Men who like chatting about their wives

Me too . . .

love to spy on my wife being fucked, she knows the guy or gal involved doesn't. Hidden cameras are great!

On the "Men who like chatting about their wives" thread on Lit, you said:

love to spy on my wife being fucked, she knows the guy or gal involved doesn't. Hidden cameras are great! I'm mid-60s and she's 27 years old, a former student of mine in Ottawa, Canada.

I've only done that once, and recently. My wife and I have just started on an experience that we've successfully done twice. My wife has many admirers, some have been friends of both of us for nearly five years we've been in Argentina. I guess the male friends have been especially attentive to her since our first child was born and her beautiful, large breasts became even more spectacular, often hard with milk. It took about 3 years for me to convince her that I loved watching how other men and boys were turned on by her, and now we've twice invited young men who have increasingly drooled over her to dinner, without their suspecting that my wife is going to suck them off. They really are friends now, equally for both of us, it's just that in addition to their friendship with her and with me, quite apart, I'm sure they've masturbated more than once thinking of her. She genuinely loves me, and when I suggest something she doesn't want to do (read: doesn't feel like it right then, isn't ovulating), I gracefully don't press her.

She dressed beautifully for those two candlelit dinners, all feminine smiles. She gracefully, deliberately let our guest know how much she liked him, even, at my suggestion, letting a breast brush or rest against his shoulder or arm when serving more wine. So, I had an idea (your idea). Because I so enjoyed seeing her make them happy. I thought the ultimate would be to watch without their knowing. I bought a quite expensive very small camera, set it up, hidden in a hanging plant in our kitchen, and wired everything to my computer upstairs. I phoned the second of the two satisfied young men, the one she'd become really excited with, chatted with him, and asked if he'd like to have time alone with her. I did not tell my wife. And I asked him, if he wanted to see her more in the future, to promise me to never tell him of my role.

I explained that if he went to our house about 8 the following morning (last Monday), I'd be away. I suggested he "drop in" unexpected. I was sure she'd invite him for coffee, since I would have finished my breakfast just minutes before and she'd be cleaning up. And, not expecting anybody, she'd be dressed in very little, probably panties, slippers and a long shirt, something like that. I told him if he just waited until she was at the sink in the breakfast nook, an go up behind her, embrace her and kiss her on the nape of the neck, then lift her breasts with both hands, I was sure she'd respond. (the truth is, I did not know how she might react.)

Monday morning I woke early, so horny for her, imagining what might happen while I was away, I could hardly hide my excitement. I nursed at her breasts much less time than I wanted, went upstairs to turn on the computer, connect the streaming images from the cameras downstairs in the kitchen, an synchronise my iPad with the Mac. Downstairs, I turned on the cameras just before my wife showed up to make breakfast, watched the clock and left home 10 minutes to eight.

It worked. On my iPad I watched an amazingly clear picture of the kitchen, my wife going out of range to answer the doorbell, appearance of our guest, his sitting at the breakfast nook; of her serving him coffee, and then she was at the sink stacking my dishes and the other breakfast things, about to wash them as she talked with him. She was barefoot and wore only an old cotton housedress that is my favorite. It is so feminine on her that when she wears it I can't keep my hands off her.

I didn't know what to expect next. Our friend didn't do quite what I'd suggested. He walked up behind her and at the same time he kissed the nape of her neck, first lifting her long hair away, he cupped her breasts in both hands, hugging her to him. She did nothing. She froze. Not cold freezing, just stopped moving. Her chin came up so that her head lay back against his shoulder, and one of his hands came up to bring her face around to his and he kissed her. She did let him, but then pulled, started to say something, but he covered her mouth with hers. She turned to him and they kissed for, I don't know, long moments.

He turned her around again, leaning her forward over the sink, raising both her hands with his, so that her hands were pressed almost higher than her head flat against the tiles at the back of the sink. He threw the skirt of her dress up over her back, fumbled with his pants, and then I watched.
 
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I have to give this place some credit because I had the most amazing sex last night. . . . My stomach is in knots over this but in a thrilling dangerous type way. I'm actually shivering like I'm cold right now.

Bravo! I know that hollow-gut feeling, a combination of fear, lust and curiosity. Wonderful stuff!
 
I'll have to figure out what to do next.
It's all I'm thinking about and has been all day.

thank you for sharing that all with us WP ~ and for one I'm glad you've gotten something good out of it!

