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MissMandy86 said:
so... maybe 2 years ago there was a male dom I chatted with once in awhile
he was in texas .. as time went by he got more and more aggressive with asking personal questions and for some reason i just felt compelled to answer ..

he would act like he was entitled to answers or like i owed him answers
the more I answered his questions .. the more personal the questions got

he was very aggressive .. and i sort of felt like .. pushed into a corner like i had no choice to answer

and sometimes when he didn't understand .. I would have to explain situations to him
This went on for a couple months ... and after awhile he knew almost everything ..
(My life at times can be very complicated)

it was easy to open up to him because we had never met and we were never going to meet

But the more information he had the more power he was gaining over me .. and then the black mail started ...

this whole thing sort of morphed into a daddy daughter thing with him controlling everything that happened in my sex life

like if a guy asked me out I would say.. let me think about it .. then ask daddy and he would decide... before the date we would get together on gmail chat and go over what i was gonna wear and what would happen

flirt with this guy
stay away from that guy
when i had sex with my BF how it was gonna happen and how he would cum
etc etc

he was like a mentor but at other times sadistic. But he was VERY smart and sort of clever. But he was like ... people smart .. not book smart ..

Really want some like 40 plus .. worldly .. experienced

but as the months past once in awhile he would say things that raised a red flag
and when i lost trust for him it just fell apart

when the "thing" fell apart it sort of left a void ...
been looking for someone ever since but...
Chemistry is a must ..

Single parent .. I have a young daughter this must not affect..
I also work full time so in no way could this affect my job or my income..
I wont be asking you for anything besides your time and your mind
For the right man .. with the right mental ability...

Hate to just say this out right but ..
When i was .. my step father kept a lot of control over me .. who i could date .. what i could wear and some other things that left me a little ...
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That's fucked. Dude doesn't really understand the dynamic. At least in my opinion.

I could do this. But, yeah, chemistry is a must. I need to get to know you a bit. PM me. Since you're inbox is a mess, include your snap if you have it. We'll talk there.
 
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MissMandy86 said:
so... maybe 2 years ago there was a male dom I chatted with once in awhile
he was in texas .. as time went by he got more and more aggressive with asking personal questions and for some reason i just felt compelled to answer ..

he would act like he was entitled to answers or like i owed him answers
the more I answered his questions .. the more personal the questions got

he was very aggressive .. and i sort of felt like .. pushed into a corner like i had no choice to answer

and sometimes when he didn't understand .. I would have to explain situations to him
This went on for a couple months ... and after awhile he knew almost everything ..
(My life at times can be very complicated)

it was easy to open up to him because we had never met and we were never going to meet

But the more information he had the more power he was gaining over me .. and then the black mail started ...

this whole thing sort of morphed into a daddy daughter thing with him controlling everything that happened in my sex life

like if a guy asked me out I would say.. let me think about it .. then ask daddy and he would decide... before the date we would get together on gmail chat and go over what i was gonna wear and what would happen

flirt with this guy
stay away from that guy
when i had sex with my BF how it was gonna happen and how he would cum
etc etc

he was like a mentor but at other times sadistic. But he was VERY smart and sort of clever. But he was like ... people smart .. not book smart ..

Really want some like 40 plus .. worldly .. experienced

but as the months past once in awhile he would say things that raised a red flag
and when i lost trust for him it just fell apart

when the "thing" fell apart it sort of left a void ...
been looking for someone ever since but...
Chemistry is a must ..

Single parent .. I have a young daughter this must not affect..
I also work full time so in no way could this affect my job or my income..
I wont be asking you for anything besides your time and your mind
For the right man .. with the right mental ability...

Hate to just say this out right but ..
When i was .. my step father kept a lot of control over me .. who i could date .. what i could wear and some other things that left me a little ...
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Geez!!! You’re fucked up Mandy.
My kinda girl. 😘
 
Suggestion

Mandy

Whatever you do......make sure you select someone who knows the difference between "your" and "you're"

Good grammar always helps ;)
 
MissMandy86 said:
Ok ... what kind of threads?
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Brat or Little

Something to rattle the mods cage so she can move it or delete it or censor it in general.

AMA fuck that guy and his throat fucking teddy bear 🧸 , ask him fifty shades of grey trivia questions or if he remembers the bullies names in his life. Their first , middle and last names.


:devil:
 
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Paendragon said:
That's fucked. Dude doesn't really understand the dynamic. At least in my opinion.

