Mirena T Insert?

[Mephistophelily]

My doctor basically forced me to get this thing. I had told her at the start of my appointment (Post C-Section checkup) when she asked what I was going to do for BC that we had been debating him getting a V or me getting one of those T inserts. I'm allergic to most metals, so she said this one would be best and then called for the nurse to get one. "We'll just get this in you now and not have to worry about it, 'kay?"

I'm staring at this weird thing in her hand and starting to freak out. "I'd rather talk to my husband first..."

"No, no, let's just get this in there and everything will be fine." Minutes later she had me on the table, those damn metal prongs between my legs and that thing being shoved into me. "Now this might be a slight stinging..."

Slight stinging pain MY ASS. That hurt like hell!!

A month later, I'm still hurting down there and keep getting these wicked worse-than-my-worst-period cramps. She didn't talk to me about any of the side effects or what to expect.

Does anyone else have this thing? Should I stick it out with these weird pains, or should I tell her to get the damn thing out of me?

 

[BrazenFellow]

I'm not an OB/GYN. That said, it's bad practice to carry on with a procedure after the patient says "I would rather discuss this with my husband first" or any variation on that theme. Anything other than a "Yes, carry out this procedure" means the procedure is not done unless it is considered a life-saving treatment.

I can't imagine a Merina T insert is considered in the same category as extracting dead tissue from wounds, sealing torn arteries, or things of that nature.

Were I your husband there would be a goddamn shit tornado descending upon this fucktard of a doctor.

Important note: It should not be causing you discomfort. I suspect any medical professional's advice (which you need to go seek, and not the same one who inserted it) is going to be to have it removed.

 

[SweetErika]

Is there a reason you're considering going back to the same doctor who "basically forced" this form of BC on you?

It sounds like this doctor was totally wrong, like BF said, but you also didn't mention anything about asking her about side effects or saying no to the procedure. At this point, it seems like it'd be wise to get a new doctor, have the IUD removed if you feel it's doing more harm than good, ask your doctor about the benefits and risks of any given device/drug/procedure and be sure to assert yourself in no uncertain terms if you're uncomfortable or unsure about something. You're responsible for looking after yourself, just like your doctor is responsible for caring for your health.

There's tons of info on the side effects and such of Mirena if you're interested or want to buff up on knowledge before you speak to your doctor about the problems you're experiencing. Here is one site, but there are plenty more if you google things like 'Mirena side effects' and 'Mirena pain after insertion'.

 

[subish2009]

I have the Mirena and mine hurt like a bitch when it was inserted, too, and that was with my fully willing and informed consent, too! Mine hurt, I think, because of some tissue damage I had internally during child birth. But it kept hurting afterwards for a while and I finally figured out that the plastic "string" that hangs down was somehow way too long. It should NOT be sticking out of you, but somehow mine was at times, and at other times it was far enough up, but I think the ends were poking me. It was a simple matter of going back for them to trim the ends and I've had no problems ever since (it's been more than 2 years now).

So, it may be something simple like that, but I agree with the others: go back to a NEW obgyn. Hopefully one with a better bedside manner and communication skills.

 

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[Berwyn]

What everyone else above has said: Get a new OB/GYN and never go back to that idiot. When you do find a new OB/GYN go in and have the Mirena checked. I honestly don't have any experience with this particular device, but in general you should not be having that much discomfort with any IUD type device. With how poorly that excuse for a physician treated you, I would be worried about improper placement.

 

[pplwatching]

Should I stick it out with these weird pains, or should I tell her to get the damn thing out of me?

I agree with making an appointment with either her or a new gyno to discuss what you are experiencing. In the mean time have that conversation with your husband. Make sure that both of you are aware of, and understand, the failure rate and risks associated with the IUD. Decide what kind of birth control suits your morals and lifestyle. When you visit your Dr. you can then make an informed choice about wether to try to get past the cramping or remove it in favor of another form of contraception.

If you feel like you were pressured into accepting a medical procedure, then file a complaint with a detailed of a description of what happened.

 

[Canadian_cutie]

I dont know if this is only in Canada but I needed a perscription to get an IUD from the pharmacy and the doctor gave me a tablet to put inside the vagina 1 hour before insertion to open up the cervix. There was no pain but if your experiencing it you should go see a doctor as soon as possible, it could have moved and become inbedded in your uterus.
Just as a side note, I had an IUD and thought I was protected but now ive got 2 kids instead of just one.

 

[Mephistophelily]

My sister insisted this Dr was "one of the best", which is why I went to her. During my pregnancy, I thought she was a little rude, but chalked it up to my own hormones leaving me quick to get aggrivated.

 

[storyreader84]

Physicians are obsessed with the Mirena! Pain varies significantly from person to person in general but especially with this procedure. Make sure you pre-medicate with 800 mg Ibuprofen 1-2 hours prior to your appointment time. Also the more VAGINAL deliveries you have had the less pain it tends to be. I've only placed a few but my wife and a few of her friends have told me about their experience also. If you still have pain that far out I'd call the clinic for another visit, which is often recommended anyways to do a 'string check'. Last note... Mirena's are phenomenal once you get it in, my wife has NO periods after only 2 months (she is on the lucky side of the spectrum!), but every month you have a better chance of your period decreasing quantity and duration of menses and some just have spotting a couple times a year. Removing them when you want to have a child is just 'uncomfortable' and nowhere to the event as putting one in! Hope this helps somewhat