mfm 3somes

[Guest]

My wife and I have been married for 9 yrs. We have just started to talk about a 3some. The question is if you are married have you ever thought of or actaully participated in such a thing, and would you do it again?(with your spouse)

 

[Jenne64]

In answer to your question. Yes I've swung with hubby before and yes we would do it again-)) You have to have a strong relationship in the first place is the main criteria for swinging in my opinion. That coupled with a serious discussion and ensuring that one partner is not just doing it to please the other.
I've been married 11 years tommorow and it was only in the last two years that I felt confident enough within that relationship to actually swing.
Talk about it and make sure it's what you BOTH really want first and then determine the rules. Same room only? etc, etc. Make sure you BOTH wan the same thing out of the experience and that you are BOTH happy with it.
Sorry I'm not trying to treat you like a couple of kids honestly. I just have seen so many first timers where the woman is only doing it to please her man that I think it's an important point to raise.
If you do decide to go ahead then have a great time -))
regards,
Jenne64