Misogyny Resources

[badasschick]

what the hell happened to you to make you feel this way?

He's never been turned out by a real woman. When some chick comes along and puts that thing down on him, he'll learn the respect.

But as long as he keeps fucking little girls who he feels he doesn't have to respect, he won't.


or



He got a real serious Oedipal thing going on.

 

[MechaBlade]

Interesting... Interesting links...

I'm much too much of a coward to say anything else at this point, but interesting...

 

[IA951]

what the hell happened to you to make you feel this way?

What the hell happened to you to make you so pro-sex?

I was not always this way.
I did not always hate women.
In fact, there was a time when I was rather fond of them.
Of course that's all in the past now eh?

I am not going to make excuses for what I believe.
I have had experiences that at the time I thought were fantastic, however, taking another look at them at a later date damn near me sick.
Mine was a fundemental disenchantment with social interaction.
I felt and continue to feel supremely out of place in this hyper-sexual culture.

My hate developed over the course of years. Isolation will do that to you.
Hate needs a name though, it needs a face.
You can only rage against an abstract concept for so long.
You need something that will satisfy you emotionally.
If you can not make the connection with someone that seems to be so important, if you can not be satisfied by someone else, you need to satisfy yourself. You need to be able to satisfy yourself.
I do not speak soley of the sexual.
But of the psycho-sexual.
The deeper lust, that mental frenzy that seems to be so removed from mere physical pleasure, mere fucking. That is what animals do, they mate....it's all instinct.
I longed to experience something beyound just ejaculation and orgasm.


I'm not the slavering moron that so many of you seem to think I am.
I've done my homework.
I know my subject.
You can not purport to be pro-misogyny and not know what the hell that means.

I have edited my original post and added a few other sites I have come across in my research.
I chose these sites because they offer excellent information on misogyny and what it means to be a misognyst.
I like I said in my original post, there is a whole other point of view out there.

 

[lavender]

 

[IA951]

He's never been turned out by a real woman. When some chick comes along and puts that thing down on him, he'll learn the respect.

But as long as he keeps fucking little girls who he feels he doesn't have to respect, he won't.


or



He got a real serious Oedipal thing going on.

If you want to talk about "real" women go right ahead, it does not mean a fucking thing to me, but go nuts.

I don't fuck anybody.
I have not fucked anybody in nine years.

And yes I think that I do have something of an Oedipal thing going on.
It has only been very recently that have examined what happened in my past. I had father issues.
I hated that bastard.
He was had his own problems though.
Severe mental illness.
Schizo, you understand.
I always thought I could have done better.

 

[IA951]

You do not think you can experience something beyond just ejaculation and orgasm with a woman?

Do you have any female friends? Are there any women who have been positive influences in your life at all? Any past female friends that you remember fondly?

I am sincerely interested. This is not the time I'm going to be a bitch to you.

I'm glad that your interested.

To answer your questions:

No, I have no female friends.
I have very few male friends.
I have very few friends period.

I think that my mother was a very positive influence on me.
I learned a great deal from her.
I still learn from her.

Like I said I was not always the venom-spitting misognyst you see before you.
I remember more than a few young women fondly.
Of course a lot of it was one-sided.
I was the "safe" one, I was not a teenage horndog hot on the trail of some wet and willing pussy.


I always wanted what I did not have.
And could not obtain.
The purely physical.
I have had a few sexual encounters, they were just nightmares though.
Everything was wrong.
You combine that with a low sex drive to begin with and it just becomes a hassle, a burden.

I used to believe that all I needed to do in order to snap back, to come out of state of mind was to have some real sex, go 'til it's gone type of sex.
I have come to realize that that is just fantasy.

 

[MechaBlade]

So, I guess you just want a girl that you can have an emotional attachment to? Is that what you're saying?

 

[IA951]

So, I guess you just want a girl that you can have an emotional attachment to? Is that what you're saying?

Not really.
I used to think that I did.
I used to think that if I had somebody who cared about me and I cared aout them, that would make everything alright.
Of course your talking about a relationship here, It's all that I can do just to take care of myself.
Call me selfish if you like, but I find it makes for a much more relaxed life when you don't have to worry about meeting the expectations of someone else, when you dont have to satisfy someone else basically.

 

[Rambling Rose]

I felt and continue to feel supremely out of place in this hyper-sexual culture.

I ask again...why are you here?

