moving that tongue...

[sacrificedangel]

...I, as a fair few women do, like to watch porn with my man (and sometimes without *smiles*) and one thing Ive noticed during some of these vids in the oral scenes, is that the woman seems to manage to move her tongue against the underside of the guy's cock with ease even when he is practically massaging her tonsils. I have since tried to mimic this at his request, and ...well...failed, I just couldnt move my tongue against him when he was in that far. Is this a skill that can be learnt - like deep throating - or is it just a matter that my mouth is too small to do both sucking and licking like the proffessionals?

Any advice from the guys is appriciated too as to other things I can do to my man's cock etc while going down on him...

 

[infinity706]

Really, it has to do with the relative size of his cock and your mouth. Having experienced quite a few guys myself, I can say that thickness is a major issue for being able to do it.

 

[sacrificedangel]

Really, it has to do with the relative size of his cock and your mouth. Having experienced quite a few guys myself, I can say that thickness is a major issue for being able to do it.

Thanks infinity, I spoke with another friend this evening about it and she said she has the same problem with her man *well hung and small mouth* so Im feeling less of a failure lol.

Any ideas of extra stimulation I can try? My man is rather shy in the sex talk telling me what he wants etc, and I wouldnt mind hearing of things others do to a nice cock for me to try out and see what his reactions are.

 

[infinity706]

Well, you could try some light nibbling. As long as you're gentle, most guys like it. A few want you to be more rough, though. You should definately try licking right under the head. Using actual suction is nice, too. It also lets you move your head around faster without his cock slipping out of your mouth. Licking his piss slit gets quite a few guys going. If he has a foreskin, you can definately suck and nibble on that as well. Just don't forget about the balls, either. That spot on the front of the sack, right between them is really sensitive, as well as that seam that runs up from his asshole. (while you're down there, you should probably give his asshole some oral attention as well) You can even suck his balls into your mouth. Hands are useful as well. A lot of guys get off much better if you use them. They should be playing with his balls, his assshole, rubbing his thighs, tweaking/pinching his nipples, spanking him, trailing across his skin, or something.

 

[sacrificedangel]

Well, you could try some light nibbling. As long as you're gentle, most guys like it. A few want you to be more rough, though. You should definately try licking right under the head. Using actual suction is nice, too. It also lets you move your head around faster without his cock slipping out of your mouth. Licking his piss slit gets quite a few guys going. If he has a foreskin, you can definately suck and nibble on that as well. Just don't forget about the balls, either. That spot on the front of the sack, right between them is really sensitive, as well as that seam that runs up from his asshole. (while you're down there, you should probably give his asshole some oral attention as well) You can even suck his balls into your mouth. Hands are useful as well. A lot of guys get off much better if you use them. They should be playing with his balls, his assshole, rubbing his thighs, tweaking/pinching his nipples, spanking him, trailing across his skin, or something.

Fabulous! I will be testing all this out tonight. I wouldnt have thought about doing too much to his balls, he is very protective of them lol. Will be difficult to get to his asshole, he is very shy, but I managed to coax him into giving me anal before, I will use the same methods to see if he will let me play with him there.
Thanks infinity!x

 

[Lizzie_Borden]

Any ideas of extra stimulation I can try? My man is rather shy in the sex talk telling me what he wants etc, and I wouldnt mind hearing of things others do to a nice cock for me to try out and see what his reactions are.

I find the combo wank/blowjob gets good results. A hand wrapped around the bottom half, your mouth around the top half, move in tandem. Better with lots of saliva making everything hot and slick.

Sucking and licking his balls while stroking his cock is good for giving your jaw a rest.

Anal attention has been mentioned, however, if he's partial to it, a finger slowly stroking in and out while you suck or stroke his cock is awesome.

 

[infinity706]

Fabulous! I will be testing all this out tonight. I wouldnt have thought about doing too much to his balls, he is very protective of them lol. Will be difficult to get to his asshole, he is very shy, but I managed to coax him into giving me anal before, I will use the same methods to see if he will let me play with him there.
Thanks infinity!x

Don't worry about it. I met a woman last year that's been married for 12 years. She didn't know some of those despite jumping her poor husband every chance she gets for sex. (major gap in sex drive) Of course, she did show me a few moves I didn't know. Now, that was one lucky ice cream cone.

