Mommies are Domm(i)es: A netz inspired thread

[rosco rathbone]

I always get my best people spotting moments on the crosstown bus.

This day, in all-Polish Greenpoint, Brooklyn, there was a verrry angry young lad, a Pollock. ABout 5 years or so of age. He was totally adorable, with that weird dead-white skin of the northern and central tribes and bright red, curly lips. Prettier than a girl. He had on, one of those knit caps that the youth are wearing now. that make you look like a snowboardier or a guy at a peotry slam.

Kicking the back of the seat in front of him,he was. "NO NO NO NO I don't WANT to go!....MOMMY I don't LOVE YOU anymore. I WANT YOU TO GO AWAY!"

He was giving his mother the classic "Talk to the Hand" gesture; and I thought "what a little brat". But I kept watching.

His mother leaned her mouth into his ear and as she did so I realized that she looked exactly like a Polish version of popular Lit BDSM forum dominatrix Netzach. She was cooing, in honeyed and utterly confident tones, "noooo, you looove me" The little man was truly frustrated and full of rage. He kept going, boldly "no, mommy, I want you to GO AWAY. i DON"T WANT YOU. I don't LOVE YOU ANYMORE!".

I looked down and saw that their hands were together. I thought that she'd be holding his hand; but her hand was lying relaxed on the bus seat and his tiny fingers were on top of it, clutching it as he protested his independence.

Several minutes passed in silence. Apparently he was stewing in his juices all the while; because all at once, as the Mexican factory workers were getting on just before the bridge, he blurted out "I DON'T WANT YOU, MOMMY!".

She leaned over and whispered in his ear and he was quiet; with his translucent cheeks and girl's mouth. I was standing over them and I saw his fingers knot into hers.

 

[shy slave]

You have lovely way of describing tthings in the right level of detail. I could visulise the scene perfectly ~ Thank you xxx

You are a softy at heart Rosco, incidentially I like the new AV

 

[rosco rathbone]

You have lovely way of describing tthings in the right level of detail. I could visulise the scene perfectly ~ Thank you xxx

You are a softy at heart Rosco, incidentially I like the new AV

Gene Cernan---last man on the moon.

 

[Netzach]

*rattle...conk....er....sssss....hee haw.....grunt......tick.....tick.....tick....tick...tick...kaboom, conk.....

....

...*

I think I had a biological clock there for a few seconds. Damn you're good.

 

[snowy ciara]

You should write more, please. You have a way of painting a picture with your words.

 

[graceanne]

I agree.

 

[Kajira Callista]

shhhhhhhhhhh if you tell him that.....that would be exactly what he isn't gonna do. silly subbies.

 

[CutieMouse]

*****:

 

[ownedsubgal]

...exactly why i could never be a mommy...the kid would walk all over me lol.

 

[Hajar]

...exactly why i could never be a mommy...the kid would walk all over me lol.

you'd be suprised.


Very nice rosco, you do have a way with words.

 

[rosco rathbone]

*rattle...conk....er....sssss....hee haw.....grunt......tick.....tick.....tick....tick...tick...kaboom, conk.....

....

...*

I think I had a biological clock there for a few seconds. Damn you're good.

netz has often spoken of the domination-factor of the nurturing-mother archetype. The rectal thermometer and all that; yes, but there is a basic level of emotional dependence that underlies all that.

Yeah, submissive mommies are also dommies. Makes you think twice about all those demanding, bratty doms, eh?

Big babies. Bigbabies to a man.

 

[sincerely_helene]

shhhhhhhhhhh if you tell him that.....that would be exactly what he isn't gonna do. silly subbies.

Ooooh! Kinda' like that thar perverse psycho-ology stuff.

 

[Kajira Callista]

Ooooh! Kinda' like that thar perverse psycho-ology stuff.

*snaps gum and nods lots* uh huh

 

[graceanne]

shhhhhhhhhhh if you tell him that.....that would be exactly what he isn't gonna do. silly subbies.

Ooooooooh, ok. Then Rosco? Never, never write again.

 

[shy slave]

netz has often spoken of the domination-factor of the nurturing-mother archetype. The rectal thermometer and all that; yes, but there is a basic level of emotional dependence that underlies all that.

Yeah, submissive mommies are also dommies. Makes you think twice about all those demanding, bratty doms, eh?

Big babies. Bigbabies to a man.

As an occasional bratty sub, on here and in r/l, I had little trouble keeping my sons in order through fair means or foul, its trickier now they are teenageers but not impossible.

The main clue they would have that i am a sub is that regardless of the punishment I mete out I often give in early. For example grounded for a week often means that come Sat night they are driving me crazy and I let them go out lol

edited to add:

Rosco stuff the reverse psychology please can you post further examples of your descriptions involving 'when real life meets Lit' or 'Domineering submissives in the vanilla world'

 

[pandoravampire]

im glad im not the only people watcher, and public transport provides the best cinema ever.

and paradoxical interventions: yes, they are delightfully convuluted.