 

[Rubyfruit]

IA, how do you reconcile your hatred of women with your love of your mother?

 

[Oilpainter]

IA

IA, I would refer you to many great thinkers who have come to the opposite conclusion then you, that is, love not hate is the solution. So please look at what Buddah, Ghandi, Jesus, MLK had to say.

 

[IA951]

IA, how do you reconcile your hatred of women with your love of your mother?

A good question.
The source of my misogyny was not my mother.
It has another source.
I suppose that I esteem my mother over other women.

 

[Rubyfruit]

IA, how would you feel if other men put your mother in the category that you put women in?

 

[IA951]

IA, how would you feel if other men put your mother in the category that you put women in?

I'm sure that they do.
I'm sure they have.
I'm sure they will.

what do you expect me to say?
it's a real fucking world eh?

 

[Rubyfruit]

You didn't answer my question.

When you think about other men feeling hatred, rage and disgust towards your mother, simply because of her gender, how does that make you feel?

 

[alexandraaah]

I think this is interesting.

After scanning your posts (my overwhelming ADD doesn't allow for anything more today), you sound very sad to me.

It sounds like you hardly want to be or agree with the position you take, but you've found a niche where you feel you belong because misogyny has mapped how you feel into words.

So, tell me, are you just spreading the word of hatred/mistrust of women, or are you looking for change?

 

[IA951]

Originally posted by alexandraaah you sound very sad to me.

So, tell me, are you just spreading the word of hatred/mistrust of women, or are you looking for change? [/B]

I am sad.
Did you expect me to tell you that everything was fan-fucking-tastic?
I'm not Chris Farley in this motherfucker.

Yes, I am spreading the word of hatred and mistrust of women.
And no I am not seeking change especially.

I have not gotten any overt support on the board, which is alright, I really did not expect any.
However a number of men have sent me PM's expressing support for my position.They have read the sites I suggested and realized that this is not just some childish stunt, that there is solid thought and serious scholarship involved here.

 

[Laurel]

I'm not Chris Farley in this motherfucker.

I would think not. He's dead...isn't he?

 

[IA951]

You didn't answer my question.

When you think about other men feeling hatred, rage and disgust towards your mother, simply because of her gender, how does that make you feel?

I have seen this situation play out with women rather than men.
More than a few women at my mother's place of employment have regarded her with the above emotions.
My mother is a woman of faith, culturally conservative.
These women who would chastise her were a bunch of fucking sluts.
Fucking anything with two legs, a cock and $50.
I understood why they did not like my mother, she was everthing they were not and wanted to be.

 

[IA951]

I would think not. He's dead...isn't he?

Yes he is.
I think that you know I was trying to make a point there.

 

[Sateema Lunasi]

You siad you have not gotten support on this board, but then said you have gotten PMs of support. A contridiction, but I am not harrassing you.

Here is my opinion of what you have presented.

I briefly looked through two of the sites you linked to. They were poorly done in theory, style and presentation. It sort of looked like a seventeen year old who can't get a date put them together. This is not a judgement on you, just the sites. I found them worthless and full of opinions rather than fact, and most of the commentary was off topic, so it didn't matter anyway.

Now about you;

I find you terribly rude to come to a place like this which in my opinion celebrates the sexuality of both women and men, and speak of hate of a gender. That means you hate more than half the world. I don't respect anyone who hates anyone. Hate is a strong word that I don't think you fully grasp the meaning of. If you truly hated women, you would not be here talking to us. You would be outraged by our very presence. But, I will admit that at times, I too have disliked, disrespected and wondered why the hell my own gender can't get thier act straight. I have wondered this about both sexes, but particularly my own, since I cannot relate to a man's life. Women can be conniving, stupid, needy and annoying as hell. So can men. Most of my friends are men. I can understand dislike of a gender, a race, a religion...but I cannot understand hate. Dislike I can chalk up to ignorance or ill experiences. Hate is for psychos and people with intensely low self esteem.

I asked you before why you hate women, and you never gave me a satisfactory answer. You skipped over the question, and only pretended to address it. I am still curious as to why and would appreciate it if you would answer.