Well, if you ever get your tongue on his asshole, he'll love it. Since he's so shy, there's a chance he'll freak out about being gay or something, but I have a feeling, he'll come around. Now, if you can get a finger or two up his ass, you can stroke his prostate just like you do a g-spot massage on a woman. It's on the front wall, a couple inches up and it generally likes pretty vigorous stroking. Of course, one of the best moves you can possibly do is to gaze up at him occasionally while you're working your magic. Look into his eyes and show him just how much you enjoy the power you have over him. Afterall, when you go down on someone, it's your own personal power trip. You literally have him by the balls and you're going to handle his body however you see fit.

Oh, and if you don't know about deepthroat, you can do it easier by leaning forward and swallowing quite a bit as you work his cock back into your throat. If you can't get it to work, it's not really any better than any other moves you can do with your mouth. It is nice for the mental stimulation, though. Of course, if you can handle it, you might want to try face fucking as well. If you're worried about gagging, you can wrap some number of fingers around the base of his dick so that he can't go any deeper than you want. Wrapping your lips around the shaft and sucking on it helps, too. Your mouth isn't normally as tight as a pussy, but if you suck on it like a milkshake you're drinking through a straw, you can do a pretty good impression. Also, when/if he cums in your mouth, you might want to try snowballing him. Some guys want to taste their own cum, but a lot of them lose the desire after they get off. Of course, if you have it in your mouth, you can pounce on him and give him a sloppy french kiss as soon as you're done.

 

[Felix_Jones]

I find the combo wank/blowjob gets good results. A hand wrapped around the bottom half, your mouth around the top half, move in tandem. Better with lots of saliva making everything hot and slick.

Sucking and licking his balls while stroking his cock is good for giving your jaw a rest.

Anal attention has been mentioned, however, if he's partial to it, a finger slowly stroking in and out while you suck or stroke his cock is awesome.

I gotta find where your ilk learn the skills and send all the women I've....umm...known there. The BJ skills around these parts have been seriously lacking. Still, knowing that women like you are out there gives me hope.

 

[sacrificedangel]

Excellent suggestions for her Infinity. I'll add mine from a guys perspective.

Lay him on his back, legs apart, knees bent just like you would if you were going to get fucked missionary style. Lift his balls up, keeping a nice firm grip on them. Then, using just the tip of your tongue "massage" the area between the back of his sack and his ass hole. This area is very sensitive on men and he will love it. If he's sensitive about having his ass hole stimulated stop just bfore you get to it, but likely if you want to go there, now will be the opportunity. If he pulls his legs up to give you better access, that's a good sign that he's ready and wants it.

Excellent, thank you! It had crossed my mind what would be the best position to try that out if I wanted him to be at his most relaxed.

Thank you all for your pointers...will be trying it out tonight...

 

[Reba67]

I find I can do "better" things with my tongue when I take him in my mouth pointing more to the roof of my mouth than towards trying to actually swallow his cock.

 

[sacrificedangel]

I find I can do "better" things with my tongue when I take him in my mouth pointing more to the roof of my mouth than towards trying to actually swallow his cock.

well this was what I was trying to find out about, but even when he is barely in my mouth, I cannot really move my tongue around.

Thanks for all the advice everyone! We had a really great session last night that ended with me going down on him. Usually it takes ten minutes or so to get him off that way, but last night I tried a combination of what you all suggested, the licking his slit, Infinity suggested thinking of it like a straw and milkshake and the few moments he remained still enough for me to create that suction almost made me cum with the noises he was making. LOL. I did try lightly edging towards his asshole but he tensed a lot, so I backed off and tried out the sensitive spot between his balls, and was rewarded with a lot of cum very suddenly. I think I actually inhaled some of it, lol but nevermind, it was awesome, and the shorter time span last night of going down on him at least means although Im coughing a lot (lol) my jaw doesnt feel like ive been though a bar fight!

So thank you, I will work towards doing more of these, esp the stimulating him anally, it is something that turns me on at least and I would love to try it just once with him (and if he loves it...more)
Im certain himself would thank you too...but then he would be mortified I asked for help! lol

 

[Guest]

well this was what I was trying to find out about, but even when he is barely in my mouth, I cannot really move my tongue around.

Thanks for all the advice everyone! We had a really great session last night that ended with me going down on him. Usually it takes ten minutes or so to get him off that way, but last night I tried a combination of what you all suggested, the licking his slit, Infinity suggested thinking of it like a straw and milkshake and the few moments he remained still enough for me to create that suction almost made me cum with the noises he was making. LOL. I did try lightly edging towards his asshole but he tensed a lot, so I backed off and tried out the sensitive spot between his balls, and was rewarded with a lot of cum very suddenly. I think I actually inhaled some of it, lol but nevermind, it was awesome, and the shorter time span last night of going down on him at least means although Im coughing a lot (lol) my jaw doesnt feel like ive been though a bar fight!

