Mental Domination

[curious476]

I think the mental side of domination is the most powerful form of this exciting activity. I find that a woman who knows how to use her emotions, language facial expressions and her demeanor has much more control over me than one with whips and chains. One of the most exciting things for me is to be challenged to perform something very kinky to prove how much I want my lady to enjoy our relationship. Making me suck some strange man's cock, eating cum from her pussy, and especially if it is done in front of strangers. One of the most humiliating and exciting things I have done for her is to lay nude in a bath house blindfolded and while she watches from a private room I suck all cummers. I don't have a problem eating cum but it's the most exciting when it is some guy she has just met and she tells him he can fuck her if her husband can suck his cock. Why must there be physical restraint and pain for it to be Domination?

 

[AngelicAssassin]

I think the mental side of domination is the most powerful form of this exciting activity ... Why must there be physical restraint and pain for it to be Domination?

i had to think carefully how to put this to avoid pissing you off or scaring you away. "The Acronym" is actually made up of six parts covered by four letters. Bondage more or less covers physical restraint. Sadism/Masochism more or less covers pain. That's not to say you can't get either aspect under Discipline, Domination, Submission, or pain with your Bondage and physical restraint with your Sadism. How you implement/receive your "kink" (pardon the shorthand) is your business, no matter how much another practitioner may protest, but that discussion currently has threads ad nauseam on the board.

The simple fact is some dominants don't engage in physical restraint nor pain play. When i've used either, i did so to amplify the mind fuck or vice-versa.

 

[Lizzie_Borden]

Why must there be physical restraint and pain for it to be Domination?

The simple fact is some dominants don't engage in physical restraint nor pain play. When i've used either, i did so to amplify the mind fuck or vice-versa.

Exactly this. Why assume that those things *must* be involved?

They don't have to be if you don't want them to be.

I think the only *must* really, is that you're happy within your relationship, whatever that entails.

 

[MisterSir]

Why must there be physical restraint and pain for it to be Domination?

There doesn't. It's just fun.