Moments of Significance

[surrenderedfaith]

So many times on here people ask if real connections can be formed and maintained. in a world filled with so much uncertainty and disappointment it can be hard to focus on the positive. One of the things i love most about LIT is the rare occasion I've come across a personal account if some great and wonderful moment of significance in someone's life or relationship.
There have been quite a few that stand out in my mind. Those stories belong to others to share.

So, I welcome people here to please share with us some of their greatest moments of joy, deep connection, understanding, or just sheer awesomeness that have occurred in their relationships. Please keep names out of it, unless everyone is comfortable with their name being shared.

As always, this is a positive space only. No ragging or snarking on someone's memories. hopefully it doesn't need to be said.

 

[ToPleaseHim]

It’s nice to think of moments of significance. I have been fortunate to find a past love here at Lit and there are some very significant firsts that come to mind. There is some good here.

 

[one_love]

The good times

To me it’s always been about the people and the relationships. Without that then everything we do is transactional, and that just doesn’t work for me. The exception I would guess would be the many lurkers, however they won’t likely be looking for a connection anyway.

With the patience of 20 years of a lit account (Holy Fuck I cant believe I can say that) I have had more than a few moments of significance. I also believe these moments are only truly achieved when one is being honest...to themselves and the ones they interact with. I am very fortunate to have made friends and romances due to literotica. And while there have also been plenty a negative experience...all I remember are the good times.

 

[Lascivity]

I think meeting my current lover, Zero, was a real moment for me. Until that point I had always sort of assumed that I would find relationships tiring or irritating. Finding out that they didn't have to be was revelatory.

 

[RudyGardet]

I had an online thing going with a girl that was very fun but basically casual. She was a proud slut and would share her IRL experiences and I'd explore darker fantasies with her online. This went on for a while till one night I had a record breaking hotel masturbation session (5 times in about 8 hours). She was supposed to be part of it but had been out with friends. When I told her about it late that night, she got weird and pissy and quiet, until finally she confessed that she was really jealous and that she had deeper feelings for me than she had wanted to admit.

I was truly surprised because I didn't think she was into relationships (because she had told me she wasn't) but her jealousy and confession truly had a profound effect on me. Our relationship became something quite different and honestly changed my perspective on life. I had given up on the idea that I could have feelings that strong and she brought them out in me. It didn't last for a variety of reasons, but I'll cherish it.

 

[surrenderedfaith]

Thank you both for sharing. There are definitely relationships that happen here that can have a profound impact on how we view ourselves or the world.