I've had those "shivers" before - in anticipation of doing something so incredibly taboo that you just shake / quake with energy

for me - it was when I started swinging - and I would be planning the day before (how to get to the meet, what time to leave work, when to stop for directions etc.) - all the while being on Lit or Tumblr with a pardon that wouldn't quit

back to topic ~ have you ever tried swing clubs? We have a few here in montreal for example - it could be a good way for you two to enjoy yourselves in that you can play together and have others watch and vice versa. It's the the big step of full on swap but you still get a lot of the same thrill (especially - i would assume - if you go on nights where single men are welcome)

keep us posted!
 
I have to give this place some credit because I had the most amazing sex last night. The wife and I haven't been enjoying sex much the past couple of years.
The reason I came here was to flirt with another woman maybe even do some online play.
Instead I've been consumed more with something from my past and actually thinking of it happening to my wife. The thought of my wife with another man is making my head spin with lust. Been with her since 1988, never have I thought about it till now.
I looked at the categories of these thoughts trying to figure where I fit in. I'm not a cuck, a wife watcher or those things.
It all goes back to my one girlfriend who cheated behind my back many years ago. The thought of my wife fucking someone else behind my back is my biggest thrill.
I talked with a couple of you gents here and decided to bring up the subject to her. All I thought was how can I do this without getting a negative reaction.
A long story short I told her all about what happened years ago and how just now I fantasize it with her.
She was extremely surprised with what happened years ago yet very inquisitive.
This all happened when the two of us were watching television. When we went to bed she came out and asked me what kind of things do I think of with her in this manner. She was horny. My wife hasn't been horny for a long time.
We were both aroused so I told her I've been thinking of the guy she works with. This guy is just over 40, he's married with a teen. Where they work, they have to travel locally together a couple of times a week to different companies. So they have lunch together, sometimes dinner depending. I'm not trying to get ahead here saying there is anything going on between them because nothing is.
I ended up screwing her twice last night. Doing this pillow talk or whatever you call it was incredible.
The entire time it was all about this one guy. I tried to bring up other scenarios but she just kept going on about this one.
First this has definitely sparked our sex life. I had butterflies last night during all this. I've haven't been with another woman since around new years '87. But this was such a thrill that it felt new.
She really got into it. I've never seen her like this ever. I had a vasectomy over ten years ago so she's not fixed. She even said during this that he'd need to wear condoms.
I know I'm saying all this with a hard on and excitement. I really don't know where we left this or where she stands.
First and foremost I'd say we spiced up our sex life. I don't know what she's actually thinking. Tonight we can talk again, maybe have sex again and go on from where we left off.
I know she's not going to jump his bones today or anything, but I feel I planted something in her head. Is it just pillow talk fantasies? Is it more? The way she was last night sure seemed more than just fantasy, but maybe I'm not thinking straight all riled up.
I am really loving the feeling I have right now. My stomach is in knots over this but in a thrilling dangerous type way. I'm actually shivering like I'm cold right now.
I start thinking different angles. Is this something to ignite our sex life? Could this be something she actually wants to do? Has he come on to her before and she turned him down? Is this something she wants and now I've basically given her permission?
I'm off work for six weeks so I have way to much time on my hands.
I'd like to get other peoples views on what's happening looking in from the outside. This is all new to me, I guess to both of us.
sounds to me like she's all in...
 
On the "Men who like chatting about their wives" thread on Lit, you said:

love to spy on my wife being fucked, she knows the guy or gal involved doesn't. Hidden cameras are great! I'm mid-60s and she's 27 years old, a former student of mine in Ottawa, Canada.

I've only done that once, and recently. My wife and I have just started on an experience that we've successfully done twice. My wife has many admirers, some have been friends of both of us for nearly five years we've been in Argentina. I guess the male friends have been especially attentive to her since our first child was born and her beautiful, large breasts became even more spectacular, often hard with milk. It took about 3 years for me to convince her that I loved watching how other men and boys were turned on by her, and now we've twice invited young men who have increasingly drooled over her to dinner, without their suspecting that my wife is going to suck them off. They really are friends now, equally for both of us, it's just that in addition to their friendship with her and with me, quite apart, I'm sure they've masturbated more than once thinking of her. She genuinely loves me, and when I suggest something she doesn't want to do (read: doesn't feel like it right then, isn't ovulating), I gracefully don't press her.

