MMF advice...

saltysol

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Anyone out there with MMF experience? Or is it MFM? That's how ignorant I am.

I've always harbored a desire for this experience but it seems I've matured it's grown rather than diminish.

Is it an enjoyable entanglement or an awkward assemblage?
 
MMF implies that there will be male-male action; MFM implies that the men won't have sexual contact.
 
MMF implies that there will be male-male action; MFM implies that the men won't have sexual contact.

Oh my gosh! I guess this means that you have to be very careful when getting the invitations printed. A typo could ruin everything. :)
 
MMF (alternate spelling - MMPH) is the sound my kid makes when she receives an unfavorable reply from me.

e.g.

"Dad, can I have some halloween candy for breakfast."

"No."

"Mmph!"









:D
 
Anyone out there with MMF experience? Or is it MFM? That's how ignorant I am.

I've always harbored a desire for this experience but it seems I've matured it's grown rather than diminish.

Is it an enjoyable entanglement or an awkward assemblage?

I found my limited MFM experiences very enjoyable but it could have been the company ;)
 
MMF (alternate spelling - MMPH) is the sound my kid makes when she receives an unfavorable reply from me.

e.g.

"Dad, can I have some halloween candy for breakfast."

"No."

"Mmph!"

Maybe she's just telling you what's going to happen if she doesn't get that candy for breakfast? :eek::eek:;):D
 
Who do you imagine the MfM with? Your wife I assume? Who would the other guy be? What is it about the fantasy that interests you?
 
Who do you imagine the MfM with? Your wife I assume? Who would the other guy be? What is it about the fantasy that interests you?

I don't have anyone in mind right now. I know my wife isn't interested but that's not a problem at this point in our relationship. My girlfriend isn't particularly keen either though and I was hopeful that she would warm to the idea over time.

In a perfect world it would be a very comfortable situation among people I know well and care about. I am fine with moving slowly and finding everyone's comfort level. I would particularly like to watch and photograph, I do some erotic photography now and it is difficult to be involved sexually and work the camera. Aside from my voyeuristic interests I would love watching a woman enjoy two men at the same time.

If I'm completely honest what I'd like the best is if the female partner brought the other man into the situation. I don't have a cuckold's desire to be humiliated but I would definitely be aroused by having the woman show that she is a eager participant rather than simply submitting to a dominant male.

I would say that there is some bi-curiosity as well but I'd have to get pretty comfortable over time to dip my toe in those waters.

Thanks for asking...I was really hoping to hear the experiences of others. I'm not really sure why my post was moved to this relative backwater of the Lit board.

Salty
 
I've been fortunate enough to take part in a few MMF encounters (or MFM, depending on your outlook). The potential awkwardness pretty much depends on how comfortable everyone is with themselves and the other participants, and what the pleasure objective might be.

I've been the center of attention with two straight-but-mellow men. There was a charming point where one gave a brief handjob to the other, which was really a treat to watch. Other than that, any intimate physical contact between them was incidental. They were good friends (before and after) and the one receiving the handjob was bi-curious at the time (he satisfied his curiosity later :) ).

I've also been part of a full triad where all three of us were physical with each other. In that case I was with a gay (but very tolerant of me) man and his bi male partner (who I was also dating). We didn't all three get together very often, but I remember the times that we did VERY fondly. The first time or so *I* was the awkward one since I really wasn't the center of attention. I got over it. :cattail:
 
MFM Advice...

Can't give MMF advice if that's what you literally meant because we've only done mfm. It was a ton of fun, and yes it's a little awkward / nerve racking but very exciting. Now that we've done it a bunch of times it's just plain fun! Next up, ffm!! My advice, make sure you two are both ready for it, talk talk talk about it, and for us the idea of someone we know joining us was insane but that's a personal preference of course.
 
We've done MFMs fairly often. Usually when the corresponding F isn't arround. (We tend to prefer MFMF) If it wasn't fun then we would've stopped doing them. She likes them because of the different power dynamics. She likes being submissive and catering to two cocks. But she also knows she's going to get pleased quite a bit. I just think it's fun. :) Talk it out and have fun.
 
My advice, be selective in choosing the participants. Everyone needs to be honest about what is off limits and what they want. Yes, I've participated in men and had it be pleasurable and (once) go badly.
 
Have done both and they are as awkward or fun as you make them. Did one were we tagged teamed the wife for most of the night, she was pretty sore and tired the next day :)
 
it can be a lot of fun...

I my mid twenties I participated in many MFMs with a good friend and his wife. I ended up moving in and had my own bedroom. I got to make love to his wife almost every night over a four year period. About half the time we double teamed her, some times he would watch. There were other times that he would send her to my room for the night.

Over the course of this she and I ended up falling in love. I moved out first, she divorced him and moved in with me. Ultimately, it didn't work out in the end.

The sex was amazing, but I've felt guilt for years about breaking up their marriage.
 
Only had the pleasure of mfm once. The gf didn't enjoy it because it made her feel like she was cheating on me. As for me it was purely about the sex which I enjoyed quite thoroughly. I don't think anything can compare to how wonderful it feels being inside such a jam packed wet vagina and feeling both your own and another man's cock heads rubbing away inside against one another. To each his own I guess, but it felt amazing and is something I would do again without hesitation.
 
My husband and I have had a few MFM threesomes, but they've all be in a "fwb" situation with other straight men. MFM's can happen without DP (still waiting on that fantasy of mine to be fulfilled), but they've been great.

We've always developed a friendship first before the sex because, for us, there has to be a level of trust. And frankly, I'm not going to sleep with a guy if I don't like him.

It does require a lot of communication between the primary couple, boundaries need to be set, and limits need to be laid out. But yeah, it's a hell of a lot of fun.
 
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