I will give you some advice, and you can take it or not, it doesn't matter to me. The fact that you come here and spend time on this board, and spread the word of your hate of an entire gender, and that you wish to sway others to your views of hate, is in itself psychotic. The profile of yourself that you have presented in your statements almost fits that of a seriel killer/rapist. Animal torture and an abusive childhood are the only ingredients you need to make it complete, and I am betting that you have the last one. Don't feel bad, so do I. I am not saying you are a killer, I am saying you present yourself the same way. So I will help you out here, seriously. Quit with the "everybody hate women" thing. It won't work in most places, and certainly not here. As they say in comedy, "Wrong room." Anyone who will ever hate women will get to that point on their own, with no help from you, and your words really will not sway them. KKK members do not really need to be recruited. They ALREADY hate blacks. The prerequisite is already there.

If you don't like women, then that is okay. Hell, most women say they hate men, and they have good reasons too. But if you hate us, then to be truly happy, you should abstain from relations with us. Don't talk to us, ignore us at work, don't sleep with us, don't marry us, don't let us have your children, don't have drinks with us at the local bar, don't go out to the country for a picnic in a pretty meadow with us...abstain. That means no sex, unless you want to go gay, which is an option, though you will find that most gay men will be appaled that you hate women, or hate anything. You are looking at an awfully lonely life. A miserable life. And if you hate a woman and have sex with a person you hate, isn't that disrespecting yourself in an extreme way? Why do that to yourself? So you have a problem here. You need to fix it. I am not saying you should suddenly stop hating women, or end your feelings, or jump into a new life of marriage and "happiness" but you cannot go through life and be happy with hate of any kind.

Have you thought of getting therapy? I went through several years of therapy for rape councilling and it was a long time before I could let a man touch me. Before I would even consider a relationship. It might help.

I feel sorry for you. I really do. I hope you will take my advice about therapy, and perhaps bettering your "image" but if not, I will hope you will "get better" sometime in the future.

I do want to know why you hate women though. It has to be a personal thing, or you simply wouldn't. So, please tell me.

 

[IA951]

You siad you have not gotten support on this board, but then said you have gotten PMs of support. A contridiction, but I am not harrassing you.


It is hardly a contradiction.
I said that I had not gotten any OVERT support on the board.
That no one had posted a message in support of my views or a message in sympathy with those views on the thread.
I have gotten PMs from men here who either support my position or who are in sympathy with that position.
I did not and will not reveal their names as they asked me not to.
I did not think that you were harrassing me.




Here is my opinion of what you have presented.

I briefly looked through two of the sites you linked to. They were poorly done in theory, style and presentation. It sort of looked like a seventeen year old who can't get a date put them together. This is not a judgement on you, just the sites. I found them worthless and full of opinions rather than fact, and most of the commentary was off topic, so it didn't matter anyway.


I would be curious to know which sites you looked over.





Now about you;

I find you terribly rude to come to a place like this which in my opinion celebrates the sexuality of both women and men, and speak of hate of a gender. That means you hate more than half the world. I don't respect anyone who hates anyone. Hate is a strong word that I don't think you fully grasp the meaning of. If you truly hated women, you would not be here talking to us. You would be outraged by our very presence.


I have said and continue to say that I hate people. Can I practically avoid the entire human race? hardly.
You are not required to respect me.
I never asked for that.
I never asked for anyone to kiss my ass.
Some here think that they have it figured out, have me figured out.
I'm just the sad,bitter,twisted man who never managed to develop the skills to snag the pussy that it would appear I so desperately want.
That this is my sole problem, throw him a sympathy fuck and he'll be alright
Fuck that, fuck them.
Hate IS a strong word and I am fully
aware of it's nature.





But, I will admit that at times, I too have disliked, disrespected and wondered why the hell my own gender can't get thier act straight. I have wondered this about both sexes, but particularly my own, since I cannot relate to a man's life. Women can be conniving, stupid, needy and annoying as hell. So can men. Most of my friends are men. I can understand dislike of a gender, a race, a religion...but I cannot understand hate. Dislike I can chalk up to ignorance or ill experiences. Hate is for psychos and people with intensely low self esteem.
I asked you before why you hate women, and you never gave me a satisfactory answer. You skipped over the question, and only pretended to address it. I am still curious as to why and would appreciate it if you would answer.


My advice to you is look at my other posts on this thread.



I will give you some advice, and you can take it or not, it doesn't matter to me. The fact that you come here and spend time on this board, and spread the word of your hate of an entire gender, and that you wish to sway others to your views of hate, is in itself psychotic. The profile of yourself that you have presented in your statements almost fits that of a seriel killer/rapist. Animal torture and an abusive childhood are the only ingredients you need to make it complete, and I am betting that you have the last one.