She dressed beautifully for those two candlelit dinners, all feminine smiles. She gracefully, deliberately let our guest know how much she liked him, even, at my suggestion, letting a breast brush or rest against his shoulder or arm when serving more wine. So, I had an idea (your idea). Because I so enjoyed seeing her make them happy. I thought the ultimate would be to watch without their knowing. I bought a quite expensive very small camera, set it up, hidden in a hanging plant in our kitchen, and wired everything to my computer upstairs. I phoned the second of the two satisfied young men, the one she'd become really excited with, chatted with him, and asked if he'd like to have time alone with her. I did not tell my wife. And I asked him, if he wanted to see her more in the future, to promise me to never tell him of my role.

I explained that if he went to our house about 8 the following morning (last Monday), I'd be away. I suggested he "drop in" unexpected. I was sure she'd invite him for coffee, since I would have finished my breakfast just minutes before and she'd be cleaning up. And, not expecting anybody, she'd be dressed in very little, probably panties, slippers and a long shirt, something like that. I told him if he just waited until she was at the sink in the breakfast nook, an go up behind her, embrace her and kiss her on the nape of the neck, then lift her breasts with both hands, I was sure she'd respond. (the truth is, I did not know how she might react.)

Monday morning I woke early, so horny for her, imagining what might happen while I was away, I could hardly hide my excitement. I nursed at her breasts much less time than I wanted, went upstairs to turn on the computer, connect the streaming images from the cameras downstairs in the kitchen, an synchronise my iPad with the Mac. Downstairs, I turned on the cameras just before my wife showed up to make breakfast, watched the clock and left home 10 minutes to eight.

It worked. On my iPad I watched an amazingly clear picture of the kitchen, my wife going out of range to answer the doorbell, appearance of our guest, his sitting at the breakfast nook; of her serving him coffee, and then she was at the sink stacking my dishes and the other breakfast things, about to wash them as she talked with him. She was barefoot and wore only an old cotton housedress that is my favorite. It is so feminine on her that when she wears it I can't keep my hands off her.

I didn't know what to expect next. Our friend didn't do quite what I'd suggested. He walked up behind her and at the same time he kissed the nape of her neck, first lifting her long hair away, he cupped her breasts in both hands, hugging her to him. She did nothing. She froze. Not cold freezing, just stopped moving. Her chin came up so that her head lay back against his shoulder, and one of his hands came up to bring her face around to his and he kissed her. She did let him, but then pulled, started to say something, but he covered her mouth with hers. She turned to him and they kissed for, I don't know, long moments.

He turned her around again, leaning her forward over the sink, raising both her hands with his, so that her hands were pressed almost higher than her head flat against the tiles at the back of the sink. He threw the skirt of her dress up over her back, fumbled with his pants, and then I watched.
dam this is SO hot. I'd LOVE to do this
 
Loving the recent personal stories on this thread. Very, very hot!
 
More talk last night, sex and a bj.
I think it's best to go slow with this and see what happens. I already feel great since it has really sparked our sex life again. The thought of it becoming real is something that I'd like, but best to play it slow.
 
More talk last night, sex and a bj.
I think it's best to go slow with this and see what happens. I already feel great since it has really sparked our sex life again. The thought of it becoming real is something that I'd like, but best to play it slow.
your very correct. Just enjoy every second of it. I've found actually making this stuff happen is kinda hard anyway and fantasy is usually better than reality. But my wife is very picky and we live in a very rural area. Yu might nt have that problem. What seemed to help a lot for me is talking about while actually fucking, it seemed to help her get into it. That and the trick to getting what you want is giving her what she wants. But every relationship is different
 
Love chatting about watching her have sex. She has recently started posting and answering PM's here. Gets her worked up. We watch the video and pics we have of her together sometimes. She will make comments on where and how the video could be better. Love it.
 
your very correct. Just enjoy every second of it. I've found actually making this stuff happen is kinda hard anyway and fantasy is usually better than reality. But my wife is very picky and we live in a very rural area. Yu might nt have that problem. What seemed to help a lot for me is talking about it while actually fucking, it seemed to help her get into it. That and the trick to getting what you want is giving her what she wants. But every relationship is different

Don't forget, jacoblee697, that in the end, it's the woman who decides, and that decision often comes simultaneously with her estres-secretion during ovulation, when she's most receptive.My wife's like that, and I think all woman are pretty much unstoppable when they are ovulating. When at that time of month, my wife has done some amazing things I'd never have guessed of her, displaying a willingness and creativity that has a life of its own.
 

