missionary position question

[Hanon435]

i'm serious. don't laugh. don't laugh too much.

is it acceptable for a guy to put his body weight on the girl in missionary position or does he have to hold himself up like with his arms?

*don't know if my arms are strong enough yeah cause i'd go for a long time but i don't want to crush the girl either lol*

 

[JuanVato]

You can, but most women I have been with like a little variety: on and off.

There is not a script, well not generally.

 

[Noor]

You should be able to incase she can't handle your weight, and then let her choose.

You could practice push ups...

 

[bailadora]

You should be able to incase she can't handle your weight, and then let her choose.

You could practice push ups...

Yeah - my husband has a good 80lbs on me when it comes to weight, so I can't handle him resting *all* of his weight on me. That said, I can handle some and he'll carry the rest by bracing his forearms against the mattress.

 

[Experiencedguy]

There is always the option of using different positions (unless there is a physical problem). Staying with the same partner, a variety of positions is fun, keeps things interesting.

 

[NippleMuncher]

Yeah - my husband has a good 80lbs on me when it comes to weight, so I can't handle him resting *all* of his weight on me. That said, I can handle some and he'll carry the rest by bracing his forearms against the mattress.

I do the same, resting on my elbows. There are times when I do rest more weight on her, but I'm in a position that won't restrict her ability to breathe.

In my case, she's got probably 20 pounds on me and when she's on top laying on me it can be tough to breathe sometimes, though I am a "belly" breather, so weight on my stomach affects my air intake.

 

[blade_rocknut]

The drop to your elbows thing will work ( depending on body shapes) but really, sex will sooo much better for both of you if you do a little excercise. My wife likes me to lay on her a little- for the intimacy, I guess- but to continue would be oppressive. too sweaty, too little movement. As an alternate, you can also get on your knees and pull her legs up to your shoulders- likely getting you more depth as well.

 

[infinity706]

This is actually something I had to answer for my mom, one time. (of course, my parents were virgins until they married) They actually had the idea that getting laid meant the guy literally lays on top of the woman. Of course, they've both gained some weight over the years, and she ended up having major back aches. That's how I found this out.

Really, though, I'd say it depends on how much you weight because back aches aren't really that sexy.

 

[Hanon435]

i think some experimenting is in order. lol i'll need a volunteer from the audience. no not you sir, sit down.

 

[pwr2theblondes]

yeah, you should either hold yourself up with your arms or your elbows. Sex wouldnt be enjoyable if I had a heavy man pressing down on me.

 

[Reba67]

I think that whoever is on top really should be supporting at least some of their own weight. Whether it's by resting on forearems/elbows or using the legs.

 

[pwr2theblondes]

I think that whoever is on top really should be supporting at least some of their own weight. Whether it's by resting on forearems/elbows or using the legs.

Agree.

 

[fuckmeat]

i'm serious. don't laugh. don't laugh too much.

is it acceptable for a guy to put his body weight on the girl in missionary position or does he have to hold himself up like with his arms?

*don't know if my arms are strong enough yeah cause i'd go for a long time but i don't want to crush the girl either lol*

Where have you got the idea that banging away in one position for ages is a good idea? You'll make your woman sore that way and probably bore her to tears. Whether you can be assed to support your own weight is not the main issue here in my opinion. Google for some sexual positions and add a bit of variety.

 

[Hanon435]

women need their ovens warmed up. they take time. and some women like to go for hours. that's what i heard.

i could go for some sticky buns about now. warmed up sticky buns.

i have another solution. get a few women to hold the guy up. or perhaps some kind of harnass rigging system to support body weight. a missionary position weight reduction support system.

 

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[JackJillUT]

We don't think it's a stupid question at all.

There are a couple of ways to look at this. One side is that when she is lying down, she can relax and enjoy without needing to push back and grunt to avoid being crushed.

On the other hand, there are times when Jill loves being smothered, and we like to crush together. It's mostly at the height of arousal, near or during orgasm, we will pull in close to each other, to press her tits into me and hold tightly. But no, she doesn't want me to lie there for anything longer than that.

 

[Carnevil9]

I like the "getting up on my knees" method as mentioned above. Not really missionary any more, but similar, and deeper.

Another option is supporting yourself on the headboard of the bed. Assuming you are using a bed!

But the REAL answer to this (and most) questions about sex is - there aren't really any rules. Just do what makes you both happy, and don't worry if it is "normal" or not.

Good luck!

 

[KoPilot]

yeah cause i'd go for a long time but i don't want to crush the girl either lol*

Some gals like being crushed. :B

 

[horsie_gurl]

Yeah - my husband has a good 80lbs on me when it comes to weight, so I can't handle him resting *all* of his weight on me. That said, I can handle some and he'll carry the rest by bracing his forearms against the mattress.

definitely the best idea. Some weight helps because you can or it feels like you can get deeper, and more intimate. But if you have to then put your forearms on the mattress (ground, whatever) and hold yourself up that way. its more area to hold up that your hands. Don't forget you can rest and lay over her, putting your weight down sometimes doesn't hurt unless you are a lot bigger than her. I think its the most intimate thing when the guy lays down and we are completely pressed together, a lot of kissing action happens then too.

 

[TomboyWitch]

is it acceptable for a guy to put his body weight on the girl in missionary position or does he have to hold himself up like with his arms?

Acceptable? Yes. Possible? Depends. I've met some heavy guys, but I'm not at all uncomfortable under fairly average guys, like my SO. Things may be different.

So be prepared to use arms, but feel free to try if you can do without. Just try avoiding surprises on all sides.

 

[tmmmbrrr]

As others suggest above, during sex it probably goes either way.... AFTER your climax though it is a different story. As you start to relax your body turns into a lead weight--before that happens, show a little consideration.