Messages of support for VelvetDarkness

[onyxvixen]

Who lost her mother in tragic circumstances a few days ago. Velvet was very close to her mum and took on many aspects of her care as her mother's Huntington's disease progressed. Velvet's mum was still in reasonable health and mostly independent at home when she died unexpectedly. I know Velvet had hoped for much more time with her.

Those here who know and care for Velvet as I do, are invited to leave messages of condolence and support for when she does return to the threads.

Vixen

 

[shy slave]

Hi Velvet

I hope you are holding up ok

Love shy

 

[Dragonteeth]

Velvet,

You have my thoughts too.

I wish you the very best for when you do eventually feel able to come back.



Dragon

 

[gypziedoll]

Velvet,

I am so sorry for your loss precious one. You are in my thoughts and prayers always....I lit candles for both you and your mum. If you need anything, you know I am here for you always Sweetheart.

*hugs*

Gypzie

 

[mickyp123]

Dear Velvet, let the love thoughts of everyone here lift and support you and give that t inner strength you have a boost, thinking of you V xxx Micky

 

[minxy69]

Velvet

We only chatted a few times...but my thoughts are with you now.

Much love

Minxy

 

[gypziedoll]

Velvet, Lord Bob asked me to send you his condolences because he can not access the site at this time.

Please know you are in his thoughts, in your time of need.

 

[@}-}rebecca----]

ooh Velvet my condolences

 

[RJMasters]

VelvetDarkness,

I know this is a hard time for you and I would just like to send some good thoughts in your direction.

RJ

 

[BeachGurl2]

Velvet, I'm so very sorry for your loss. You and your family will be in my thoughts and prayers.

 

[sereneone4u]

Velvet,

Very sorry for your loss. You and yours are in my prayers for strength and peace.


Hugs,

Sheri

 

[Malich]

I've said this already elsewhere but you know where I am if you need anything sweetheart

 

[catalina_francisco]

Sorry for your loss Velvet. Having myself lost a parent unexpectedly a couple of years ago, I know there is nothing that can be done or said which will make the pain any less or bearable, nor any way we can make up for the time we often feel we have lost with that loved one. They say time heals but my experience is not so much as it heals but if we take the time to give to ourselves, look at those moments we did have and the special things we shared, it can bring about a little more peace than all pain, but it doesn't happen overnight nor chase away the bad times forever. For me there are always those unexpected moments when something catches me off guard and I am spun back to that moment, but I am learning to let myself go there and in not fighting it or looking for reasons or wishing I could turn back the clock I am able to make room for some happy memories to take away just a smidgen of the pain and remind me of the time we did have, more so than what we lost. My thoughts are with you and I hope you find your own way through your grief which both honours your mother and allows you to give yourself a little hug when you most need it.

Catalina

 

[KinkyBoyUK]

im so very sorry to hear about this velvet *HUGS* we're all thinking of you

 

[Emes]

Velvet......i am soooo sorry to hear of your loss. As has been said, nothing can take away the pain you feel right now. Try to remember the good times you shares, think of the good things....dont dwell on the not so good.

for you......and hugs too

 

[neonflux]

I am so, so sorry for your loss

Velvet, being new to the BDSM forums, I know that we don't know each other, but still want to send my condolences. Having lost my father when in my early 20s (he'd suffered permanent brain damage when I was 12), I know how difficult it is to lose a parent. I am also close to my Mom and am very scared that I might lose her now that she's reaching her late 70s. You are in my heart and prayers. ~ Neon

 

[VelvetDarkness]

Thankyou all so very much

For all your support and kindness. I must confess that I cried when I read all these posts (I'm being such a girl these days).

Mum will be buried this week and after that I'll be staying with onyxvixen in London for a while. Hopefully I can work through things a little bit there and be back on the threads again before too long.

Sending everybody a and a HUG

Thanks again guys

Velvet

 

[Trinique_Fire]

Unfortunately, I don't know Velvet, but that doesn't mean I can't offer my prayers and hugs.

Here they are...

x 84 thousand

 

[snowy ciara]

My best to you and your family, Velvet Darkness.

 

[Emes]

For all your support and kindness. I must confess that I cried when I read all these posts (I'm being such a girl these days).

Mum will be buried this week and after that I'll be staying with onyxvixen in London for a while. Hopefully I can work through things a little bit there and be back on the threads again before too long.

Sending everybody a and a HUG

Thanks again guys

Velvet

Theres nothing wrong with being a girl....or for having a cry

hugs and love coming your way

 

[graceanne]

*hugs*

I'm really sorry.

 

[babiesmiles]

My condolences

 

[mickyp123]

((((((((((hugggggggggggggs))))))))))

 

[gypziedoll]

Theres nothing wrong with being a girl....or for having a cry

hugs and love coming your way

I agree with you Emes.....

hugs and love Sweet One

 

[onyxvixen]

Well folks, it's the funeral today. Hope we get through it ok.

You'll be pleased to hear Velvet is bearing up well and already talking about burying her mother's cats alive with their owner so the old V is still very much in residence.

Thanks for all your words of comfort and condolence. I know they have meant so much to Velvet