So thank you, I will work towards doing more of these, esp the stimulating him anally, it is something that turns me on at least and I would love to try it just once with him (and if he loves it...more)
Im certain himself would thank you too...but then he would be mortified I asked for help! lol

Earlier you mentioned that he is not as vocal about communicating his desires to you. You might try what I did to my wife. She wasn't vocal either.

Every time I tried something, I would stop and ask her if she liked it or not. Just a head shake was all I needed at first. Then, after she got used to answering, I started asking questions like "Do you want me to keep going?", "What do you want me to do next?".

This went on for a little while (a week or two), then we started talking about fantasies and role playing (very light stuff). I kept it casual, hinting around things until finally she let her guard down, and told me everything that she wants. now, our sex life is phenomenal, where before it was merely good.

Communication in the bedroom is a wonderful art to master. It will open many more avenues. Instead of testing the waters about anal stimulation, you can find out why he does or does not want it.

Just thoughts.

hope everything is going well in the bedroom.

 

[infinity706]

well this was what I was trying to find out about, but even when he is barely in my mouth, I cannot really move my tongue around.

Thanks for all the advice everyone! We had a really great session last night that ended with me going down on him. Usually it takes ten minutes or so to get him off that way, but last night I tried a combination of what you all suggested, the licking his slit, Infinity suggested thinking of it like a straw and milkshake and the few moments he remained still enough for me to create that suction almost made me cum with the noises he was making. LOL. I did try lightly edging towards his asshole but he tensed a lot, so I backed off and tried out the sensitive spot between his balls, and was rewarded with a lot of cum very suddenly. I think I actually inhaled some of it, lol but nevermind, it was awesome, and the shorter time span last night of going down on him at least means although Im coughing a lot (lol) my jaw doesnt feel like ive been though a bar fight!

So thank you, I will work towards doing more of these, esp the stimulating him anally, it is something that turns me on at least and I would love to try it just once with him (and if he loves it...more)
Im certain himself would thank you too...but then he would be mortified I asked for help! lol

Well, how do you think we all got so good? It's not like any of us were born ready to give a killer blowjob.

 

[sacrificedangel]

Lol...although by the looks of some of these women in the vids, they certainly have the confidence to make it look as though they were born doing it! I suppose that is the only downside to having got together while we were so young...not enough outside experience! so its great to be able to ask people here!

 

[GaryDouglass]

Another Suggestion

Try wearing an inexpensive necklace that has smooth beads (pearls work nice but also glass beads if they are not too large) and once you have him very well lubricated either with your saliva or some other lube wrap the necklace around his manhood a time or two fairly tight and then very slowly slide it up and down on him from the base to his head. Look up into his eyes while you use your tongue around the very sensitive underside of his head and I won't be surprised if he loses control very quickly and gives you a nice reward.

 

[infinity706]

Lol...although by the looks of some of these women in the vids, they certainly have the confidence to make it look as though they were born doing it! I suppose that is the only downside to having got together while we were so young...not enough outside experience! so its great to be able to ask people here!

Yeah, it would be hard to compete. A lot of pornstars were pretty slutty before, during, and after porn and most of this forum has a way more experience than normal as well. Of course, acutal outside experience isn't necessary. Nowdays, there's plenty of people available that will share their knowlege with you. If you stick around, you can easily gain the wisdom and experience of fucking thousands of partners without the risks of actually fucking all these people. Hell, even as many partners as I've had, I still gain quite a bit from asking people both online and offline. Even if you'd picked up over 200 men and women like I have, you'd still probably gain a lot from asking the experts from all over the world.

Oh, and before I forget, a couple more things that might help you out. Mint gives a very nice tingling sensation. Maybe you should try popping a candy into your mouth. Just keep it off to the side, behind your teeth, so it doesn't get knocked down your throat and choke you if you keep it in your mouth during a blowjob. You might want to start with some of the weaker kinds like those peppermint disks or something, before you try more intense things like some of those gums out there, though. People have different sensitivities and it's better to be too weak than to set his balls on fire (unless that's your intent)

Another thing that might help is to alternate between your pussy and your mouth. Sure, it involves changing positions, but since you can't use both at once, it should be useful for when you get tired. It's also good for changing up sensations and if you go pussy to mouth, he gets to watch you lap up some pussy juice. I haven't met a guy yet that doesn't like the idea of woman on woman and tasting your own cunt is a nice, little preview. Besides, it can certainly help your confidence that your girly parts are enjoyable to lick.