Ok, so now your a psychologist.
Your going to surmise that due to a fatally unhappy childhood which may or may not have contained some nature of abuse that I fit the profile for serial killer or rapist. I have said in a few posts in this thread that there is a whole other point of view out there.
My profile says that I am pissed off and intelligent.
That I like guns,writing and this site.
That my occupation is psyop.
Only the first two are are correct.
I have posted here that I have been employed in the retail trade and more recently in the janitorial service.
Although it interests me deeply, I have never had any connections to psyop. Do you even know what that is?


Don't feel bad, so do I. I am not saying you are a killer, I am saying you present yourself the same way.

Well, I am glad that you are capable of at least a little bit of sympathy.




So I will help you out here, seriously. Quit with the "everybody hate women" thing. It won't work in most places, and certainly not here. As they say in comedy, "Wrong room." Anyone who will ever hate women will get to that point on their own, with no help from you, and your words really will not sway them. KKK members do not really need to be recruited. They ALREADY hate blacks. The prerequisite is already there.


So, doing your good deed for the day are you?
The men who sent me PMs have told me that they were glad to see someone express what they had been thinking for a long time, that it satisfied them and made them glad that there was someone who understood them, who was able to put into words what they had been feeling.
That is who I do it for.
For those who think that they are alone, for those who feel that no one really understands them.




If you don't like women, then that is okay. Hell, most women say they hate men, and they have good reasons too. But if you hate us, then to be truly happy, you should abstain from relations with us. Don't talk to us, ignore us at work, don't sleep with us, don't marry us, don't let us have your children, don't have drinks with us at the local bar, don't go out to the country for a picnic in a pretty meadow with
us...abstain.


Do not presume to tell me what I need to do to be "truly happy".
I will address these in the order which you have written them.
I do abstain in relations with women.
There are very few women that I talk to.
I only work with men so, no problem there.
I do not sleep with women, and have not slept with a woman in nine years.
I have no intention of ever getting married.
I have absolutely no intention of ever having any children.
I don't drink that much anymore so,no problem there eiter.
I prefer to stay inside, I don't have picnics anywhere, I do abstain.



That means no sex, unless you want to go gay, which is an option, though you will find that most gay men will be appaled that you hate women, or hate anything. You are looking at an awfully lonely life. A miserable life.


You say "no sex" like that is supposed to hurt me.
That if I don't straighten up and tow the line I'll get no more of something I never really had to begin with.
If your looking for a threat that will be effective against me, trying saying no more weed for you! no more painkillers for you!
That would scare the shit out of me.
Make me totally reconsider my beliefs so I can cash in on this pussy buffet.
I was not aware that "going gay" was an option.
Correct me if I am wrong, but is being sexually attracted to men not a key factor in defining homosexuality?
It might suprise you to know that I have been very good friends with a lot of gay men over the years, who were quite aware of my beliefs and were in sympathy with them
It's already been a lonely life.
It has already been a pretty shitty time on here on Planet Earth.



And if you hate a woman and have sex with a person you hate, isn't that disrespecting yourself in an extreme way? Why do that to yourself? So you have a problem here. You need to fix it. I am not saying you should suddenly stop hating women, or end your feelings, or jump into a new life of marriage and "happiness" but you cannot go through life and be happy with hate of any kind.


Yes it would be extreme self disrespect for you to "sleep with the enemy".
I don't do this to myself anymore.
When it happened I was a green kid.
And this sex business was some heady stuff.
Sex is a drug.
Just like coke.
The first few times are like a dream come true, you can't believe that there is something that can make you feel this good.
And before you know it you are trading your dignity and self-respect for just a little to get you through.



Have you thought of getting therapy? I went through several years of therapy for rape councilling and it was a long time before I could let a man touch me. Before I would even consider a relationship. It might help.

I've done the therapy thing.
I was diagnosed with clinical depression four years ago, and was on Prozac for close to a year.
I did not like where things were headed though.



I feel sorry for you. I really do. I hope you will take my advice about therapy, and perhaps bettering your "image" but if not, I will hope you will "get better" sometime in the future.


You don't need to feel sorry for me at all.
Save your pity for someone for someone who REALLY needs it.




I do want to know why you hate women though. It has to be a personal thing, or you simply wouldn't. So, please tell me.