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Anyway ... to get this thread back on subject

so... maybe 2 years ago there was a male dom I chatted with once in awhile
he was in texas .. as time went by he got more and more aggressive with asking personal questions and for some reason i just felt compelled to answer ..

he would act like he was entitled to answers or like i owed him answers
the more I answered his questions .. the more personal the questions got

he was very aggressive .. and i sort of felt like .. pushed into a corner like i had no choice to answer

and sometimes when he didn't understand .. I would have to explain situations to him
This went on for a couple months ... and after awhile he knew almost everything ..
(My life at times can be very complicated)

it was easy to open up to him because we had never met and we were never going to meet

But the more information he had the more power he was gaining over me .. and then the black mail started ...

this whole thing sort of morphed into a daddy daughter thing with him controlling everything that happened in my sex life

like if a guy asked me out I would say.. let me think about it .. then ask daddy and he would decide... before the date we would get together on gmail chat and go over what i was gonna wear and what would happen

flirt with this guy
stay away from that guy
when i had sex with my BF how it was gonna happen and how he would cum
etc etc

he was like a mentor but at other times sadistic. But he was VERY smart and sort of clever. But he was like ... people smart .. not book smart ..

Really want some like 40 plus .. worldly .. experienced

but as the months past once in awhile he would say things that raised a red flag
and when i lost trust for him it just fell apart

when the "thing" fell apart it sort of left a void ...
been looking for someone ever since but...
Chemistry is a must ..

Single parent .. I have a young daughter this must not affect..
I also work full time so in no way could this affect my job or my income..
I wont be asking you for anything besides your time and your mind
For the right man .. with the right mental ability...



http://forum.literotica.com/attachment.php?attachmentid=2108016&d=1604928078
 
G'day There MissMandy
I would love to chat with you, please feel free to PM
Looking forward to hearing from you
 
hi

I'm almost 44 years old

I would love to chat and get to know you better

send me a PM with any questions you have or information you wish to share anytime

hope to hear from you soon

have a great day
 
Looks like somebody could use a little discipline.


But I'll never be within 500 miles of NYC again.
 
Wow

MissMandy86 said:
so... maybe 2 years ago there was a male dom I chatted with once in awhile
he was in texas .. as time went by he got more and more aggressive with asking personal questions and for some reason i just felt compelled to answer ..

he would act like he was entitled to answers or like i owed him answers
the more I answered his questions .. the more personal the questions got

he was very aggressive .. and i sort of felt like .. pushed into a corner like i had no choice to answer

and sometimes when he didn't understand .. I would have to explain situations to him
This went on for a couple months ... and after awhile he knew almost everything ..
(My life at times can be very complicated)


it was easy to open up to him because we had never met and we were never going to meet

But the more information he had the more power he was gaining over me .. and then the black mail started ...

this whole thing sort of morphed into a daddy daughter thing with him controlling everything that happened in my sex life

like if a guy asked me out I would say.. let me think about it .. then ask daddy and he would decide... before the date we would get together on gmail chat and go over what i was gonna wear and what would happen

flirt with this guy
stay away from that guy
when i had sex with my BF how it was gonna happen and how he would cum
etc etc

he was like a mentor but at other times sadistic. But he was VERY smart and sort of clever. But he was like ... people smart .. not book smart ..

Really want some like 40 plus .. worldly .. experienced

but as the months past once in awhile he would say things that raised a red flag
and when i lost trust for him it just fell apart

when the "thing" fell apart it sort of left a void ...
been looking for someone ever since but...
Chemistry is a must ..

Single parent .. I have a young daughter this must not affect..
I also work full time so in no way could this affect my job or my income..
I wont be asking you for anything besides your time and your mind
For the right man .. with the right mental ability...

Hate to just say this out right but ..
When i was .. my step father kept a lot of control over me .. who i could date .. what i could wear and some other things that left me a little ...
Click to expand...

He left quite a sensual hole. I am not a dominant person however I feel the emptiness you are going through. I truly hope you find someone
 
MissMandy86 said:
Anyway ... to get this thread back on subject

so... maybe 2 years ago there was a male dom I chatted with once in awhile
he was in texas .. as time went by he got more and more aggressive with asking personal questions and for some reason i just felt compelled to answer ..

he would act like he was entitled to answers or like i owed him answers
the more I answered his questions .. the more personal the questions got

he was very aggressive .. and i sort of felt like .. pushed into a corner like i had no choice to answer

and sometimes when he didn't understand .. I would have to explain situations to him
This went on for a couple months ... and after awhile he knew almost everything ..
(My life at times can be very complicated)

it was easy to open up to him because we had never met and we were never going to meet

But the more information he had the more power he was gaining over me .. and then the black mail started ...

this whole thing sort of morphed into a daddy daughter thing with him controlling everything that happened in my sex life

like if a guy asked me out I would say.. let me think about it .. then ask daddy and he would decide... before the date we would get together on gmail chat and go over what i was gonna wear and what would happen

flirt with this guy
stay away from that guy
when i had sex with my BF how it was gonna happen and how he would cum
etc etc

he was like a mentor but at other times sadistic. But he was VERY smart and sort of clever. But he was like ... people smart .. not book smart ..

