MMF Threesome

TexasJennie

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MMF Threesome - My boyfriend wants one! I do too. Since he brought it up, it's all I can think about. Problem is....how do we find the man? We're both married (to others), and live in other cities. I want him to find the man. Any suggestions?
 
TexasJennie said:
MMF Threesome - My boyfriend wants one! I do too. Since he brought it up, it's all I can think about. Problem is....how do we find the man? We're both married (to others), and live in other cities. I want him to find the man. Any suggestions?

Threesome's only seem to come out one of two ways - Wonderful or Aweful. I have been in quite a few so what I say is from my own personal experience.

Potentially you are headed for aweful. Look at it this way. You want your boyfriend and another guy. Fine. The problem is: Who will be the other guy? You say you want your boyfriend to find the other guy. I think that starts out wrong. You BOTH should find the other guy.

A threesome is an intimate arrangement. There are all kinds of unexpected problems that spring up just before, during and afterwards. Things like, you spent too much time with the other guy leaving your B/F feeling ignored. You may not like your B/F's choice. I haven't even mentioned jealousy.

Don't leave the choice up to your B/F alone. Together find someone you BOTH are comfortable with. Meet him a few times first BEFORE anyone starts talking about a threesome.

It could be one of your B/F's friends. It could be one of your friends. It could be someone neither of you know and simply meet. My first threesome was with my B/F at the time and his room mate walked in on us and simply joined in. That worked okay. We ended up doing it several times. It worked mostly because all three of us were COMFORTABLE with each other.

Have a good time. :kiss:
 
Be upfront with EVERYTHING long before you even initiate any of this. Discuss long before any worst case scenarios and be comfortable dealing with them.

This is something that can super volitile as well as an absolute blast. Be careful and make sure proper protection at all times (I'm surprised not more people suggest protection when it comes to threesomes).:rolleyes:
 
I know it's not my business, and I sure don't know the full story, but you mentioned it, so I'll bite.

You're married and so is he? And now you want to bring in even more pepole into your intimate life? I just have a feeling that it could get messy.

My suggestion might be a little onorthodox. Best for both of you would probably be to find someone with no emotional attachment to the two of you whatsoever, and with little risk of getting attached later. If it can be arranged, and if it doesn't go against your ethical convictions on the matter, I'd actually suggest you get in contact with...well, a professional.
 
Go for it Sweetie!!!!

I never thought I could go through with it until my fella suggested it. Once you are there it really can be one ofthe best nights of your life! I know it was 4 me.

Claire
xxx:heart:
 
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