Enough is enough. There is enough cyber space for everyone to enjoy themselves and pushing your attention upon someone who doesn't want it, just doesn't seem necessary, desirable or appealing.
We are all grown ups here, let's act like it.
Now, back to our regularly schedule BDSM discussions.

DO not continue to message that person.
I have had a number of complaints in my pm box about posters continuously sending unwanted and unsolicited messages to other posters.
My advice to them is to tell the poster they do not wish to receive anymore messages from them.
IF that doesn't work, execute the ignore option.
But then what happens when the unwanted attention seeps to the public forum? Well, we have had posters, note the plural, leave the forum because of this behavior.
Enough is enough. There is enough cyber space for everyone to enjoy themselves and pushing your attention upon someone who doesn't want it, just doesn't seem necessary, desirable or appealing.
We are all grown ups here, let's act like it.
Now, back to our regularly schedule BDSM discussions.