Motherhood & Sexuality

[Marxist]

Re: so should we be a good mom

So should we be a good mom and smack you up side the head ......

Daughter, have you been drinking brandy and reading my stories again?


I wasn't trying to rescue shit. I just wanted to say something but was limited by my gender. I'll wear a dress next time. Or you could just open up the question a little more broadly. This isn't a one sex board.


And Vixen, you don't have to publicly write me love letters like that. I know you cherish my boarish behavior.

 

[modest mouse]

*poking my head in*

TN Vixen,

I cropped and tweaked the av you are using, your smile was somewhat lost in the pic. Use this if you like.

 

[daughter]

sometimes it is a sista gig

No offense to you, friend. One thread or a few ain't hoggin' the party.

I don't drink. Now your stories? I'll get back with you.

Peace,

daughter

 

[Marxist]

Re: Woo hoo.....

Birth control!!!! Gotta have it! (I have enough with two of the little cherubs without adding to the fire. )

Birth control!! Now we're talking real world. This is probably the best thing to happen to female sexuality since the discovery of the clit.

 

[MissTaken]

Re: Re: Woo hoo.....

Birth control!! Now we're talking real world. This is probably the best thing to happen to female sexuality since the discovery of the clit.

That and the super duper, water proof, battery operated with adjustable settings vibe!


Being so fussy about men leaves a gal wanting!

 

[TN_Vixen]

*poking my head in*

TN Vixen,

I cropped and tweaked the av you are using, your smile was somewhat lost in the pic. Use this if you like.

Hey MM.. now wasn't that sweet of you? Makes me want to give you a big ole kiss. ;-)

 

[Calamity Jane]

How has my sexuality changed? Well, I can't walk in the front door, strip naked and attack my SO.... Kids have taken away a lot of the impulsiveness. The staying in bed and cuddling/fucking/making love all day is gone too.

My kids are 20 months and 5 years old. After both of them, I went through some serious self esteem shit relating to weight, sexiness, jokes about whether or not the doctor sewed me up smaller than i was before... and i didn't want anything to do with my partner. That was time lost that may never be regained.

I feel more adventurous on the inside now, my thoughts are more open, I know I want new things sexually, but my ability to express my desires is limited. I know that I'm thought of as 'wife' and 'mom' and only rarely as an intensely sexual being who has evolved over the years.


If, at some point, I'm single again, any man I'm interested in will have to understand that I'm a mother. That my children are a part of our relationship, not just a part of me. I won't be looking for a father, they already have one of those. I don't need a financial supporter, because I do just fine on my own. What I'd want is a partner in every sense of the word.

 

[Kandi]

as MissTaken so aptly said: A good mom also, and this is where I may not agree entir

very well put. we must be wholistic, or everybody suffers.
i guess it's a persepctive that only a parent can have.

 

[daughter]

not airbrushed and proud of it

Dedicated to the sexy moms at Lite

Center Of Trees

He watches me while I
remove what little make-up I wear,
slide out of tummy-support panties,
and unhook my bra,
I smile; I like the way
my breasts relax,
rounded out against the sides
like dough,
inviting hands to knead.

I drape myself
in pale splashes of daisies.
I am goddess;
his growing urgency
tells me I'm pretty.
I smile slightly with lips
he's kissed almost forever.

A ritual sashay across the room,
I walk to him.
He is transfixed.
The flowers dance,
he watches petals sway against
my Sugar Baby skin.
Eyes wander to my firm,
full thighs.
He wants to touch,
my gaze says
not yet.

I pull off my beaded hair band,
a sultry, free fall of
raisin and henna locks
splay on my broad shoulders.

He pulls me close, holds tight.
I feel wise and blessed
not ancient.
He loves me more
each new gray,
each new line.
Years like rings,
bind-- never ending.


hope, I haven't plopped this somewhere in another thread.

Peace,

daughter