I could do this. But, yeah, chemistry is a must. I need to get to know you a bit. PM me. Since you're inbox is a mess, include your snap if you have it. We'll talk there.
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MissMandy, I know his post is from December, but if you’re still looking, you may want to PM Paendragon. He’s a good one. :)

MissMandy86 said:
Ok ... what kind of threads?
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Please do come post in the BDSM Cafe! Whether making new threads or posting in the existing threads, we are like-minded kinky folks and I think you’ll like it over there. :)
 
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You're just no where near me.

You should come hang out on the Author's Hangout though where the truly weird people do. No need to be an author, but maybe it would entice you to write a few things.
 
jaF0 said:
You're just no where near me.

You should come hang out on the Author's Hangout though where the truly weird people do. No need to be an author, but maybe it would entice you to write a few things.
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I really came here to write about how i was sexally abused growing up but soon realized they would never publish it
 
MissMandy86 said:
I really came here to write about how i was sexally abused growing up but soon realized they would never publish it
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The only rule in that area is about age. That's a big one, so you can't describe any sexual activity before age 18, wanted or not. There's also a thing about consent which might hamper your efforts.

But you seem to have come out of it OK from what I've seen. I'm still not sure what you're looking for though.
 
Also my grammer is terrible.. i wrote some things at fet life but nobody teads anything over there. So that kind of kills your motivation but over there nothing has to be approved.. it just goes live ..


When i first came here .. i wanted to write a book or do a blog and was asking ... sort of hinting to an older man i knew about the legality ... and he told me to start here at literotica .. he said he use to do buisness with the owner here ... years ago ..and if i had any problems or questions to contact manny and to tell manny i am a good friend of his.. but it was obvious they wouldn't approve that stuff and then the political board got my attention... so there was no point to contact that guy
 
Laurel and Manu are the two honchos. Never knew anyone that knew either of them. Rumor has it they used to have real life get togethers way back when Lit first started in the '90s.

Their one hard and fast rule is the age thing. Too many problems I guess, even for true life tales.
 
I'm not sure there are too many real editors here, but there are a few who volunteer. I haven't in the past.

Have you thought about setting up an account on Wordpress and telling your tale there? Not sure what their rules are.
 
Anyway ... to get this thread back on subject

so... maybe 2 years ago there was a male dom I chatted with once in awhile
he was in texas .. as time went by he got more and more aggressive with asking personal questions and for some reason i just felt compelled to answer ..

he would act like he was entitled to answers or like i owed him answers
the more I answered his questions .. the more personal the questions got

he was very aggressive .. and i sort of felt like .. pushed into a corner like i had no choice to answer

and sometimes when he didn't understand .. I would have to explain situations to him
This went on for a couple months ... and after awhile he knew almost everything ..
(My life at times can be very complicated)

it was easy to open up to him because we had never met and we were never going to meet

But the more information he had the more power he was gaining over me .. and then the black mail started ...

this whole thing sort of morphed into a daddy daughter thing with him controlling everything that happened in my sex life

like if a guy asked me out I would say.. let me think about it .. then ask daddy and he would decide... before the date we would get together on gmail chat and go over what i was gonna wear and what would happen

flirt with this guy
stay away from that guy
when i had sex with my BF how it was gonna happen and how he would cum
etc etc

he was like a mentor but at other times sadistic. But he was VERY smart and sort of clever. But he was like ... people smart .. not book smart ..

Really want some like 40 plus .. worldly .. experienced

but as the months past once in awhile he would say things that raised a red flag
and when i lost trust for him it just fell apart

when the "thing" fell apart it sort of left a void ...
been looking for someone ever since but...
Chemistry is a must ..

Single parent .. I have a young daughter this must not affect..
I also work full time so in no way could this affect my job or my income..
I wont be asking you for anything besides your time and your mind
For the right man .. with the right mental ability...
 
And I go back to what I asked before:

jaF0 said:
Guess I'm a little confused as to what you really want. A Dom that doesn't tell you what to do?
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By nature a 'dom' or 'daddy' more or less tells you what to do, but you say you don't want that. I guess what you need to do once you get a contact you want to work with is set out specific hard boundaries. Let them know what's in play and what isn't. And establish on 'out of play' line of communication to talk about what they might have done that you didn't like.

You seem like a real doll to look at, but you also seem like what used to be called 'high maintenance'.
 
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