Really want some like 40 plus .. worldly .. experienced

but as the months past once in awhile he would say things that raised a red flag
and when i lost trust for him it just fell apart

when the "thing" fell apart it sort of left a void ...
been looking for someone ever since but...
Chemistry is a must ..

Single parent .. I have a young daughter this must not affect..
I also work full time so in no way could this affect my job or my income..
I wont be asking you for anything besides your time and your mind
For the right man .. with the right mental ability...
Click to expand...


Best of luck in your search.
 
I have. And I'd still do you if you only take some direction.
 
I sort of think Facebook / Meta will fulfill all your needs?

Probably by Version 2.112?
 
I am very sorry about this

I read this whole thing twice to make sure I was reading it correctly. Iā€™m so sorry you had this experience. In my opinion, the person in Texas was NOT a Dom and people like that make me very angry because they misrepresent what a real Dom is. Unfortunately, there are more of these "want-to-be Doms" than there are real men who don't need to go around telling everyone they are a Dom.

I believe you can tell a dominant man by the way they interact with you and by the way they carry themselves with a quiet confidence. A Dom should never need to force/coerce His sub to do anything (unless that is a kink dynamic). The Dom needs to show the sub care, love, and respect so that the sub genuinely wants to please the Dom.

There are a few things some people don't understand about D/s. First, it is a relationship of equals. The Dom is not higher or better than the sub. Both people are equal with different roles in the relationship.

Second, the Dom is powerless - the sub has the power. The sub willingly gifts her power to the Dom and can take her power back at any time. The sub has control over the "kill switch" in the relationship. A Dom trying to force or manipulate a sub is NOT how it works in a healthy relationship. This nonconsensual behavior is morally and possibly legally wrong, not to mention repulsive.

There are several responsibilities a Dom has towards his sub, one of them being to protect her (not to harm). His behavior appears to have significantly hurt you in a way that makes me sad and angry.

Sorry about this rant. It just bothers me the evil that men do in the name of ā€œbeing the Domā€.

Jack Fabulous
54 / M / VA


"Anyway ... to get this thread back on subject

so... maybe 2 years ago there was a male dom I chatted with once in awhile
he was in texas .. as time went by he got more and more aggressive with asking personal questions and for some reason i just felt compelled to answer ..

he would act like he was entitled to answers or like i owed him answers
the more I answered his questions .. the more personal the questions got

he was very aggressive .. and i sort of felt like .. pushed into a corner like i had no choice to answer

and sometimes when he didn't understand .. I would have to explain situations to him
This went on for a couple months ... and after awhile he knew almost everything ..
(My life at times can be very complicated)

it was easy to open up to him because we had never met and we were never going to meet

But the more information he had the more power he was gaining over me .. and then the black mail started ...

this whole thing sort of morphed into a daddy daughter thing with him controlling everything that happened in my sex life

like if a guy asked me out I would say.. let me think about it .. then ask daddy and he would decide... before the date we would get together on gmail chat and go over what i was gonna wear and what would happen

flirt with this guy
stay away from that guy
when i had sex with my BF how it was gonna happen and how he would cum
etc etc

he was like a mentor but at other times sadistic. But he was VERY smart and sort of clever. But he was like ... people smart .. not book smart ..

Really want some like 40 plus .. worldly .. experienced

but as the months past once in awhile he would say things that raised a red flag
and when i lost trust for him it just fell apart

when the "thing" fell apart it sort of left a void ...
been looking for someone ever since but...
Chemistry is a must ..

Single parent .. I have a young daughter this must not affect..
I also work full time so in no way could this affect my job or my income..
I wont be asking you for anything besides your time and your mind
For the right man .. with the right mental ability."
 
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Something dark about myself ... hmmm
The thing is how do i know if i would even be interested in you
 
MissMandy86 said:
Something dark about myself ... hmmm
The thing is how do i know if i would even be interested in you
Click to expand...

You are already very interested ; to think otherwise is simply delusional
Your hesitation is only self harm & not the good kind
Hurry along , before time runs away from you
regret only follows to devour you like a wolf
x
 
chiquitito said:
You say "and then the black mail started", but it doesn't seem that he blackmailed you in any way.

What payment or other thing of value did this man in your past ever demand of you or receive from you?

You say you liked what you had, but it doesn't seem you've described accurately what that was. You say you don't want the next Daddy/manipulator to affect your income, but you enjoyed the blackmail, which I doubt even existed.

Instead of bumping and re-posting your original description, you should revisit it and explain clearly in fewer words exactly what you are seeking. It's a bit of a mess, which may be why you've not been successful in finding a new Daddy/micromanager.
Click to expand...
Uhhh ... what payment did he receive? I guess my submission

Blackmail isnt always for money

If your not interested then just move on. I guess this outburst is because you messaged me a couple times and i didnt answer or ...
But what you posted here proves to me your not right .. nothing personal. I am sure you would fit nicely into another situation with someone else

If anyone has questions i would be happy to answer them here or in pms

Yes i am sort of still looking but have sort of given up
Why is that ??
Most who contacted me are assholes others dont understand. Others want to save me. Others arent real doms or dont have any real life experience
Others cant be realistic. Some are just pic collectors..

Yes i have probably passed over a few diamonds but at times i was getting a lot of pms ..and it was easy to lose messages . Its hard to find the one you thought had potential when you have 50 messages

Now with the new upgrades i can mark a message

Like i said if anyone has any questions
Just ask ..
 
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