Ive never viewed motherhood as Dommehood, but yes, it fits i guess. Ive been aware that i have two dommes and a male sub in my house. But here, i reign supreme in my alpha female status, at least till the oldest female returns from college anyhow, lol.
I find it fascinating to watch her. The way she coerces others, her confidence that is contagious, its a lovely thing to watch the next generation of lit members coming into fruition.

And yes, please do write much more.

 

[shy slave]

im glad im not the only people watcher, and public transport provides the best cinema ever.

and paradoxical interventions: yes, they are delightfully convuluted.

Ive never viewed motherhood as Dommehood, but yes, it fits i guess. Ive been aware that i have two dommes and a male sub in my house. But here, i reign supreme in my alpha female status, at least till the oldest female returns from college anyhow, lol.
I find it fascinating to watch her. The way she coerces others, her confidence that is contagious, its a lovely thing to watch the next generation of lit members coming into fruition.

And yes, please do write much more.

I know what you mean about watching the next generation coming to fruition, my sister felt that too until her daughter started pinching her clothes, her make-up, the bathroom.....

 

[graceanne]

I know what you mean about watching the next generation coming to fruition, my sister felt that too until her daughter started pinching her clothes, her make-up, the bathroom.....

LOL My mother in law says that girls are easier until they're 12, and boys after they're 12. Either way, I gotta wonder about all that, too. Whether my kids are going to be subs/doms/ or even vanilla. LOL I guess I'll just have to wait and see.

 

[RavenSpirit2k4]

Quite a lovely story, Rosco. They're right, you do have a way with words.

But I seem to have missed something. How do you know what Netzach looks like? Does she have a pic around that I haven't seen?

 

[TNRkitect2b]

But I seem to have missed something. How do you know what Netzach looks like? Does she have a pic around that I haven't seen?

It's been a while, but the lovely lady posted some pics last year Here

 

[s'lara]

Our local Dominant essayist/gnome has tapped a good vein of gold.

Mommies are dommies. i agree. Mommies are placed in a position to control the well-being, care and environment of a child. All things from when they eat, sleep, are cleaned and kept safe from possible harm. Whether or not the sub trait is present, by virtue of responsible parenting, a Dommie a mommie makes. i think, our local lothario of the written word does not mean Dominant in the way we equate it in the BDSM sense. His interpretation is the basest definition of the word dominant; someone who is in the uppermost position in daily interaction with another. Overlooking and commanding from a superior position.

Now, if one chooses not to actively participate in the rearing of their child or believes themselves unable to enforce some control/boundaries for their child, that doesn't necessarily bespeak submissiveness to me. Well, in the view that this specific kind of inaction serves as a testament to the submissive trait or illustrates how submissiveness extends beyond what we, as a humane society, believes is an adults responsibility to a child. There are many factors that could be attributed to why someone would disassociate themselves from parental duties.

What i am getting at is this -- it is a choice not to challenge the natural inclination to give in to one who does not know better. To me, that's an unwillingness to move beyond the submissive self without instruction from a Dominant. In that instance, the dominance required to care for a child has to come from the "me" and it must be engaged without commands, duress, etc. from an outside party. imo, to be submissive isn't a physical or emotional defect which prevents one from being a parent. Wittingly or unwittingly, becoming a parent places you in a position to be the authoritarian in a dynamic that isn't related to BDSM. That's pretty much the long and short of it. You aren't strapping on Domme boots and cracking a whip to satisfy something inside of you. You are simply stepping up to the plate to take care of someone, who cannot take care of themselves.

As for Dommie mommie personas, i can only envision the use of that image to soften a target just enough to be fooled into thinking that nuturing was a natural next step. But instead, a vicious and cold beating ensues with the same soft voice speaking the most savage of verbal denigrations.

lara

P.S. Raven, Netz had a few pics up of Herself in the av spot. There are still lamentations about the removal of those AV's.

 

[shy slave]

Ahhh Thank you TNR for the link

Get that clock ticking again Netz you look like the perfect Mummy in those pics.

I imagine boys/men all over the world would love you to be their Mummy.

PS not that I would dare tell you what to do but i have you finished packing yet

 

[rosco rathbone]

Quite a lovely story, Rosco. They're right, you do have a way with words.

But I seem to have missed something. How do you know what Netzach looks like? Does she have a pic around that I haven't seen?

She has posted plenty of facial shots; but I've met her.

 

[shy slave]

She has posted plenty of facial shots; but I've met her.

WHAT!!!!!

When? Where? details please details.

Was she as sexy & gorgeous as she looks?

Does she have a deep husky voice? smoky with a hint of amusement running through it?

Did you swop tips of lurid acts for slutty subs?

details please I need details.

I will even beg if I have too.....

 

[Netzach]

I just bumped my old pic thread, some of you pervs should be putting up shots of self torment and lost weekends, come on people!