Milking/Prostrate stimulation

[Frouwa_Aph]

Milking/Prostate stimulation

Sooo... I'll soon have a willing "victim", who will allow me to experiment on (or better in) him.

I know enough to find the prostate in a man's ass, but I'd like to have some hints and perhaps tricks to make this more enjoyable for both of us. A description of some sort would be helpful too. Erotic stories have milking in them sometimes, but we all know that stories aren't a perfect source for information. <g>

Since this will be in a BDSM setting, guess who won't be allowed to cum. But I really wonder how long even a well trained sub/slave can stand extended stimulation. Of course... if he does cum... bad lil' slave will be punished for not obeying his Mistress.

As i said before: Have "victim", need hints.

Monika

 

[schatz]

Since I have never had this done to me, I can't really give any how-to.As far as you wondering how long he could last with prostate stimulation, I would say much longer than normal as long as there is no penile stimulation.

 

[Bindii]

I haven't had any personal experience with this myself but came across this on the web (i have copied and pasted it for you), hope it helps.

The technique of prostate massage actually involves two (three) organs of the male reproductive system: the prostate gland, the seminal vessicles, and the ampulla, which is the reservoir which actually holds the male sperm just prior to ejaculation. The prostate gland when engorged can be felt by pressing a finger into the middle of the perineum (in back of the scrotum). It is a rounded lump about the size of a large marble. It can also be accessed via the rectum, where it can again be felt as a rounded lump toward the front of the body and just about an index finger's length inside the rectum. A better way to find it from the rectum is to insert the middle finger, and slide it from just inside the rectum (on the front side) up and in until you feel it move over a lump. That will be the prostate. Just in back of (up from) the prostate is a smaller and roughly triangular wedge shaped nodule that is the bottom portion of the somewhat larger seminal vessicles, which is where most of the fluid of the ejaculate is produced and accumulated. Underneath the seminal vessicles are the ampulla.

During sexual arousal, sperm and ejaculatory fluid accumulate in these glands backing up behind valves in the ejaculatory ducts. When fluid pressure reaches a high enough threshold, the valves open and the urethral bulb fills, triggering the ejaculatory reflex and muscular contractions of orgasm, which empties the glands.

The seminal vessicles, ampulla and prostate can also be emptied by massage of these glands through the rectum. Rhythmically massaging the organs in an in-and-out motion with an anal dildo is one way, but perhaps a more reliable way is to simply use either the middle finger or the middle finger and index finger together (well lubricated), to apply a firm slow massage over the nodules of the glands inside the rectum. The massage will force the seminal fluid and sperm past the valves in the ejaculatory ducts, and empty the prostate (which discharges directly into the urethra). If arousal is low or penile stimulation is stopped for a brief time before the prostate massage begins, draining of the ejaculate into the urethra will not trigger orgasm. Once ejaculate appears at the meatus, it will help to empty the urethra by running a finger firmly up the underside of the penis from the root to the head, pushing the ejaculate in front of it.

A variant of the prostate massage that is quite effective in limiting any tendency to orgasm and the pleasurable sensations of fluid passing through the ejaculatory ducts and urethra, is the "ice massage": at least 10 minutes prior to the prostate massage, plastic bags full of crushed ice are packed around the male's cock and balls. The bags remain in place during the prostate milking. When the massage is completed, the bags are removed. This technique also makes a very appropriate opportunity to install a chastity device on the male's shriveled penis. (This technique works best if the male if fastened down - it's very hard to get a man to stay still when his genitals are being frozen.) Naturally, hubby will not be at all pleased to be denied the small amount of pleasure of the surrogate orgasm as the milked fluid is forced through his numbed ejaculatory ducts.

A condom may be used to collect the ejaculate, so that the mistress can gage when an amount of fluid normal for an orgasm has been collected. At this point the prostate massage can be ended.

While the prostate massage is very pleasurable, most men are unable to orgasm by prostate massage without some kind of penile stimulation. Once a sufficient amount of ejaculatory fluid has been drained, insufficient fluid pressure to trigger the ejaculatory reflex will remain, and no amount of penile stimulation will result in orgasm until the fluid glands are recharged. This may take several hours to several days.

 

[camphall]

An interesting website with chastity/milking contents is

www.tpe.com/~altarboy

It's got a search area, and a really intersting fiction area.

 

[P. B. Walker]

Uhmmm

So lemme see if I have this straight (I'm talking about Bindii's post). So the women (or partner or whatever) milks the man's semen and ejaculatory fluid out of the male using the described technique, but this doesn't give the male an orgasm. Correct? And he can't have an orgams after this (until he "regenerates" so to say). So basically, you get the same results, but he gets nothing... lol... seems very cruel in my opinion. I thought prostate massage was something that was pleasureable to the man and produced a stronger, longer lasting orgasm. The technique you described doesn't sound very pleasureable for the male... he doesn't even get to cum.

Is this something just for the BDSM folks? Kind of like punishment for a male slave? Or something to keep him from receiving any orgasms over a long period of time?

If I sound confused... it's because I am...

- PBW

 

[Bindii]

Re: Uhmmm

So lemme see if I have this straight (I'm talking about Bindii's post). So the women (or partner or whatever) milks the man's semen and ejaculatory fluid out of the male using the described technique, but this doesn't give the male an orgasm. Correct? And he can't have an orgams after this (until he "regenerates" so to say). So basically, you get the same results, but he gets nothing... lol... seems very cruel in my opinion. I thought prostate massage was something that was pleasureable to the man and produced a stronger, longer lasting orgasm. The technique you described doesn't sound very pleasureable for the male... he doesn't even get to cum.

Is this something just for the BDSM folks? Kind of like punishment for a male slave? Or something to keep him from receiving any orgasms over a long period of time?

If I sound confused... it's because I am...

- PBW

Yeah it is confusing isn't it? What I had in my post was merely a cut and past from another site, I happened to come accross it while surfing and thought it was apt for this particular question.
My experience with prostate massage was a lot more pleasurable for the men in concern.....light massage combined with oral.....it increases the pleasure, never had a complaint yet!

 

[P. B. Walker]

Re: Re: Uhmmm

Yeah it is confusing isn't it? What I had in my post was merely a cut and past from another site, I happened to come accross it while surfing and thought it was apt for this particular question.
My experience with prostate massage was a lot more pleasurable for the men in concern.....light massage combined with oral.....it increases the pleasure, never had a complaint yet!

Yeah I noticed you had cut and pasted the milking description. I just didn't quite "get it". But it is good to know that it is possible for prostate massage to be enjoyable for the male. For a bit there I was thinking "why in the hell would a man want try that?" LOL

Thanks for clearing that up.

- PBW

 

[Frouwa_Aph]

Thank You...

...all for the great hints and replies!
I'm sure my "victim" will appreciate too that I have a lot more information now.

Monika

 

[Aaron26]

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[henry0reilly]

An interesting website with chastity/milking contents is www.tpe.com/~altarboy

posted by camphall

I was seriously considering asking Judy to tie me up and tease me with fellatio until I read some of the stories at this site. Now I'm rather hestitant to take that step.

 

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