moonglow18f
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http://shine.yahoo.com/parenting/mom-dr-phil-confront-teacher-ran-off-student-222200651.html
I'm an 18 year old girl that likes to date older guys so this article caught my attention - apparently it's been a big thing but this is the first I've seen of it.
I really don't think the big sin here is the 41 year old with the 18 year old, I think it's only in the way the portray themselves. It's easy to see where the man went wrong, he was in a position of power of this lady and shirked his responsibility for his own selfish gain wither it be in the interest of love or not. You compound that with leaving his wife and kids for her and not seeming the least bit sad about it just makes him look downright evil.
It's not all his fault though. She looks like a doll, there just is nothing going on upstairs. It gives people the feeling that they should feel sorry for her, or maybe, guilty because what guy that age wouldn't like an 18 year old sex doll? Ultimately in a situation like this it will be the girl that's the lynchpin of the whole arrangement and ultimately the one that needs to fight the hardest for it because the harder the guy fights for it the creepier he looks.
If your the type of girl that's into things like this, OWN it. I would say, "Yes, I'm dating a 41 year old. That's gross? Why, because I don't want a boyfriend working part-time at pizza inn trying to feel me up in the back of a rust bucket his daddy bought him? Because when anyone looks at an important role they're trying to fill they look for experience, work ethic, loyalty to the cause and imagination to think outside the box of which 0 of the guys my age know what half those words mean." A strong, empowered 18 year old WOMAN would just lay this whole case on it's ass. Then who gives a shit if the guy sits there with a goofy grin on his face going, "yeah, I'm hitting that" because at least you can tell there's no mind bending going on and more than likely, he's earning every bit of it.
Don't get me wrong, I believe there are young men that are great individuals as well, my point is that quality should be ageless - I shouldn't be forced to settle simply because age group has too much chlorine in it's gene pool.
I'm an 18 year old girl that likes to date older guys so this article caught my attention - apparently it's been a big thing but this is the first I've seen of it.
I really don't think the big sin here is the 41 year old with the 18 year old, I think it's only in the way the portray themselves. It's easy to see where the man went wrong, he was in a position of power of this lady and shirked his responsibility for his own selfish gain wither it be in the interest of love or not. You compound that with leaving his wife and kids for her and not seeming the least bit sad about it just makes him look downright evil.
It's not all his fault though. She looks like a doll, there just is nothing going on upstairs. It gives people the feeling that they should feel sorry for her, or maybe, guilty because what guy that age wouldn't like an 18 year old sex doll? Ultimately in a situation like this it will be the girl that's the lynchpin of the whole arrangement and ultimately the one that needs to fight the hardest for it because the harder the guy fights for it the creepier he looks.
If your the type of girl that's into things like this, OWN it. I would say, "Yes, I'm dating a 41 year old. That's gross? Why, because I don't want a boyfriend working part-time at pizza inn trying to feel me up in the back of a rust bucket his daddy bought him? Because when anyone looks at an important role they're trying to fill they look for experience, work ethic, loyalty to the cause and imagination to think outside the box of which 0 of the guys my age know what half those words mean." A strong, empowered 18 year old WOMAN would just lay this whole case on it's ass. Then who gives a shit if the guy sits there with a goofy grin on his face going, "yeah, I'm hitting that" because at least you can tell there's no mind bending going on and more than likely, he's earning every bit of it.
Don't get me wrong, I believe there are young men that are great individuals as well, my point is that quality should be ageless - I shouldn't be forced to settle simply because age group has too much chlorine in it's gene pool.
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