That's not exactly what I'm thinking. I seem to be more into her doing it behind my back, at least with me not around. I do think I'd eventual like to watch her.
The cuckold, wife offering, wife being a slut with different men isn't really it.
It all comes back to many years ago when my girlfriend and my buddy were fucking behind my back.
Right now sharing this fantasy play is amazing. I joined here because our sex life was almost dead, now it's the best it's been in many years.
We're not moving ahead for now, just keeping it as a fantasy. Who knows, a week, month, several months from now we may want to make it real.
Last week none of this was even a thought to me. She has thought of it though and has been, which is something I find really exciting about her.
Most men would flip their lid in this situation, it makes me want her more. It's really hard to explain.
 
It is hard to explain for sure. For us she did it with my blessing. And I'd be lying if I said I didn't enjoy the after effects.
 
That's not exactly what I'm thinking. I seem to be more into her doing it behind my back, at least with me not around. I do think I'd eventual like to watch her.
The cuckold, wife offering, wife being a slut with different men isn't really it.
It all comes back to many years ago when my girlfriend and my buddy were fucking behind my back.
Right now sharing this fantasy play is amazing. I joined here because our sex life was almost dead, now it's the best it's been in many years.
We're not moving ahead for now, just keeping it as a fantasy. Who knows, a week, month, several months from now we may want to make it real.
Last week none of this was even a thought to me. She has thought of it though and has been, which is something I find really exciting about her.
Most men would flip their lid in this situation, it makes me want her more. It's really hard to explain.

gottcha WP
 
Dear DREAMER & WONDERPONDER110 . . .


Hi all three of you,

Having given much thought over time to the role of Step-downer and, simultaneously, Lover, Exploiter, Pimp and proud Possessor of my wife, I've come to terms with two opposing forces: INDULGENCE (better and more accurately seen as, REVELLING IN ANOTHER MAN RIDING IN MY SADDLE), and . . . enjoying HER sexual encounter AS IF I WERE SHE (aka, REVELLING IN BEING RIDDEN AS IF I WERE A WOMAN).

So, it is presenting my wife with a broader dimension: Renewal through fresh first-time encounters and at the same time providing her with stability. And, giving myself Renewal through those same first-time encounters, and stability through having her come back to me, to the life, the home, the family we share.
 
My wife

My favorite sexual fantasy is other men having sex with my wife. So I love talking to men about how they would screw her.

Guys- I'd love to hear from you. PM me if you'd like to talk.
 
I share my better half
It's my idea took some work for her to agree she won't meet alone I must be there her idea
But the lust in her eyes when there having sex is unbelievable and for me the sex after he's gone is great also
Happy to chat about her
 
Well said!

I share my better half
It's my idea took some work for her to agree she won't meet alone I must be there her idea
But the lust in her eyes when there having sex is unbelievable and for me the sex after he's gone is great also
Happy to chat about her

Your words, " . . . the lust in her eyes when they're having sex is unbelievable," says it all. And " . . . the sex after he's gone . . ." is so true! Recently, my wife did one of the most exciting, arousing post-adventure things ever: Just after he finished inside her (I was lying beside them, watching, caressing her), she got up from sitting on him facing him, and turned around to sit facing my feet and sat on my face.
 
Well said!

I share my better half
It's my idea took some work for her to agree she won't meet alone I must be there her idea
But the lust in her eyes when there having sex is unbelievable and for me the sex after he's gone is great also
Happy to chat about her

Your words, " . . . the lust in her eyes when they're having sex is unbelievable," says it all. And " . . . the sex after he's gone . . ." is so true! Recently, my wife did one of the most exciting, arousing post-adventure things ever: Just after he finished inside her (I was lying beside them, watching, caressing her), she got up from sitting on him face-to-face, and then turned around to sit facing my feet and sat on my face, wiggling a little to settle fully, until my nose was inside her.
 
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Don't forget, jacoblee697, that in the end, it's the woman who decides, and that decision often comes simultaneously with her estres-secretion during ovulation, when she's most receptive.My wife's like that, and I think all woman are pretty much unstoppable when they are ovulating. When at that time of month, my wife has done some amazing things I'd never have guessed of her, displaying a willingness and creativity that has a life of its own.
i love this. Very well said, do you write. Got to say it turned me on
 
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