Micro management

Blackmail does always involve demand for payment of money or another thing of value. Your posting doesn't make sense, and your reply doesn't make sense.

You already gave him submission, freely offered it to him. He wouldn't have to blackmail you to get that which you already freely offered and gave. He could threaten to expose you, but it isn't blackmail unless he is seeking something in return, something of value. You can't identify anything of value sought or delivered. There's no shame in being mistaken, but there is in being mistaken and insisting that you are correct.

Since he didn't ask for money, and you didn't give him any, use some of what you didn't give him to buy yourself a dictionary. Lexicographers do a much better job than you do of explaining the meaning of words.
Yes he had my submission..but there were limits.. there was a guy .. he had me hanging out with once in awhile. Lets just say this guy .. had a lot of complications..

But he would say stuff like whats the problem.. your just hanging out as friends. How does it hurt you to spend a little time with someone who is so infactuated with you ..
So i went .. a couple times and i had fun
This was over a few months

Then we were setting up my week and he told he to wear something that was ..
and to give him head in his car
And i refused
And that started the blackmail
 
Blackmail can simply be coercion to do something or some things you might not want to do a certain way at a certain time. Pressure to put family aside for example to be 'there' regardless of other commitments, or threats to expose your kinks to family or co-workers.

'Be here at 8PM unless you want ( X person ) to know ....'


She seems very interesting, but she's too far away. And she missed a commitment she made several months ago.
 
so... maybe 2 years ago there was a male dom I chatted with once in awhile
he was in texas .. as time went by he got more and more aggressive with asking personal questions and for some reason i just felt compelled to answer ..

he would act like he was entitled to answers or like i owed him answers
the more I answered his questions .. the more personal the questions got

he was very aggressive .. and i sort of felt like .. pushed into a corner like i had no choice to answer

and sometimes when he didn't understand .. I would have to explain situations to him
This went on for a couple months ... and after awhile he knew almost everything ..
(My life at times can be very complicated)

it was easy to open up to him because we had never met and we were never going to meet

But the more information he had the more power he was gaining over me .. and then the black mail started ...

this whole thing sort of morphed into a daddy daughter thing with him controlling everything that happened in my sex life

like if a guy asked me out I would say.. let me think about it .. then ask daddy and he would decide... before the date we would get together on gmail chat and go over what i was gonna wear and what would happen

flirt with this guy
stay away from that guy
when i had sex with my BF how it was gonna happen and how he would cum
etc etc

he was like a mentor but at other times sadistic. But he was VERY smart and sort of clever. But he was like ... people smart .. not book smart ..

Really want some like 40 plus .. worldly .. experienced

but as the months past once in awhile he would say things that raised a red flag
and when i lost trust for him it just fell apart

when the "thing" fell apart it sort of left a void ...
been looking for someone ever since but...
Chemistry is a must ..

Single parent .. I have a young daughter this must not affect..
I also work full time so in no way could this affect my job or my income..
I wont be asking you for anything besides your time and your mind
For the right man .. with the right mental ability...

Hate to just say this out right but ..
When i was .. my step father kept a lot of control over me .. who i could date .. what i could wear and some other things that left me a little ...
Love to know more about you girl
 
so... maybe 2 years ago there was a male dom I chatted with once in awhile
he was in texas .. as time went by he got more and more aggressive with asking personal questions and for some reason i just felt compelled to answer ..

he would act like he was entitled to answers or like i owed him answers
the more I answered his questions .. the more personal the questions got

he was very aggressive .. and i sort of felt like .. pushed into a corner like i had no choice to answer

and sometimes when he didn't understand .. I would have to explain situations to him
This went on for a couple months ... and after awhile he knew almost everything ..
(My life at times can be very complicated)

it was easy to open up to him because we had never met and we were never going to meet

But the more information he had the more power he was gaining over me .. and then the black mail started ...

this whole thing sort of morphed into a daddy daughter thing with him controlling everything that happened in my sex life

like if a guy asked me out I would say.. let me think about it .. then ask daddy and he would decide... before the date we would get together on gmail chat and go over what i was gonna wear and what would happen

flirt with this guy
stay away from that guy
when i had sex with my BF how it was gonna happen and how he would cum
etc etc

he was like a mentor but at other times sadistic. But he was VERY smart and sort of clever. But he was like ... people smart .. not book smart ..

Really want some like 40 plus .. worldly .. experienced

but as the months past once in awhile he would say things that raised a red flag
and when i lost trust for him it just fell apart

when the "thing" fell apart it sort of left a void ...
been looking for someone ever since but...
Chemistry is a must ..

Single parent .. I have a young daughter this must not affect..
I also work full time so in no way could this affect my job or my income..
I wont be asking you for anything besides your time and your mind
For the right man .. with the right mental ability...

Hate to just say this out right but ..
When i was .. my step father kept a lot of control over me .. who i could date .. what i could wear and some other things that left me a little ...
Run like hell!
 
so... maybe 2 years ago there was a male dom I chatted with once in awhile
he was in texas .. as time went by he got more and more aggressive with asking personal questions and for some reason i just felt compelled to answer ..

he would act like he was entitled to answers or like i owed him answers
the more I answered his questions .. the more personal the questions got

he was very aggressive .. and i sort of felt like .. pushed into a corner like i had no choice to answer

and sometimes when he didn't understand .. I would have to explain situations to him
This went on for a couple months ... and after awhile he knew almost everything ..
(My life at times can be very complicated)

it was easy to open up to him because we had never met and we were never going to meet

But the more information he had the more power he was gaining over me .. and then the black mail started ...

this whole thing sort of morphed into a daddy daughter thing with him controlling everything that happened in my sex life

like if a guy asked me out I would say.. let me think about it .. then ask daddy and he would decide... before the date we would get together on gmail chat and go over what i was gonna wear and what would happen

flirt with this guy
stay away from that guy
when i had sex with my BF how it was gonna happen and how he would cum
etc etc

he was like a mentor but at other times sadistic. But he was VERY smart and sort of clever. But he was like ... people smart .. not book smart ..

Really want some like 40 plus .. worldly .. experienced

but as the months past once in awhile he would say things that raised a red flag
and when i lost trust for him it just fell apart

when the "thing" fell apart it sort of left a void ...
been looking for someone ever since but...
Chemistry is a must ..

Single parent .. I have a young daughter this must not affect..
I also work full time so in no way could this affect my job or my income..
I wont be asking you for anything besides your time and your mind
For the right man .. with the right mental ability...

Hate to just say this out right but ..
When i was .. my step father kept a lot of control over me .. who i could date .. what i could wear and some other things that left me a little ...
Have you found an older man to control and degrade you yet, Mandy? I have experience in dirty Daddy/step Daddy role play with grown up little girls like you……controlling, demanding, dominant. Just what you appear to need
 
so... maybe 2 years ago there was a male dom I chatted with once in awhile
he was in texas .. as time went by he got more and more aggressive with asking personal questions and for some reason i just felt compelled to answer ..

he would act like he was entitled to answers or like i owed him answers
the more I answered his questions .. the more personal the questions got

he was very aggressive .. and i sort of felt like .. pushed into a corner like i had no choice to answer

and sometimes when he didn't understand .. I would have to explain situations to him
This went on for a couple months ... and after awhile he knew almost everything ..
(My life at times can be very complicated)

it was easy to open up to him because we had never met and we were never going to meet

But the more information he had the more power he was gaining over me .. and then the black mail started ...

this whole thing sort of morphed into a daddy daughter thing with him controlling everything that happened in my sex life

like if a guy asked me out I would say.. let me think about it .. then ask daddy and he would decide... before the date we would get together on gmail chat and go over what i was gonna wear and what would happen

flirt with this guy
stay away from that guy
when i had sex with my BF how it was gonna happen and how he would cum
etc etc

he was like a mentor but at other times sadistic. But he was VERY smart and sort of clever. But he was like ... people smart .. not book smart ..

Really want some like 40 plus .. worldly .. experienced

but as the months past once in awhile he would say things that raised a red flag
and when i lost trust for him it just fell apart

when the "thing" fell apart it sort of left a void ...
been looking for someone ever since but...
Chemistry is a must ..

Single parent .. I have a young daughter this must not affect..
I also work full time so in no way could this affect my job or my income..
I wont be asking you for anything besides your time and your mind
For the right man .. with the right mental ability...

Hate to just say this out right but ..
When i was .. my step father kept a lot of control over me .. who i could date .. what i could wear and some other things that left me a little ...
I get it.
See your DM.
 
so... maybe 2 years ago there was a male dom I chatted with once in awhile
he was in texas .. as time went by he got more and more aggressive with asking personal questions and for some reason i just felt compelled to answer ..

he would act like he was entitled to answers or like i owed him answers
the more I answered his questions .. the more personal the questions got

he was very aggressive .. and i sort of felt like .. pushed into a corner like i had no choice to answer

and sometimes when he didn't understand .. I would have to explain situations to him
This went on for a couple months ... and after awhile he knew almost everything ..
(My life at times can be very complicated)

it was easy to open up to him because we had never met and we were never going to meet

But the more information he had the more power he was gaining over me .. and then the black mail started ...

this whole thing sort of morphed into a daddy daughter thing with him controlling everything that happened in my sex life

like if a guy asked me out I would say.. let me think about it .. then ask daddy and he would decide... before the date we would get together on gmail chat and go over what i was gonna wear and what would happen

flirt with this guy
stay away from that guy
when i had sex with my BF how it was gonna happen and how he would cum
etc etc

he was like a mentor but at other times sadistic. But he was VERY smart and sort of clever. But he was like ... people smart .. not book smart ..

Really want some like 40 plus .. worldly .. experienced

but as the months past once in awhile he would say things that raised a red flag
and when i lost trust for him it just fell apart

when the "thing" fell apart it sort of left a void ...
been looking for someone ever since but...
Chemistry is a must ..

Single parent .. I have a young daughter this must not affect..
I also work full time so in no way could this affect my job or my income..
I wont be asking you for anything besides your time and your mind
For the right man .. with the right mental ability...

Hate to just say this out right but ..
When i was .. my step father kept a lot of control over me .. who i could date .. what i could wear and some other things that left me a little ...
WOWzers. What a powerful story. Nicely said. I'm kinda similar in a way how I could tell a total stranger any and everything yet not begin to tell my closest friend the very same thing. On one hand, I don't like to be judged / made fun of. On the other hand, I really don't care what ppl thing of me because I just don't care. I just do me as sees fit at the moment. Hope you find what you are looking for. I'm still looking . . . One day I hope to find whatever it is I'm looking for cause right now . . . I'm clueless. Have a good one.
 
Hello little girl, I read ur intro and loved each bit of it. I have had some virtual relationships much like yours.
I am a 61 yo single Dom.
I think we may connect. Contact me if you want to discuss.
 
so... maybe 2 years ago there was a male dom I chatted with once in awhile
he was in texas .. as time went by he got more and more aggressive with asking personal questions and for some reason i just felt compelled to answer ..

he would act like he was entitled to answers or like i owed him answers
the more I answered his questions .. the more personal the questions got

he was very aggressive .. and i sort of felt like .. pushed into a corner like i had no choice to answer

and sometimes when he didn't understand .. I would have to explain situations to him
This went on for a couple months ... and after awhile he knew almost everything ..
(My life at times can be very complicated)

it was easy to open up to him because we had never met and we were never going to meet

But the more information he had the more power he was gaining over me .. and then the black mail started ...

this whole thing sort of morphed into a daddy daughter thing with him controlling everything that happened in my sex life

like if a guy asked me out I would say.. let me think about it .. then ask daddy and he would decide... before the date we would get together on gmail chat and go over what i was gonna wear and what would happen

flirt with this guy
stay away from that guy
when i had sex with my BF how it was gonna happen and how he would cum
etc etc

he was like a mentor but at other times sadistic. But he was VERY smart and sort of clever. But he was like ... people smart .. not book smart ..

Really want some like 40 plus .. worldly .. experienced

but as the months past once in awhile he would say things that raised a red flag
and when i lost trust for him it just fell apart

when the "thing" fell apart it sort of left a void ...
been looking for someone ever since but...
Chemistry is a must ..

Single parent .. I have a young daughter this must not affect..
I also work full time so in no way could this affect my job or my income..
I wont be asking you for anything besides your time and your mind
For the right man .. with the right mental ability...

Hate to just say this out right but ..
When i was .. my step father kept a lot of control over me .. who i could date .. what i could wear and some other things that left me a little ...
I kind of love this.
 
so... maybe 2 years ago there was a male dom I chatted with once in awhile
he was in texas .. as time went by he got more and more aggressive with asking personal questions and for some reason i just felt compelled to answer ..

he would act like he was entitled to answers or like i owed him answers
the more I answered his questions .. the more personal the questions got

he was very aggressive .. and i sort of felt like .. pushed into a corner like i had no choice to answer

and sometimes when he didn't understand .. I would have to explain situations to him
This went on for a couple months ... and after awhile he knew almost everything ..
(My life at times can be very complicated)

it was easy to open up to him because we had never met and we were never going to meet

But the more information he had the more power he was gaining over me .. and then the black mail started ...

this whole thing sort of morphed into a daddy daughter thing with him controlling everything that happened in my sex life

like if a guy asked me out I would say.. let me think about it .. then ask daddy and he would decide... before the date we would get together on gmail chat and go over what i was gonna wear and what would happen

flirt with this guy
stay away from that guy
when i had sex with my BF how it was gonna happen and how he would cum
etc etc

he was like a mentor but at other times sadistic. But he was VERY smart and sort of clever. But he was like ... people smart .. not book smart ..

Really want some like 40 plus .. worldly .. experienced

but as the months past once in awhile he would say things that raised a red flag
and when i lost trust for him it just fell apart

when the "thing" fell apart it sort of left a void ...
been looking for someone ever since but...
Chemistry is a must ..

Single parent .. I have a young daughter this must not affect..
I also work full time so in no way could this affect my job or my income..
I wont be asking you for anything besides your time and your mind
For the right man .. with the right mental ability...

Hate to just say this out right but ..
When i was .. my step father kept a lot of control over me .. who i could date .. what i could wear and some other things that left me a little ...
Contact me - I know about your uncle
 
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